Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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if you are jumping through hoops for a woman and trying hard to impress in 2023 you just a clown at the circus. the less you care the more you gain that's just how the universe works in general. women also have a 6th sense so all that "vibes" shyt is true to an extent they can pick up on it. they watch whast you do more than what you say IMO.
 

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the word "settling" is like a slur nowadays :mjlol:
thing isnt that they settled

its that they werent disillusioned in the first place

they were satisfied with the types of people/men that women now look down at

it helps that competition used to be ones city or neighborhood; whereas now, youre competing against the world or country due to online dating and instagram
 

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Most women that grew up in this era (social media) are emotionally and mentally stunted. Most women below the age of 30 wouldn’t know what a good man looks and acts like or even what to do with one.

So you get that hot and cold act. I’ve been back in the dating game for going on 2 years now and what I’ve noticed is that (disclaimer: this is MY experiences) no matter the age women don’t know how to properly lockdown a good man. Most throw you sex and hope that’s enough to make you “wife”. Again, that’s just been my experiences with ladies ranging in age from 21 to 38, I turn 39 in a couple weeks.

I’ve even had candid conversations with some of them and asked “do you even know how to KEEP a man”. The answer is a bunch of juelzing usually. Society hasn’t held women accountable. As a man only thing you should do is peep game and move accordingly to how YOU want to move. Everything else falls in line once you concern yourself with what you want.
very eloquently put
i am 32 years old and notice the same thing not from only women 30 and below but mid 30s too

even on a micro level, when you check them for some bullshyt they do - they have no understanding of how to rectify the situation. be it through a gesture, contrition, humility etc., they would rather just sit there and wait for you to get over it. in the meantime, your resentment is building with each instance of this til you break up with them
 
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i told my ex, the only things i needed from her were peace, trust, cooperation, respect and a cooked dinner on the days i come home from the office.
as a bonus, her wearing her natural hair every now and then.

the only thing she could really do consistently was the cooking part :laff:.they dont know how to keep a nikka.

thing is most dudes put up with it and just cope by cheating instead. as a result the women think they're infallible
 

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i told my ex, the only things i needed from her were peace, trust, cooperation, respect and a cooked dinner on the days i come home from the office.
as a bonus, her wearing her natural hair every now and then.

the only thing she could really do consistently was the cooking part :laff:.they dont know how to keep a nikka.

thing is most dudes put up with it and just cope by cheating instead. as a result the women think they're infallible

sounds like no respect for a black man.

Damn not even natural hair?

:snoop:
 

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very eloquently put
i am 32 years old and notice the same thing not from only women 30 and below but mid 30s too

even on a micro level, when you check them for some bullshyt they do - they have no understanding of how to rectify the situation. be it through a gesture, contrition, humility etc., they would rather just sit there and wait for you to get over it. in the meantime, your resentment is building with each instance of this til you break up with them

If you’re THAT guy, you’ll receive this. But 98% of the time since they have the whole world in their phone, they don’t have too lol.

There’s another guy with more bread, better looking, elephant trunk, can do back flips on the box, better condo / house, etc

:mjlol:
 

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i told my ex, the only things i needed from her were peace, trust, cooperation, respect and a cooked dinner on the days i come home from the office.
as a bonus, her wearing her natural hair every now and then.

the only thing she could really do consistently was the cooking part :laff:.they dont know how to keep a nikka.

thing is most dudes put up with it and just cope by cheating instead. as a result the women think they're infallible

Most women do the bare minimum knowing that they have orbiter of simps who will be ok with that.
 

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It’s like playing in the nba and now you’re back to playing in Uzbekistan or something
I’d rather just retire

Even these little Toronto rats I was talking to knew I was travelling today and not even a one word message

Time to clean out my phone again :blessed:
 

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Translation: I am a sexually liberated white woman who has no idea what it takes to form meaningful bonds so I will continue with the apps because its the only avenue where I can find men who will give me validation or attention for ego purposes. The women in my family are either divorced or single so I have no way of figuring out how this works....

:patrice::manny:
 

Nkrumah Was Right

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It’s like playing in the nba and now you’re back to playing in Uzbekistan or something
I’d rather just retire

Even these little Toronto rats I was talking to knew I was travelling today and not even a one word message

Time to clean out my phone again :blessed:

Toronto women over 30 are trash. Under 30, I see glimmers of hope
 

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i told my ex, the only things i needed from her were peace, trust, cooperation, respect and a cooked dinner on the days i come home from the office.
as a bonus, her wearing her natural hair every now and then.

the only thing she could really do consistently was the cooking part :laff:.they dont know how to keep a nikka.

thing is most dudes put up with it and just cope by cheating instead. as a result the women think they're infallible

Peace is impossible for some damaged women
 
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