Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Sonny Bonds

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Aye Brehs, I need yall's help PLEASE!!!:

I'm 26 and managed to get this 21 year old Brehettes number from a dating website without asking for it yesterday. (She tried to give me her IG and I lied about not having one). Anyways we've been texting for 2 days and I'm trying to keep her interested. I just ask her simple questions like what is she in school for and what does she like for a man to do for her and shyt.

Lowkey, I'm trying to finesse a relationship (or just sex out of her) but there is one problem... I'm a VIRGIN (I KNOW)

I'm really trying not to fukk this up, but im anxious as fukk.

SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY.
Texting gets boring. You need to ask her out.
 

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helpful tips from another young breh
I just ask her simple questions like what is she in school for and what does she like for a man to do for her and shyt
Never ask this again
Lowkey, I'm trying to finesse a relationship (or just sex out of her) but there is one problem... I'm a VIRGIN (I KNOW)

I'm really trying not to fukk this up, but im anxious as fukk.
first, eliminate the notion of “finessing” anything out of a woman. Be firm on what you want, whether it’s sex or companionship.

Second, does she know you’re a virgin? If she doesn’t, you can either tell her now to lower her expectations or let it play out.

If you do the latter, I would say to enjoy the moment. Enjoy her body, her breasts, her hips, lips, etc… the more you focus on if you’re doing a good job or if you’re doing it “right” the more mechanical it’ll come off.
 

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helpful tips from another young breh

Never ask this again

first, eliminate the notion of “finessing” anything out of a woman. Be firm on what you want, whether it’s sex or companionship.

Second, does she know you’re a virgin? If she doesn’t, you can either tell her now to lower her expectations or let it play out.

If you do the latter, I would say to enjoy the moment. Enjoy her body, her breasts, her hips, lips, etc… the more you focus on if you’re doing a good job or if you’re doing it “right” the more mechanical it’ll come off
She doesn't know ima virgin. But, I'll tell her when/if the time gets right. I'm winging it right now Breh. Fake it till you make it.

:lolbron:
 

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She doesn't know ima virgin. But, I'll tell her when/if the time gets right. I'm winging it right now Breh. Fake it till you make it.

:lolbron:
she will be expecting you as a 26 yr old man to know what you’re doing. From positioning, to sensitivity, to angling… unless you go in complete comfortable with yourself it’ll show

I say be honest especially if it’s a strictly sexual relationship, but :manny:
 

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she will be expecting you as a 26 yr old man to know what you’re doing. From positioning, to sensitivity, to angling… unless you go in complete comfortable with yourself it’ll show

I say be honest especially if it’s a strictly sexual relationship, but :manny:
Dayum. If I tell her, she might get turned off.

:lupe::snoop:
 

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Dayum. If I tell her, she might get turned off.

:lupe::snoop:
that’s the double standard of virginity.

Some women (if you are very attractive and solid) are cool with it. Some even find it hot to be the first woman you’ve been with.. but a 21 yr old wants a man who knows what he’s doing

If you’re honest, she’ll probably move on OR keep it in mind. If you lie, your performance will tell it all.
 

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that’s the double standard of virginity.

Some women (if you are very attractive and solid) are cool with it. Some even find it hot to be the first woman you’ve been with.. but a 21 yr old wants a man who knows what he’s doing

If you’re honest, she’ll probably move on OR keep it in mind. If you lie, your performance will tell it all.
Mission will be accomplished however
 
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