Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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WIA20XX said:
It's not as if most of us don't already run most of our lives according to what we want.

But we tend to give up choice and freedom to either get something or accommodate others at the expense of ourselves.

It starts with family and then school. It becomes work. And then that "compromise" mentality extends to relationships with women.

When do you get what you want?

Why does it seem that everyone else gets what they want, in a very real and tangible material sense?

Family get that they want. School get that they want. Job get way more then they deserve, even if you're making 6 figures (that's by design).

And with females, you gotta tiptoe and p*ssyfoot around because chicks get mad, get turned off, get this and that, all the while soaking up your time, effort, attention, and money.

And by the time she slobbing or riding or arching the back - it was never as good as you imagined it would be.

Sure you're into it in the moment, but after the nut, you come to your senses. This raggedy beach is painful to even talk to. And she's back to asking for more, demanding even. And because you're not really trying to get back out there, you give in a little.

She might stay, she might leave.

It's rarely up to you.

So that is why you tolerate the chick taking forever to get ready, always being late, not being in the mood to get ready..

And it's not just her, it's not just the sexy ones, not just the beautiful ones, not even just the ones you date.

You gotta tolerate this sheet from all of them, damn near everywhere. Even your mama trip sometimes.

All I'm saying is for once in your life, tell a hoe she can go kick rocks because of her terrible behavior.

Burn the damn bridge.

She's not going to change, none of them will. In fact, you might end up taking some consequential damage because hoes talk.

But for once, get a taste of freedom, of manhood.
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This one I can understand. For guys like you and me we can take rejection and KIM, but sadly there are some twisted pieces of shyt out here who can't take being told I'm not interested by a woman with any grace.

So it's easier for a woman to let those sorts of guys give her their number and she can block it later.
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I get that, but how does she know whether I'm a bitter incel who can't take rejection or a regular dude just trying to get to know her after we talked and vibed and whatnot?

maybe it's my :flabbynsick: showing, but getting a number meant you passed her first filter and could continue vibing. Guess that's out the window now.
 
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Digital Omen said:
I get that, but how does she know whether I'm a bitter incel who can't take rejection or a regular dude just trying to get to know her after we talked and vibed and whatnot?

maybe it's my :flabbynsick: showing, but getting a number meant you passed her first filter and could continue vibing. Guess that's out the window now.
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I believe that’s his point. She doesn’t so she takes the route she deems safest.
 
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Digital Omen said:
I get that, but how does she know whether I'm a bitter incel who can't take rejection or a regular dude just trying to get to know her after we talked and vibed and whatnot?

maybe it's my :flabbynsick: showing, but getting a number meant you passed her first filter and could continue vibing. Guess that's out the window now.
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Consider this, and this happens to me too, though I am a bit younger than you,

in a previous era, say 15 years ago, a phone number was still kind of an intimate thing. Remember getting girls numbers in your yearbook? It was a sign of trust, connection, maybe desire, whatever. Then it was texting around 2008/2009, which kind of downgraded the intimacy level, because it became so easy to just text with someone, then ghost, ignore a text, block a number.

Then with social media rise around 2012, it became more important, but also kind of a lesser version. Why get a number when you can get a view into that persons life, with a snapchat profile/an insta profile, Tik Tok? Then, from a kind of digital distance, assess the situation further. I have NEVER had social media, so for me, it's all like intellectual/academic understanding, I have never flirted with someone by liking their pics, or had someone like mine, or sub me on Snap. But, think how powerful and addicting that form of flirtation must be? All the steps they do on social media---you add someone, you follow someone, you love their pics, you comment on their pics, you flirt via emoji and videos, and then finally meet in person. That's your answer. I'm trying to send ONE TEXT and get that scheduled.

Mentioned previously but last week, had the same kind of convo, a plan, a mutual girlfriend, and we go to exchange and she wants my insagram, there is no insta, we exchanged numbers, but she never replied. Sometimes, that old school approach will get you noticed, but, for someone on the other end, it may feel like trying to hit an outside three, when you haven't even made a lay up. And, when I played ball, on the street, all I hit was 3's, that's just my mindset.
 
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WIA20XX said:
It's not as if most of us don't already run most of our lives according to what we want.

But we tend to give up choice and freedom to either get something or accommodate others at the expense of ourselves.

It starts with family and then school. It becomes work. And then that "compromise" mentality extends to relationships with women.

When do you get what you want?

Why does it seem that everyone else gets what they want, in a very real and tangible material sense?

Family get that they want. School get that they want. Job get way more then they deserve, even if you're making 6 figures (that's by design).

And with females, you gotta tiptoe and p*ssyfoot around because chicks get mad, get turned off, get this and that, all the while soaking up your time, effort, attention, and money.

And by the time she slobbing or riding or arching the back - it was never as good as you imagined it would be.

Sure you're into it in the moment, but after the nut, you come to your senses. This raggedy beach is painful to even talk to. And she's back to asking for more, demanding even. And because you're not really trying to get back out there, you give in a little.

She might stay, she might leave.

It's rarely up to you.

So that is why you tolerate the chick taking forever to get ready, always being late, not being in the mood to get ready..

And it's not just her, it's not just the sexy ones, not just the beautiful ones, not even just the ones you date.

You gotta tolerate this sheet from all of them, damn near everywhere. Even your mama trip sometimes.

All I'm saying is for once in your life, tell a hoe she can go kick rocks because of her terrible behavior.

Burn the damn bridge.

She's not going to change, none of them will. In fact, you might end up taking some consequential damage because hoes talk.

But for once, get a taste of freedom, of manhood.
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