Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[King]

How do you know you look better than them to the women they are engaging with?

So attractive women in your area only go out at night and stay inside all day otherwise?

When you go out at night, do you go by yourself?

You were asked about hobbies but didn’t really answer. So you don’t have any that are not based on being online?

1. I just know 2. From what I’ve seen pretty much 3. Yeah 4. Nope

U coming across as desperate. Women smell that a mile away. Just relax and be cool.

How?

Honestly, I don't know if you're "hard" case or not, but acknowledging that your game has problems is the first part.

Lemme ask you this, can you get into a small talk type conversation with ANYONE you meet - girls, women, kids, teenagers, old people, cops, cashiers, bus driver, etc?

Because that's the underlying skill set for shooting the gift with broads.

If you can't small talk - you gotta break that apart into its components

• Assessment of them
• Acknowledgment of your own emotions and body language
• Approach
• Topics - With females - Food, Music, Popular People, Dating, Relationships, and finally Sex
• Delivery - Are you shaking like a leaf? Are you rushing through your words? Are you making eye contact? Are you purposefully not making eye contact?
• Reaction - How is she reacting? How are you reacting to her reaction?
• Improvisation - Are you talking about things that allow you to improvise?
• ETC

Without having a the play by play on "80 girls" - I can't do more than point you in this direction.

That said, pat yourself on the back, most guys would kill themselves after approaching 80 girls in a weekend and not getting any traction.

That alone tells me you have the foundation to be GREAT.

Nope. I mean I could if I was forced to but I don’t have great conversations.

 

[King]

how do you approach them? my bad if you already said it

iunno. to get 0 success out of that many approaches is kinda astounding. what works for me is just being direct and to the pt

hey, i saw you and I thought you were really pretty. would love to get to know you some time...you from around here? blah blah. let me get your number

but i dont do clubs, i meet women in broad daylight / on road. at the gym, grocery stores, subways etc. anywhere but clubs pretty much. my style isnt conducive to clubs

If I’m direct, immediately get the “i have a boyfriend, sorry, i have to go, etc.”

 

[The ADD]

1. I just know 2. From what I’ve seen pretty much 3. Yeah 4. Nope

How?

Nope. I mean I could if I was forced to but I don’t have great conversations.

That part is hilarious

So you go out by yourself and rapid fire approach. Yeah that’s just going to look weird to most women.

 

[King]

Mirrors exist

 

[Ohene]

If I’m direct, immediately get the “i have a boyfriend, sorry, i have to go, etc.”

i get those too, and i am sure most of the time its a lie.
but maybe 3 to 4/10 times i get them digits. 3/80 is wild man. inbox a pic of yourself or sumn lol

 

[Apollo Creed]

That part is hilarious

So you go out by yourself and rapid fire approach. Yeah that’s just going to look weird to most women.

nikkas behaving like legit Cat Daddy holla monsters like its 1984

 

[The ADD]

Mirrors exist

You lost the plot. I asked you how you knew you looked better than those guys in the eyes of those women. You just know but aren’t getting any traction with them.

Doesn’t compute

 

[WIA20XX]

real shyt ive always agreed with that. the west is a wasteland for black men

I got some Naija homies, and they tell me that Aunt such and such has a good village girl waiting for them when they get tired of playing around.

The West has done something to us.

 

[King]

You lost the plot. I asked you how you knew you looked better to those guys in the eyes of those women. You just know but aren’t getting any traction with them.

Doesn’t compute

Speak for yourself, I already explained that in my first post.

 

[King]

i get those too, and i am sure most of the time its a lie.
but maybe 3 to 4/10 times i get them digits. 3/80 is wild man. inbox a pic of yourself or sumn lol

Trust me it’s not my looks. Hell I had a few women this weekend tell me how handsome I was as they rejected me.

 

[The ADD]

Speak for yourself, I already explained that in my first post.

Hey if that mentality is working then carry on

 

[Ohene]

Trust me it’s not my looks. Hell I had a few women this weekend tell me how handsome I was as they rejected me.

do you ever holla at shorties outside the club?
80-90% of the women ive fukked in my life, i met just going about my day

 

[King]

do you ever holla at shorties outside the club?
80-90% of the women ive fukked in my life, i met just going about my day

Nope. Clubs work best with my lifestyle atm.

Said in an earlier post how my area is. Not really an option to intentionally go out during the day unless it’s like a college campus or something.

 

[Ohene]

Nope. Clubs work best with my lifestyle atm.

Said in an earlier post how my area is.

iunno fam...3/80 means it isnt the best option
but i hear you

 

[Rocket Scientist]

I understand what the brother is saying.He is telling truth. Only he knows his approach and how he looks etc. At same time it is difficult out here. At end of day be upfront and be YOU. That smooth shyt doesnt work etc best to be upfront and direct then to come off soft. Some women will rock with you,some wont. Most of these women dont have bf's. Women are excellent liars,womens lies are almost as powerful as a truth. Women always have built in excuses for men they arent feeling. "im busy" "i have a bf" "i gotta go" "my break is up" etc. Women are intimidated by strong,upfront men. They want a weak beta to control,maniuplate . They are doing you a favor when they reject you,shoot what if majority of those women had stds' etc you never know and shouldnt care why they dont want you. Dont even count your failures. A chick turns you down its forget her and on to the next. A shooter doesnt cry over a shot they miss they keep shooting. Yes some rejections hurt more then others but still the art is to not care.When you dont care you win.