Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[BigTyme Records]

Dudes glorify these bum ass hoes too much. Look at how often dudes be on some “damn i messed up” shyt vs being on some “i said what i said”

Right I’d much rather have irrational confidence than be lacking confidence

That shyt can get you FAR even if you not “attractive “. I’ve seen it too many times

 

[Ohene]

Exactly. I been preeching in here find chicks that actually like you and you dont gotta run all these stupid ass madden audible's for basic human interactions

thats why i be direct when approaching. she either feeling me/attracted to me or she isnt.
would rather cut through the bs

 

[The ADD]

Lol at Madden Audibles

 

[Apollo Creed]

Right I’d much rather have irrational confidence than be lacking confidence

That shyt can get you FAR even if you not “attractive “. I’ve seen it too many times

Lmfao yeah when you calculating plays you come off fake as shyt.

 

[Apollo Creed]

thats why i be direct when approaching. she either feeling me/attracted to me or she isnt.
would rather cut through the bs

Yeah i rather cut my losses then go through hoops and STILL not get sex lmfao

 

[360dagod]

I notice a lot of dudes on here are struggling mentally and and or with attracting women


shyt kinda sad to hear, nikkas need to improve they self esteem

It's not even always that...

Everyone who enters here are at different "levels" in life when it comes to women/life/wants in general...

Some nikkas need step-based details on how to build whatever they trying to accomplish...Some from the starting point..

It's like going to the gym and the sifu being upset your roundhouse kick sucks on the 2nd day of class..

 

[VertigoKnight]

do people hate on you guys a lot in general?

and especially when you’re in the club pulling?
@WIA20XX @Ohene @VertigoKnight

if so, do you guys believe in being humble about it?
or do you guys fully step into that “fukk off,” you madd type of energy around other guys?

Other guys find me cool. When I'm at the club I'm there to dance mostly. But I also make sure if I'm conversing with guys they know it's all love and no hating, no screw faces. I'm very humble about it.

Black clubs in Vancouver are chill. Everyone is there to have a good time and the vibe is good.

 

[360dagod]

preach i keep trying to tell folks that looks don’t matter like that. i just can’t get the words out to ppl here without looking like a defective monster.

im not the best socializer and the clubs aren’t really my thing. i don’t like the setup of having to hunt for women vs a bunch of other sausages the concept seems corny and forced to me, so i don’t enjoy going out like that. everything is so performative and im just a lax, ambitious kind of nikka my values don’t align with city girl and current trends and shyt like that. i absolutely cannot stand the theme of mfs constantly staring and mugging me either.

you don’t get bytches just because you look good it doesn’t go like that.

So if your not a good socializer and looks don't matter, besides paying your way in, what criteria are you using to gain motion in life?

 

[africngiant]

Lmfao yeah when you calculating plays you come off fake as shyt.

tbh i think some people are just predestined to a better social reality than others. someone can take your advice of “just be yourself” but then they look goofy

while you being yourself may come off as more attractive to women. it might not necessarily be clear to why you’re keeping their attention, so your advice might not be directly applicable to others. some nikkas have to go to the drawing board or they’re just gonna keep taking the same ls

some nikkas just “got it”

me being myself has never kept any female attention. i run out of things to talk about (boring/weird) or they just think im not masculine enough (black women)

 

[Apollo Creed]

tbh i think some people are just predestined to a better social reality than others. someone can take your advice of “just be yourself” but then they look goofy

while you being yourself may come off as more attractive to women. it might not necessarily be clear to why you’re keeping their attention, so your advice might not be directly applicable to others. some nikkas have to go to the drawing board or they’re gonna keep being the same ls

some nikkas just “got it”

me being myself has never kept any female attention. i run out of things to talk about (boring/weird) or they just think im not masculine enough (black women)

how can you "look goofy" being yourself? If you can't be yourself might as well just die.

wtf. The key is find people who have common interest, gravitate to chicks who are into you, the end.

If you "coming off goofy" being your natural self clearly you are in an environment where nobody has anything in common with you thus you bounce.

 

[africngiant]

So if your not a good socializer and looks don't matter, besides paying your way in, what criteria are you using to gain motion in life?

im trying not put my mind on women so much but when you work hard and still never get rewarded it makes you feel like something’s wrong with you

im just chasing money then gain better confidence and stories by being able to do more

 

[africngiant]

how can you "look goofy" being yourself? If you can't be yourself might as well just die.

wtf. The key is find people who have common interest, gravitate to chicks who are into you, the end.

If you "coming off goofy" being your natural self clearly you are in an environment where nobody has anything in common with you thus you bounce.

this is philly and we’re black everyone wants rough hood nikkas even the non-black women increasingly i noticed.

that goofy comedian jokester shyt ain’t in no more. you can’t really even be normal at this point

 

[Apollo Creed]

this is philly and we’re black everyone wants rough hood nikkas even the non black women increasingly i noticed.

that goofy comedian jokester shyt ain’t in no more

who would even want to be around folks who want something the polar opposite of them? If you aint there for work then move, and if you are there for work stack ya bread up and build in time to travel to places where you are celebrated.

 

[The ADD]

im trying not put my mind on women so much but when you work hard and still never get rewarded it makes you feel like something’s wrong with you

im just chasing money then gain better confidence and stories by being able to do more

Rewarded with what?

 

[africngiant]

who would even want to be around folks who want something the polar opposite of them? If you aint there for work then move, and if you are there for work stack ya bread up and build in time to travel to places where you are celebrated.

facts that’s why i don’t put myself out there anymore at my young age cause most women around me are like this.

ill definitely be traveling and building my portfolio. i haven’t posted on ig in 3 years since before the pandemic so ppl might be surprised