Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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It's true though if a chick really wants to see you and spend time with you she will. Date number 3 with the ghananian chick she told me she is super busy the next few weeks. :ehh:

She told me she only has next friday available but I had other plans so I'm like all good no worries. Then a few hours she calls me and says that if I can do breakfast on Saturday she'll wake up early so we can spend a good amount of time together before she has to go to her prior engagements.
 

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It's true though if a chick really wants to see you and spend time with you she will. Date number 3 with the ghananian chick she told me she is super busy the next few weeks. :ehh:

She told me she only has next friday available but I had other plans so I'm like all good no worries. Then a few hours she calls me and says that if I can do breakfast on Saturday she'll wake up early so we can spend a good amount of time together before she has to go to her prior engagements.

If she’s choosin, you in
 

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It's true though if a chick really wants to see you and spend time with you she will. Date number 3 with the ghananian chick she told me she is super busy the next few weeks. :ehh:

She told me she only has next friday available but I had other plans so I'm like all good no worries. Then a few hours she calls me and says that if I can do breakfast on Saturday she'll wake up early so we can spend a good amount of time together before she has to go to her prior engagements.

Exactly. Bottom line, if a chick is hot on you, then you'll know. No point trying to psychoanalyse everything and complicate that basic fact.
 

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Exactly. Bottom line, if a chick is hot on you, then you'll know. No point trying to psychoanalyse everything and complicate that basic fact.

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just stunted on a bytch in the gym who dubbed me before. she looked pissed as i was working through my sets quick and intensely right next to her. then she hung her head down in shame when we walked past one another near the cleaning towels

had a :obama::aicmon:facial mixture the whole time

they be thinking the grass is greener on the other side when you look after yourself and try to game them. they be young gassed and delusional at first

then they use that confidence to go fw dirty nikkas in the meantime who dog them with no commitment then they have their moment of realization when they’re back alone that you was that nikka all along

the shyt nikkas gotta go through socially.

when you knew you were best for her but now it’s too late cause she’s a young dumb bytch<<<<<


that was the best session in my life
 

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Fellas, I got a date with this chick coming up. We met in NY, took her IG back in January but was out the country since. Now I’m back, seeing her next week. I noticed since January, some weirdo kept stalking my IG, watching my stories, and he had her as a mutual. Dude been stalking for like 4months, never missing anything. I wasn’t even doing anything with the girl yet so i didn’t care. Curiosity got the best of me and I asked her recently if she knew the dude. Turns out it’s an obsessive ex. This dude still madly in love with her. He out there talking about how he’s depressed blablabla. Part of me feels for the dude but man up tf, plus I really wanna get to know that chick. Also wtf is up with these dudes not being able to move on and obsessed to the point of harassment out there. Feels like 80% of girls got an ex like that. shyt is annoying. Tbh this made her and I bond even more. These boyz moving wrong. He’s a simp but shiii I ain’t tryna get shot for a girl. You never know out here.

What y’all think?

What she tells you isn't what she tells him...

When she around you, I'm tired of this nikka

When she around him, I'm not sure about us
 

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just stunted on a bytch in the gym who dubbed me before. she looked pissed as i was working through my sets quick and intensely right next to her. then she hung her head down in shame when we walked past one another near the cleaning towels

had a :obama::aicmon:facial mixture the whole time

they be thinking the grass is greener on the other side when you look after yourself and try to game them. they be young gassed and delusional at first

then they use that confidence to go fw dirty nikkas in the meantime who dog them with no commitment then they have their moment of realization when they’re back alone that you was that nikka all along

the shyt nikkas gotta go through socially.

when you knew you were best for her but now it’s too late cause she’s a young dumb bytch<<<<<


that was the best session in my life

What happened? Y’all went out a few times, she fell back and started dating another dude you know?
 

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Its wild how men can literally jump in MMA ring and risk life and death, Bungee Jump from a chopper, Stick their head in the mouth of a tiger with no fear but when it comes to approaching a attractive woman.. Their whole insides paralyze and you'll hear millions of excuses
they build women up in their heads... you not gonna beat your own impressions of a chick. really its an inner battle.
 

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The first video from the white broad hits the nail on the head. Once you understand this, then you won't have to do all kinds of cartwheels cos if a chick is really interested she'll know how to make everything flow on easy street.


Correct. The “dinner request” the “flowers” all that extra ish doesn’t matter if she REALLY likes you. The next part is making sure she’s infatuated with you.

It should be easy when you’re in each others presence. Any difficulty or any tension, shows she doesn’t like you.
 
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What happened? Y’all went out a few times, she fell back and started dating another dude you know?
we had a class together and i started texting her during break. i thought she would be an easy lay cause she was always joking about dikk. i never said anything provocative but she eventually started to pry me about wanting to f*** her after i already pretty much insinuated it early on with us chilling in her crib and throwing on a movie and maybe getting drinks after break and she was fine with it.

some weeks later in texting, one night she randomly starts pressing me then eventually outs me to her classmates in the all-female study group chat she added me to of the other girl friends around us who would frequently talk with me during that class. smh

why would i text you if i didn’t want to fukk? she got hype and escalated a situation out of proportion when i was never even being vulgar to fukk up my reputation.

then she texts me again after that situation: “are we going to try this again?”

i just ignored the bytch
 
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Its wild how men can literally jump in MMA ring and risk life and death, Bungee Jump from a chopper, Stick their head in the mouth of a tiger with no fear but when it comes to approaching a attractive woman.. Their whole insides paralyze and you'll hear millions of excuses
Yep. It’s all ego. All the pain from rejection is due to ego. Your life is fine without that girl:heh:
 

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went to smoke shop on 4/20 to get papers. started talking to this girl that works there. I forgot to buy a lighter so a few minutes later I go back and buy it. As I am leaving she says you should stop by again. I said maybe I will. I stopped by on Monday which is like 5 days later. She was acting different. I bought a drink we talked for a little. Got kinda weird so I left. Maybe she was having a bad day but bytches are fickle. She didn't ask me to come back just to buy shyt. Debating on stopping by one more time. I asked her for her name when I was leaving and she didn't ask me for mine back either.
 

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went to smoke shop on 4/20 to get papers. started talking to this girl that works there. I forgot to buy a lighter so a few minutes later I go back and buy it. As I am leaving she says you should stop by again. I said maybe I will. I stopped by on Monday which is like 5 days later. She was acting different. I bought a drink we talked for a little. Got kinda weird so I left. Maybe she was having a bad day but bytches are fickle. She didn't ask me to come back just to buy shyt. Debating on stopping by one more time. I asked her for her name when I was leaving and she didn't ask me for mine back either.

She’s just working & being nice. Move on.
 
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