Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[360dagod]

I’m low key fukked up rn. Not high or drunk but the conversation I had on the way home I had w the driver. Some old cracker married w kids and I ask how is it for him and he said he loves despite the ups and downs (paraphrasing) and it’s a beautiful experience watching something you raise grow up and transition into adulthood. The part where he fukked me up at was my follow up was what moment did he realize this was the one for him and he said from the moment he laid eyes on her and how he had to basically be in the friend zone for 2 years before she reciprocated those feelings for the honkey. I say all that to say maybe, just maybe don’t give up too easily on a girl if she don’t like you initially or doesn’t fukk u within the time frame you’re accustomed to. He also added how the friend aspect laid a great foundation for their 27 year marriage. I know we live in an instant gratification era and given the climate this method might work, but as they say good things come to those who wait. This interaction makes me want to rekindle what I had I just don’t feel like myself anymore.

Adjusting what he said to current times, he is right in more ways than one...

Obviously no one waiting 2 years, but if she's checking the list, the fact that you are BUILDING good times and ENJOYING life with each other is setting up a FOUNDATION to where she will put herself in a position to not only have sex, but to INVEST in you and with you...

The problem is the reality check that some men get when they ain't getting that 1st round tko and the bytch they WANT making them "work"...

Every woman isn't going to be some lonely/desperate joint that's gonna fukk YOU off rip...

The pimps had it right all along...

When you base your "game" on conversing with the mind before sex, you get way more Mileage from women....

 

[MikelArteta]

Just landed back home and i already wanna go back to Cape Town.

Permanently

Travel fellas. Cannot stress that enough. The world is incredibly massive.

How were the women breh

 

[RealAssanova]

How were the women breh

Cannot begin to describe rein…

 

[Apollo Creed]

What does "I'm not looking for anything right now" mean? Is it code for like "I'm down to fukk but nothing serious"?

I'm really tryna settle down so I don't want nothing like that

You answered your own question

 

[skyrunner1]

I’m low key fukked up rn. Not high or drunk but the conversation I had on the way home I had w the driver. Some old cracker married w kids and I ask how is it for him and he said he loves despite the ups and downs (paraphrasing) and it’s a beautiful experience watching something you raise grow up and transition into adulthood. The part where he fukked me up at was my follow up was what moment did he realize this was the one for him and he said from the moment he laid eyes on her and how he had to basically be in the friend zone for 2 years before she reciprocated those feelings for the honkey. I say all that to say maybe, just maybe don’t give up too easily on a girl if she don’t like you initially or doesn’t fukk u within the time frame you’re accustomed to. He also added how the friend aspect laid a great foundation for their 27 year marriage. I know we live in an instant gratification era and given the climate this method might work, but as they say good things come to those who wait. This interaction makes me want to rekindle what I had I just don’t feel like myself anymore.

Mannnn, 30 years ago dudes didnt have the internet to trade notes, while he was putting in work for 2 years she was getting that work from somewhere else, if you knew better, you do better. He is playing to the results but its a different game now even more so. This dude would be top candidate to be torn out the frame nowadays. There is like a 30 page thread right now in TLR on this very thing. You met the one guy who made it out relatively unscathed but we know there is maybe 10 who got torn out frame, divorce rape, or even ate a bullet. This info is just to help you move with eyes wide open breh. I would never NEVER tell a breh wait 2 years

I think @Reality broke it down perfectly in that thread.

https://www.thecoli.com/threads/ok-this-redpill-crap-is-actually-being-spread-on-facebook.967906/post-48883626

This doesn't make sense, though. It's literally the opposite.

When I value a woman and can see a future with her, that woman gets more of what she wants. I'll buy her dinner, plan nice dates, and I'll wait longer for sex than I would if I think that's how she generally operates WITH EVERYONE.

I value you as a woman = you get more of the things that women tend to want/what you want.

It's literally the opposite in the situation you mentioned for women.

I value you as a man = you get less of the things that you want as a man.

Some women don't seem to understand that, for good men, we look at you with the fundamental question of "Can I feel good about a choice to make this woman's needs a priority in my life? Can I feel good about taking on the stress and responsibility that involves? Can I feel good about making that commitment not just with her, but with the government handing out the marriage license and potentially coming for my $ down the line."

Knowing that a woman actually holds back from you the more you seem capable of taking on that responsibility...huge, huge turn off. When I was younger, I would dog women out for this.

 

[skyrunner1]

Just a little over a week.

I'm about to post up the date.

I only asked because us being in this space we should know the fundamentals and shyt we put in place as fail safes to keep our nature in check also. Just like we know female nature, men have one also. Men are the real romantics, we love to idealize the people we just met.. In a weeks time, I would say you havent really met the women but her representative. Just keep that in mind. Atleast give it a month before the heavy descriptors. 6 months before we really feel like we know the chick.



Hope not coming across harsh, just want to keep feet on ground and not let head get in clouds. I need my brehs eyes wide open seeing all the plays. good luck I hope she the real deal for you

 

[ViShawn]

I only asked because us being in this space we should know the fundamentals and shyt we put in place as fail safes to keep our nature in check also. Just like we know female nature, men have one also. Men are the real romantics, we love to idealize the people we just met.. In a weeks time, I would say you havent really met the women but her representative. Just keep that in mind. Atleast give it a month before the heavy descriptors. 6 months before we really feel like we know the chick.



Hope not coming across harsh, just want to keep feet on ground and not let head get in clouds. I need my brehs eyes wide open seeing all the plays. good luck I hope she the real deal for you

Totally feel you! Amen on all that. LOL I haven't heard "representative" in a while. Chris Rock said that right?!
I'm still going to date other women. I think I'm going to re-create my Bumble profile. You get a huge bump when you start but after a while the algorithm pushes you down so having a reset every 30 - 60 days where you delete the app and go back is good.

 

[skyrunner1]

Totally feel you! Amen on all that. LOL I haven't heard "representative" in a while. Chris Rock said that right?!
I'm still going to date other women. I think I'm going to re-create my Bumble profile. You get a huge bump when you start but after a while the algorithm pushes you down so having a reset every 30 - 60 days where you delete the app and go back is good.

Yea Chris Rock did have a legendary bit about that in Bigger and Blacker.. Im sure thats where it originated also the canned line of "who lies more, men or women?" followed right after that bit. Not sure where I first heard it, it becomes all a blur when you build your own version of "Jeet Kune Do"

 

[WIA20XX]

Chris Rock been a truth teller since day 1.

 

[ABlackMan]

Man I feel bad I’m talking to this chick and she done been all over lmao I’m just a state traveler right now


She travel stateside for work so she’s been in my city for a while but leaves in May. We just met last week.

Everything going cool and she been feeling me but I don’t want a potential let down to happen am I overthinking it? Should I just have fun with her and become friends or not be thinking about all the extra shyt of financial comparison?

 

[The ADD]

Man I feel bad I’m talking to this chick and she done been all over lmao I’m just a state traveler right now


She travel stateside for work so she’s been in my city for a while but leaves in May. We just met last week.

Everything going cool and she been feeling me but I don’t want a potential let down to happen am I overthinking it? Should I just have fun with her and become friends or not be thinking about all the extra shyt of financial comparison?

Over thinking: Yes
Become friends: No

Highly doubt she’s looking for a friend.

 

[ABlackMan]

Over thinking: Yes
Become friends: No

Highly doubt she’s looking for a friend.

Matched on tinder. Claim she ain’t for the fukking, but I know better.

I’m tryna be her friend just to have that in the back pocket. You know what I mean roster shyt

Part of me been like just drop it. But we grown hell ain’t nothing being hurt you feel me

 

[The ADD]

Matched on tinder. Claim she ain’t for the fukking, but I know better.

I’m tryna be her friend just to have that in the back pocket. You know what I mean roster shyt

Part of me been like just drop it. But we grown hell ain’t nothing being hurt you feel me

Back pocket for 6 weeks?

I’m missing something

 

[ABlackMan]

Back pocket for 6 weeks?

I’m missing something

You bugging out lmfaoooo I’ll let you know how the p*ssy is in a few days

 

[The ADD]

Back pocket for 6 weeks?

You bugging out lmfaoooo I’ll let you know how the p*ssy is in a few days