Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[RaspberryFitted]

Some of you cats like to disagree to disagree this is how I know yall not dealing with women on everyday basis. Women do shyt for no reason.They flake cause they can.I forgot the poster but he said women change like the weather.You dont have to do anything,they just flake.It happens.

He made a valid point though

sometimes brehs simply fukk up situations they’re in. I don’t include shyt women do naturally (flake, leave you on read, pop back up in 2 months).. nothing you could of done would of changed that

I’m speaking on the self-inflicted wounds brehs like to ignore. there’s a recent thread on here about a breh who disappeared on his women for two months then found out she got another man living with her.

One on hand, it’s grimey she did that... but on the other what did you expect?

 

[RaspberryFitted]

You right about education,incarceration,But Women still make less then men for a reason.,Also depends on the field.I dont know if this right thread to get into all this but I see some of your points.

up until now, most women didn’t negotiate their salary with their employer. Some also go for low paying occupations.

but on a 1:1 scale, same role/objectives/tasks… sexism unfortunately can be the answer.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

He made a valid point though

sometimes brehs simply fukk up situations they’re in. I don’t include shyt women do naturally (flake, leave you on read, pop back up in 2 months).. nothing you could of done would of changed that

I’m speaking on the self-inflicted wounds brehs like to ignore. there’s a recent thread on here about a breh who disappeared on his women for two months then found out she got another man living with her.

One on hand, it’s grimey she did that... but on the other what did you expect?

Great point.I cant speak for other cats but you got to know and trust yourself. If you doing grimey shyt to women and then they do it back its on you.Most of us on here i assume are hard working decent men character wise who just want a great woman. But These women are just different now

 

[360dagod]

Some of you cats like to disagree to disagree this is how I know yall not dealing with women on everyday basis. Women do shyt for no reason.They flake cause they can.I forgot the poster but he said women change like the weather.You dont have to do anything,they just flake.It happens.

I just asked a question according to your strategy...

If you chalk up 100% of flakes to a bytch just "doing shyt", you might be overlooking a flaw somewhere...

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Great point.I cant speak for other cats but you got to know and trust yourself. If you doing grimey shyt to women and then they do it back its on you

pretty much. I agree with your sentiment though: I’m not a fan of drilling into young men that something is always wrong with them

Most of us on here i assume are hard working decent men character wise who just want a great woman

eh. Some dudes in this thread, on this forum, and outside irl are NOT these hard working decent men with character.

They are just as bad, if not worse, than the Women they complain about — but we’re in this weird era of Men being victims to everything so some refuse to embrace their nature.

But These women are just different now

they are unfortunately (fortunately depending on who you ask)

 

[RaspberryFitted]

I just asked a question according to your strategy...

If you chalk up 100% of flakes to a bytch just "doing shyt", you might be overlooking a flaw somewhere...

that’s what I deciphered out of your post.

Introspection is good for a Man in order for him to know himself, what he’s looking for, and how to achieve it.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

I just asked a question according to your strategy...

If you chalk up 100% of flakes to a bytch just "doing shyt", you might be overlooking a flaw somewhere...

Im saying.None of us have a womans brain.Some of them are undecisive.They cant even pick what to eat or wear. Women are funny creatures at times. They literally change their moods by the months. Not saying us men dont have flaws but lets be real unless some of us are soft we dont deserve half shyt we went thru with women.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

pretty much. I agree with your sentiment though: I’m not a fan of drilling into young men that something is always wrong with them

eh. Some dudes in this thread, on this forum, and outside irl are NOT these hard working decent men with character.

They are just as bad, if not worse, than the Women they complain about — but we’re in this weird era of Men being victims to everything so some refuse to embrace their nature.

they are unfortunately (fortunately depending on who you ask)

True but reading these posts in here and knowing a few cats off of here IRL most of us just want a decent cooperative woman with no BS or drama attached. Every case is different,what works for some wont work for others. Yes I agree strange era indeed bro.

 

[360dagod]

stop thinking its something you did, at the end she just wasn't interested.

There is another guy who did exactly what you did and she replied right away and she showed up for that date

100% of flakes isn't a bytch just waking up and saying "I'm not interested"

I can tell by the way some in here that SOME of the flakes were their fault...

that’s what I deciphered out of your post.

Introspection is good for a Man in order for him to know himself, what he’s looking for, and how to achieve it.

This is my whole point...

Every L should be reevaluated to possibly see if you did something wrong to cause that to occur..

You can never win them all, but if your losing more than you would like, it's time to go to the drawing board

 

[360dagod]

Im saying.None of us have a womans brain.Some of them are undecisive.They cant even pick what to eat or wear. Women are funny creatures at times. They literally change their moods by the months. Not saying us men dont have flaws but lets be real unless some of us are soft we dont deserve half shyt we went thru with women.

I'm going to use myself as an example

I've missed out on women due to

Logistics
Rigid in communication(not for the texting)
Lackadaisical attitude
Lack of depth Communication wise

If I chalked up every failure to a bytch just "changing", how would I be able to improve my dealings with women when I AUTOMATICALLY point the finger at them when failure occurs...

 

[Rocket Scientist]

I'm going to use myself as an example

I've missed out on women due to

Logistics
Rigid in communication(not for the texting)
Lackadaisical attitude
Lack of depth Communication wise

If I chalked up every failure to a bytch just "changing", how would I be able to improve my dealings with women when I AUTOMATICALLY point the finger at them when failure occurs...

Im saying I see your point bro 100%. Im sure some of us have been around a woman even with our flaws and all.Yes we arent perfect.We have been around a woman and she just changed something in her mind/heart made do a 360. We cant explain it and we dont know the answer but she changed.We can assume it was this and that but she just changed her mind.We can sit here and try to figure what went wrong but sometimes there are no reasons for things especially when it comes to women.

 

[Ahadi]

How do you determine if your lack of success in a city is YOU vs the environment? (might not be great for black men)

 

[Balla]

How do you determine if your lack of success in a city is YOU vs the environment? (might not be great for black men)

Do you see other black men eating?

 

[360dagod]

How do you determine if your lack of success in a city is YOU vs the environment? (might not be great for black men)

You might need someone to break barriers for you and give that "vip pass"....

In GENERAL...

If your on the outside looking in(cold approach/online dating), someone must feel that you can add something that they don't have within their current circle(s)(immediate/daily circle)to give you a chance...

If you not getting that chance, then you gotta get that "connect" to vouch for you..

 

[DaRealness]

Classic example of when the jokes write themselves.