Yeah we just communicated right through hinge.
I don't give out my number like that because If I'm not feeling it easier to cut ties
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Yeah we just communicated right through hinge.
I don't give out my number like that because If I'm not feeling it easier to cut ties
Anything between 21-25ish(no kids) must involve a more flexible strategy where sex isn't the top priority...
If your older, you should be focused on guiding/teaching/communicating/elevating...
Playing the hurry up and "nextflix-n-chill strategy burns you in the long run cuz she hasn't invested EMOTIONALLY into you...
Older joints, yeah they gotta invest on the front-end cuz the flaws are too "out there" for me to even be bothered...
Something so awkward happaned today
@Ohene @Serious
So I went to Starbucks to meet the chick.
Some other chick was there waiting for a guy and she thought j was her date and I thought I was hers. We talked for like five min and then she said the name Kevin I'm like that's not my name.
Because I was literally just talking to this chick for a day I just saw lightskin and she was lightskin and I thought it was her
Awkward as hell I left to find my date and she was like oops this is awkard
Then I met the other chick and she's like i saw you talking to some other girl and j was like yeah just ran into a old friend.
I thought the date went well at the end she gave me hug and said she had a nice time and we said bye.
By the time I get to my car and check hinge she unmatched me
this is why you need to give time to chat vs rushing to meet chicks.
IMO you need a window of time (within a week) to
1.Make sure she isn't crazy
2.Make sure she is into you more than you are into her (this yields cooperation and no bullshyt flaking).
Gas cost too much and I value my time to much to give every chick I match with a date lol. It's not efficient what so ever.
I don’t like chit chatting and ish.
It was a five min drive
The odds that some other light skin chick was there and had a date at 8pm with some other dude and my date was 8pm with a light skin chick and we both didn’t confirm who the hell we were at the beginning was just some crazy azz ish and then my date being there and seeing it all was crazy as well
The other girl could’ve been in on it lol…
eh first dates are "chit chatting" but hey it's your life.
Lol sheeshSomething so awkward happaned today
@Ohene @Serious
So I went to Starbucks to meet the chick.
Some other chick was there waiting for a guy and she thought j was her date and I thought I was hers. We talked for like five min and then she said the name Kevin I'm like that's not my name.
Because I was literally just talking to this chick for a day I just saw lightskin and she was lightskin and I thought it was her
Awkward as hell I left to find my date and she was like oops this is awkard
Then I met the other chick and she's like i saw you talking to some other girl and j was like yeah just ran into a old friend.
I thought the date went well at the end she gave me hug and said she had a nice time and we said bye.
By the time I get to my car and check hinge she unmatched me
How was the convo with the first one
Ida got her number
It was actually flowing better those 5 min than with my date
Something so awkward happaned today
@Ohene @Serious
So I went to Starbucks to meet the chick.
Some other chick was there waiting for a guy and she thought j was her date and I thought I was hers. We talked for like five min and then she said the name Kevin I'm like that's not my name.
Because I was literally just talking to this chick for a day I just saw lightskin and she was lightskin and I thought it was her
Awkward as hell I left to find my date and she was like oops this is awkard
Then I met the other chick and she's like i saw you talking to some other girl and j was like yeah just ran into a old friend.
I thought the date went well at the end she gave me hug and said she had a nice time and we said bye.
By the time I get to my car and check hinge she unmatched me
Should’ve just told her the truth
Guy she’s dealing with ain’t acting right and she needs an ego boost.
Question for all of y'all.
I been talking about dating/relationships/hollering/game FOR YEARS at this point.
I still think it's okay for women to have the vote.
At no point has learning how to run up in broads given me ideas about environmentalism or gun rights.
But I've noticed that guys trying to figure out how to get some head from chicks they met at the club, are real susceptible to Republican/Right Wing talking points.
Cats go from being afraid to walking up to random females, to marching with the Proud Boys.
I see a lot of this on the white side. I'm not at all surprised when Everlast type dudes go from rapping to rocking.
But I'm also seeing it on the Black side.
What do you think is happening?
And more importantly, since over on this side, we're really about getting your love life straight - how do we stop it?
I been talking about dating/relationships/hollering/game FOR YEARS at this point.
I still think it's okay for women to have the vote.
At no point has learning how to run up in broads given me ideas about environmentalism or gun rights.
But I've noticed that guys trying to figure out how to get some head from chicks they met at the club, are real susceptible to Republican/Right Wing talking points.
Cats go from being afraid to walking up to random females, to marching with the Proud Boys.
I see a lot of this on the white side. I'm not at all surprised when Everlast type dudes go from rapping to rocking.
But I'm also seeing it on the Black side.
What do you think is happening?
And more importantly, since over on this side, we're really about getting your love life straight - how do we stop it?
Depends on the teachings on YouTube. Some of the red pill / pill series teachers / Tate’s of the world, fall under this category. A lot of those talking points kind of correlate to it. These white boys in real life and Reddit are going through it. If they aren’t 6FT, or have facial symmetry they feel they’re life is useless. Gen Z boys got it bad, they’re also seeing Gen x & boomers, and realize they don’t want that life.
But moving forward: It’s a culmination of YouTube, lack of sex, too much social media, porn, that is distraction and lowering the confidence of men.
As for joining these groups, Maybe it’s a feeling of belonging? Feeling empowered? Dominating women?
Solution:
Can’t really stop it, you just have to be able to maneuver, stay sharp, go against the norm and approach women. Gym, social skills (get a vocal coach), stay fresh, etc.
It’s actually the best time to do this because a lot of guys are awkward and shy. I honestly just speak my mind/truth and whatever happens happens