Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

There are two keys to most women, especially in this day and age. They love attention and they are easily bored. Let's also couple that with the knowledge that women find it hard to keep themselves entertained, so entertainment is another avenue that women are largely dependent on men for. Then let's add the internet into the equation, which opens up the world for a woman to be able to interact with men worldwide. You pretty much have opened pandora's box and a woman has virtually unlimited sources to satiate her egotistical cravings for attention and her deep pleas for entertainment.

The aforementioned reasons are why it is very difficult, bordering on impossible to procure loyalty from a woman. What I want you cats to understand is that the need for most women to satisfy their appetite for attention and to procure a cure for their boredom is much greater than any notions to honor duty or to remain loyal. Women find those elements even greater than 'securing a future'. Only until she has hit rock bottom does she start to value security as greater than her need to be entertain and paid attention to, and once she has that 'locked in' in her mind, then she goes right back to seeking attention and entertainment.

This is why you so often see that married women or women with stable boyfriends are the most easy to manipulate. This is why men who women call 'jerks' or constantly complain about usually get more loyalty than the nice, stable guys who provide. They satisfy the woman's higher need for entertainment.

Given what we know about women, this is why you should be hard pressed to expect any real loyalty from her, unless she perhaps has a deeply ingrained religious/moral obligation towards loyalty. Once a woman becomes accustomed to you, you become 'boring' to her, thus failing to provide for one of her critical needs. Once she is able to figure you out, you are old news and she will either do one of two things... keep you around as a resource provider while she has her entertainment man on the side or just flat out leave you for another man.

This is why you absolutely must, as a man, have a much bigger objective than procuring women and you must only give a woman exclusivity if she can bring something to the table much greater than her vagina or attention. Those two things she can, and most often WILL, give away to the next man that can do a few tricks and keep her mind entertained. If you are to keep a woman around, she must be willing to actively work to help you procure your goals and objectives.

Otherwise, what is she really bringing to the table? That vagina who she can and in this day and age probably sharing with others for free? Her problems? What is she bringing? This is why you do NOT get in a relationship with a woman just because she is pretty or has nice sex. She needs to in some form or fashion aid you in procuring your goals... so that when she peels off, you can look back and see that at least it was not a one-sided transaction.

Its true. It's true.

a man who brings drama brings excitement, its amazing women don't finally realize years later when they hav ea bunch of kids or their 30 plus that they know what a decent stable guy.

its funny when your faithful, loyal, loving, cut out the clubbing and talking to a bunch of females you become boring get played get cheated on. But when your the a$$hole who cheats, giving her gonorrhoea, abandoning her during the rough times in her life, playing around talking to numerous girls when she is your "girl", hitting her, she stays around and is loyal loving the drama and the entertainment

Sent from royalty breh

 

[MikelArteta]

any thoughts on dealing with a woman that's way more attractive than you?


This chick im talking to now

treat her like any other broad

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

I started off the year completely focused on self improvement. I've been in the gym a lot, studying/reading. The past two weekends I've gone to a few bars. I'm trying to resist the urge to go back to the dark side. I know that would be the easiest path for me to take. It's hard to stay focused when you can easily snatch the fruit from the tree.

 

[Turbulent]

any thoughts on dealing with a woman that's way more attractive than you?


This chick im talking to now

whether a woman is a 10 or a 2, talk to them all like they are a 6. follow this rule and you'll get respect more often then not.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

i just did this and

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seriously got some ones on there.

 

[360dagod]

I have a few women friends with kids who are in their 30s...

If they had their mentality now 10 years ago,they would have been better off...

Hopefully they will find happiness

 

[sixsixtwo]

SMFH:

New state law lets mother decide who will raise children born out of extramarital affair

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

SMFH:

New state law lets mother decide who will raise children born out of extramarital affair

Wow that's sickening on so many levels.

 

[Turbulent]

SMFH:

New state law lets mother decide who will raise children born out of extramarital affair

on one hand, it's hard to feel sympathy for him cause he was sleeping with a married woman.

on the other hand, it's still fukked up based on the principle. say dude wouldn't have known she was married, is it still the mother's decision? these laws are getting ridiculous.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

I'm starting to become the guy that my friends' wives don't want them hanging around with. A few of my friends and I are planning to head to Vegas in a couple months and some of them are hiding the fact that I'm going on the trip. I guess since I'm one of the few single men in the circle I'll somehow poison their minds. I treat the state of social dynamics in the same way I treat religion. I don't speak on it unless someone specifically opens that dialogue and asks my opinion. I must've burned some bridges when the wives got together to ask why I wasn't married and I gave them my honest viewpoint.

Which is what?

 

[MikelArteta]

I have a few women friends with kids who are in their 30s...

If they had their mentality now 10 years ago,they would have been better off...

Hopefully they will find happiness

with their cats

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

Which is what?

That I don't plan on marrying a woman just because it's something that's expected of me.

 

[CrossBones]

its true that time works against women so much more it does with men. another reason why "they cant do what we do." its just not a wise move for them to make. as they age, they become less likely to get that man that theyre constantly dreaming about. having all that fun at a young age comes with a cost. and as the men in their age group begin to age with them - and when hes ready to settle down, chances are hes not doing it with a child/children in tow, and chances are that hes not looking for an older female with her many issues to deal with. not when he can just go and get a younger model instead.

any thoughts on dealing with a woman that's way more attractive than you?


This chick im talking to now

thats actually a factor that should never play into your thoughts, and something she needs to see does not play into your behavior. never put a woman (or anyone) on a pedastal. dont let her see that you acknowledge her looks as a weapon, because then she knows that she can use that weapon on you. its a mind game. so cut that out from the jump. disable and disarm her, so to speak.

also, looks arent the most important thing for a man, so dont compare her attractiveness to yours. thats not how this works. two different games. maintain the upper hand, because theres only so many real men that she could deal with in her life. its important you show her youre one of them. meaning, someone who isnt affected by her looks. women come with so much bullshyt, that its imporant for the both of you to cut it out early. its not about being in the same league with her as far as looks, see its more of a mind game with her. its about how well you are in control of yourself and the man/woman dynamic that you two share.

 

[CrossBones]

something else that crossed my mind, is that the more lust you show to a female, the more power she knows she has over you. we have threads and threads on here talking about doing this and that to a fine female, showering them with attention, to even buying her stuff and outright slobbing on them just because of her figure. it may be one of our first impulses when we see a good looking bytch, as sometimes we cant help but lust that. still, the more we do that and put it on front street, the more we reveal our thirst. while they can know that we are attracted to them, a woman shouldnt see all of that extra behavior and submission to her. itll get you played and she will treat you like her toy. thats not for grown men. and a lot of times, the thirst is strictly over her looks. and Im not speaking so much online, but more than anything I mean acting a certain way in person. so many times if you go outside on the weekends you may see the thirsty dude trying to holla at anything, including heavy chicks by the end of the night. the more thirst on display, the weaker he looks.

and its good to feel that attraction to a beautiful woman, but dont ever let it take over your mind. you can act on that attraction in person and go to meet her and put your bid in, but dont let the desperation and lust show so that it overtakes your cool. its more than anything a sign of weakness, and why we have so much tricking going on today.

 

[MikelArteta]

South Korean men look to North Korea to find wives | Toronto Star


SEOUL, SOUTH KOREA —Four years ago, Kim Eun-seo, 40, fled political persecution and poverty in North Korea’s gritty far-north city, Chongjin.

After dwelling secretly in China for a year, she escaped to South Korea. To her relief, she was able to live more freely, “without government approval needed for everything.” But, ironically, the freedom of everyday life in Seoul was a bit much for Kim. “The choices, the consumerism was overwhelming,” she said. “Even ordering at Starbucks was difficult. I’d never had coffee in my life, and didn’t understand the names of the drinks.”

Finding a solution wasn’t difficult. “I married a lovely South Korean man,” she said. “It was the best way to join this society.”

Kim now helps her husband, 42-year-old Hong Seung-woo, run a popular dating service that matches South Korean men with North Korean women.

They have matched more than 400 couples and claim that only four of those marriages have ended in splits. South Korea has one of the highest divorce rates in the world.

So what’s the draw for the North Korean ladies?

“North Korean men want to be the king of the house,” says Kim. “Southern men grew up in a developed society, so they’re more respectful of gender equality.”

Last year, 1,508 North Korean refugees arrived in the south, bringing the total number seeking shelter in the country to 24,000 since the end of the Korean War, according to a government tally.

More than 80 per cent of defectors are women.

South Korean men, too, see the allure of wedding a northerner. “A common complaint here is that southern women can have high standards,” Hong says. After Hong divorced his first wife, a South Korean, he says was rejected three times because he “wasn’t rich enough, and wasn’t a provider.”

With men outnumbering women in a society that historically has favoured male children, the ladies have an easier time taking their pick. Although many South Korean men seek out wives through matchmaking agencies in the Philippines and Vietnam, “adjusting to life here is hard for outsiders,” Hong said. “That’s why more men want a North Korean girl nowadays, with all the difficulties in the interracial marriages.”

“For North Korean women, there aren’t huge problems learning the language and culture,” he adds. “We come from a common ancestry, the same blood, and that makes these marriages successful.”