Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[360dagod]

something else that crossed my mind, is that the more lust you show to a female, the more power she knows she has over you. we have threads and threads on here talking about doing this and that to a fine female, showering them with attention, to even buying her stuff and outright slobbing on them just because of her figure. it may be one of our first impulses when we see a good looking bytch, as sometimes we cant help but lust that. still, the more we do that and put it on front street, the more we reveal our thirst. while they can know that we are attracted to them, a woman shouldnt see all of that extra behavior and submission to her. and a lot of times, its strictly over her looks. and Im not speaking so much online, but more than anything I mean acting a certain way in person. so many times if you go outside on the weekends you may see the thirsty dude trying to holla at anything, including heavy chicks by the end of the night. the more thirst on display, the weaker he looks.

and its good to feel that attraction to a beautiful woman, but dont ever let it take over your mind. you can act on that attraction and go and meet her and put your bid in, but dont let the desperation and lust show, so that it overtakes your cool. its more than anything a sign of weakness, and why we have so much tricking going on today.

That is very true...

You cant be afraid to talk shyt to a female...

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

something else that crossed my mind, is that the more lust you show to a female, the more power she knows she has over you. we have threads and threads on here talking about doing this and that to a fine female, showering them with attention, to even buying her stuff and outright slobbing on them just because of her figure. it may be one of our first impulses when we see a good looking bytch, as sometimes we cant help but lust that. still, the more we do that and put it on front street, the more we reveal our thirst. while they can know that we are attracted to them, a woman shouldnt see all of that extra behavior and submission to her. and a lot of times, its strictly over her looks. and Im not speaking so much online, but more than anything I mean acting a certain way in person. so many times if you go outside on the weekends you may see the thirsty dude trying to holla at anything, including heavy chicks by the end of the night. the more thirst on display, the weaker he looks.

and its good to feel that attraction to a beautiful woman, but dont ever let it take over your mind. you can act on that attraction in person and go to meet her and put your bid in, but dont let the desperation and lust show so that it overtakes your cool. its more than anything a sign of weakness, and why we have so much tricking going on today.

I definitely agree with this. When I'm in the gym it's so hard sometimes to internalize the rush when a fine female starts squatting. I've been working on it though but I still talk shyt with the homies when they're blatantly looking for attention.

 

[360dagod]

females with lil booties twitching side to side extra hard trying to get attention...

 

[MikelArteta]

its true that time works against women so much more it does with men. another reason why "they cant do what we do." its just not a wise move for them to make. as they age, they become less likely to get that man that theyre constantly dreaming about. having all that fun at a young age comes with a cost. and as the men in their age group begin to age with them - and when hes ready to settle down, chances are hes not doing it with a child/children in tow, and chances are that hes not looking for an older female with her many issues to deal with. not when he can just go and get a younger model instead.




thats actually a factor that should never play into your thoughts, and something she needs to see does not play into your behavior. never put a woman (or anyone) on a pedastal. dont let her see that you acknowledge her looks as a weapon, because then she knows that she can use that weapon on you. its a mind game. so cut that out from the jump. disable and disarm her, so to speak.

also, looks arent the most important thing for a man, so dont compare her attractiveness to yours. thats not how this works. two different games. maintain the upper hand, because theres only so many real men that she could deal with in her life. its important you show her youre one of them. meaning, someone who isnt affected by her looks. women come with so much bullshyt, that its imporant for the both of you to cut it out early. its not about being in the same league with her as far as looks, see its more of a mind game with her. its about how well you are in control of yourself and the man/woman dynamic that you two share.

and the thing men have always going for them, is women love to date older guys, so even if your 36,37 dating a broad thats 26-27 is not out of the question

 

[CrossBones]

and the thing men have always going for them, is women love to date older guys, so even if your 36,37 dating a broad thats 26-27 is not out of the question

and we dont balloon up from having kids.

 

[DaRealness]

Originally Posted by Phoenix_Knightly23
I know some of y'all don't like V-day but...Happy Valentines Day. E-Christian hugs and Kisses for everyone #nohoeshyt

Originally Posted by LegendNas

are you sure this isn't a trap?

I just noticed all that shyt going on. Yet, I bet if I said anything before all that, some dudes would wanna come at me implying I hate broads and go to the extreme which has already happened to me in this thread and others. All it takes is time to show that maybe I'm not such an extremist after all, I'm a realist.

 

[kevm3]

South Korean men look to North Korea to find wives | Toronto Star


SEOUL, SOUTH KOREA —Four years ago, Kim Eun-seo, 40, fled political persecution and poverty in North Korea’s gritty far-north city, Chongjin.

After dwelling secretly in China for a year, she escaped to South Korea. To her relief, she was able to live more freely, “without government approval needed for everything.” But, ironically, the freedom of everyday life in Seoul was a bit much for Kim. “The choices, the consumerism was overwhelming,” she said. “Even ordering at Starbucks was difficult. I’d never had coffee in my life, and didn’t understand the names of the drinks.”

Finding a solution wasn’t difficult. “I married a lovely South Korean man,” she said. “It was the best way to join this society.”

Kim now helps her husband, 42-year-old Hong Seung-woo, run a popular dating service that matches South Korean men with North Korean women.

They have matched more than 400 couples and claim that only four of those marriages have ended in splits. South Korea has one of the highest divorce rates in the world.

So what’s the draw for the North Korean ladies?

“North Korean men want to be the king of the house,” says Kim. “Southern men grew up in a developed society, so they’re more respectful of gender equality.”

Last year, 1,508 North Korean refugees arrived in the south, bringing the total number seeking shelter in the country to 24,000 since the end of the Korean War, according to a government tally.

More than 80 per cent of defectors are women.

South Korean men, too, see the allure of wedding a northerner. “A common complaint here is that southern women can have high standards,” Hong says. After Hong divorced his first wife, a South Korean, he says was rejected three times because he “wasn’t rich enough, and wasn’t a provider.”

With men outnumbering women in a society that historically has favoured male children, the ladies have an easier time taking their pick. Although many South Korean men seek out wives through matchmaking agencies in the Philippines and Vietnam, “adjusting to life here is hard for outsiders,” Hong said. “That’s why more men want a North Korean girl nowadays, with all the difficulties in the interracial marriages.”

“For North Korean women, there aren’t huge problems learning the language and culture,” he adds. “We come from a common ancestry, the same blood, and that makes these marriages successful.”

It seems like one of the few ways to get a woman for the long term is to find one that came from humble means because she actually appreciates things. There was a roman poet Juvenal that alluded to such, finding disgust in the rich women of his day.

Juvenal Satire 6 pretty much says everything we're saying today hundreds of years ago:
http://www.tertullian.org/fathers/juvenal_satires_06.htm

I really suggest reading the whole thing, but here is a snippet:

When Eppia, the senator's wife, ran off with a gladiator 15 to Pharos and the Nile and the ill-famed city of Lagos, Canopus itself cried shame upon the monstrous morals of our town. Forgetful of home, of husband and of sister, without thought of her country, she shamelessly abandoned her weeping children; and----more marvellous still----deserted Paris and the games. Though born in wealth, though as a babe she had slept in a bedizened cradle on the paternal down, she made light of the sea, just as she had long made light of her good name----a loss but little accounted of among our soft litter-riding dames. And so with stout heart she endured the tossing and the roaring of the Tyrrhenian and Ionian Seas, and all the many seas she had to cross. For when danger comes in a right and honourable way, a woman's heart grows chill with fear; she cannot stand upon her trembling feet: but if she be doing a bold, bad thing, her courage fails not. For a husband to order his wife on board ship is cruelty: the bilge-water then sickens her, the heavens go round and round. But if she is running away with a lover, she feels no qualms: then she vomits over her husband; now she messes with the sailors, she roams about the deck, and delights in hauling at the hard ropes.

If you are honestly uxorious, and devoted to one woman, then bow your head and submit your neck to the yoke. Never will you find a woman who spares the man who loves her; for though she be herself aflame, she delights to torment and plunder him. So the better the man, the more desirable he be as a husband, the less good will he get out of his wife. No present will you ever make if your wife forbids; nothing will you ever sell if she objects; nothing will you buy without her consent. She will arrange your friendships for you; she will turn your now-aged friend from the door which saw the beginnings of his beard. Panders and trainers can make their wills as they please, as also can the gentlemen of the arena; but you will have to write down among your heirs more than one rival of your own.

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

any thoughts on dealing with a woman that's way more attractive than you?


This chick im talking to now

I remember speaking us speaking on this earlier on in the thread (Check the below quotes).....It's definitely something I've encountered, learned from and become a better man afterwards. At the end of the day the baddest dimes are just as insecure as your average girl, sometimes even more. Deal with her like you would any other girl and don't let those thoughts of her being more attractive than you enter your head. You're the King, the catch......As Patrice O'Neal said, the best she can be is a Queen and that's by getting with a King.

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I suggest every man date a female he is not attracted to, at least once in his life.

You will get to experience the mind of a female without attraction to cloud your judgment.

Remember the ways you treated that female, & apply it to every female you date from then on regardless of how gorgeous she is.

This is the realest thing ever....

I noticed I would act completely different towards females I were attracted to. Straight up simp behavior.....Attraction truly clouds your judgement. Man, the way I've treated some females I weren't really attracted to had them falling in love.

 

[Turbulent]

It seems like one of the few ways to get a woman for the long term is to find one that came from humble means because she actually appreciates things. There was a roman poet Juvenal that alluded to such, finding disgust in the rich women of his day.

Juvenal Satire 6 pretty much says everything we're saying today hundreds of years ago:
Juvenal, Satires. (1918).* Satire 6

I really suggest reading the whole thing, but here is a snippet:

good stuff man.

another book i started reading that my cousin put me on is called "The Art of Love" by Ovid. This book is borderline about pimping philosophy and it's from 2000 years ago...

 

[MikelArteta]

Have any of you seen silver linings play book?

This dudes wife cheated on him and he wanted nothing more than to get back with her. He lost everything, the ending n :ohlwawd:

Sent from royalty breh

 

[MikelArteta]

I remember speaking us speaking on this earlier on in the thread (Check the below quotes).....It's definitely something I've encountered, learned from and become a better man afterwards. At the end of the day the baddest dimes are just as insecure as your average girl, sometimes even more. Deal with her like you would any other girl and don't let those thoughts of her being more attractive than you enter your head. You're the King, the catch......As Patrice O'Neal said, the best she can be is a Queen and that's by getting with a King.

Patrice O'Neal - We're Better Than You - YouTube

Yup and also like I said dump a attractive girl as well

Sent from royalty breh

 

[KeysT]

She mentioned getting married and engagement brehs...need help.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

She mentioned getting married and engagement brehs...need help.

Help? Either you want to or you don't. It's as simple as that.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

I got to get on you cats about safe sex. I dont know why this comes to mind.Hope you guys are refraining from sex,but if you are engaging in sex with these women.WRAP IT UP. Im saying this for a reason. There is a trend out here of women getting pregnant cause other women are getting pregnant. These women out here thinking Kim Kardashian looks so cute with a belly etc...and these women envy the attention.Also never ever trust a woman who says she is on the pill. Women act like they have short term memory but they are smarter then we thinkThese Plan B,birth control pills arent 100% effective.They may be 98 % 99% but those numbers arent 100.

 

[DaRealness]

I got to get on you cats about safe sex. I dont know why this comes to mind.Hope you guys are refraining from sex,but if you are engaging in sex with these women.WRAP IT UP. Im saying this for a reason. There is a trend out here of women getting pregnant cause other women are getting pregnant. These women out here thinking Kim Kardashian looks so cute with a belly etc...and these women envy the attention.Also never ever trust a woman who says she is on the pill. Women act like they have short term memory but they are smarter then we thinkThese Plan B,birth control pills arent 100% effective.They may be 98 % 99% but those numbers arent 100.

Men would have to be extreme fools to trust a woman like that in this day and age.