Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I remember dating this pawg this was like 2009:flabbynsick: and I had a keylogger on my pc. Right in front of my face she'd tell me she loves me, I'd go shower and she'd be on my pc emailing love letters to her supposedly horrible ex

Did you call her out on it?
It always amazes me how disloyal women are
:wow:

I should know by now but it stil catches me off guard sometimes. They be so shameless with it.

You can be at the club with a chick, get up and go to the bathroom, she grinding on other dude when you come back
:wow:

I went to the club solo dolo one time, saw a chick there I used to fukk. She came there with some dude but she left with me
:wow: dude was flabbergasted

Chicks be at the club with a dude but as soon as he goes to the bar or the bathroom she giving her number or Snapchat to some other dude
Don’t take your chick to the club unless you’re really committed to each other. What’s the saying “why bring sand to the beach”. In nightclubs that saying goes you and her.

Also if she is big on club nights with the girls often that is a red flag. She might not be cheating but a red flag is still a red flag and something legitimately worth talking to her about.
 

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It always amazes me how disloyal women are
:wow:

I should know by now but it stil catches me off guard sometimes. They be so shameless with it.

You can be at the club with a chick, get up and go to the bathroom, she grinding on other dude when you come back
:wow:

I went to the club solo dolo one time, saw a chick there I used to fukk. She came there with some dude but she left with me
:wow: dude was flabbergasted

Chicks be at the club with a dude but as soon as he goes to the bar or the bathroom she giving her number or Snapchat to some other dude
Women are as loyal as their thoughts
 

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Did you call her out on it?

Don’t take your chick to the club unless you’re really committed to each other. What’s the saying “why bring sand to the beach”. In nightclubs that saying goes you and her.

Also if she is big on club nights with the girls often that is a red flag. She might not be cheating but a red flag is still a red flag and something legitimately worth talking to her about.
I don't do relationships anymore but it's a good way to vet a woman. Even if you're really committed to each other. Plus I go for myself, I have fun.
 

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I remember dating this pawg this was like 2009:flabbynsick: and I had a keylogger on my pc. Right in front of my face she'd tell me she loves me, I'd go shower and she'd be on my pc emailing love letters to her supposedly horrible ex

Never....EVER listen to what a women says about her ex.

A lot of the time it's just scorned babble.
 

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Sometimes we create the bullshyt brehs. Deep down I know something is short term in the end but try to give chances and see if theyll pick up on things.

I aint doing no one a favour with this especially myself, but at the same time you have to be balanced and have grace because no one is perfect. :francis:
 

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Ran into another born again virgin,she claims she is celibate etc. She says if we got married how I would get sex everyday. So im like :francis: . I just dont trust these types. She also mentioned in relationship she dont kiss men or sit in their laps because of temptation. So I ask about her past relationships she said her last relationship how her ex was bad etc and made her get an abortion.

Funny how she never married her ex but he got the p*ssy and nutted in that for free..with no conditions.

But you all of a sudden get hit with conditions and have to pay for something he got for free…

Hate to tell you fam…but she either ain’t attracted to you like that or you running provider game which doesn’t get her wet.
 

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Who do y’all think is in the right?



Just seems like a normal convo, she was obviously upset he didn't let her know if she could come or not and he wasn't pressed about her being upset.

Nothing to see here really...
 

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Just seems like a normal convo, she was obviously upset he didn't let her know if she could come or not and he wasn't pressed about her being upset.

Nothing to see here really...
I think he wasn’t interested in her. He should’ve just told her the truth.
 

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It's normal. A lot of these chicks are scandalous. There's a whole Youtube industry on these tendencies.

I was kind of grasping for the right word, and later, while reading a book, came across it, the word is they (sometimes) seem scandalized by the mere idea, which somewhat ironically you use in your post. I'm not judging them either way, in fact, I want them to be scandalous, another interesting point is when men hear me talk like that, they seem mildly outraged too, like "she's not a good girl", but I don't want her to be. But, like I said, mostly I don't even know they have a boyfriend, so the pearl clutching seems misplaced.

We are not in 19th Century high society New York, or the Victorian Era, but I guess with social media, shaming is still a very important, as is monogamy, and the two are usually linked closely.
 

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I was kind of grasping for the right word, and later, while reading a book, came across it, the word is they (sometimes) seem scandalized by the mere idea, which somewhat ironically you use in your post. I'm not judging them either way, in fact, I want them to be scandalous, another interesting point is when men hear me talk like that, they seem mildly outraged too, like "she's not a good girl", but I don't want her to be. But, like I said, mostly I don't even know they have a boyfriend, so the pearl clutching seems misplaced.

We are not in 19th Century high society New York, or the Victorian Era, but I guess with social media, shaming is still a very important, as is monogamy, and the two are usually linked closely.
Hypergamy - is the word them folks use all the time. Got an eye out for more money, or a side piece. Always. She ain't blind, you just don't know, and she don't know if she's gonna act on it.

As the philosopher once said, "These hoes ain't loyal".

It's more complicated of course. At the end of the day, her fidelity is not in the dude's control.

That's what 99% of guys can't handle. And this ain't anything new. Plenty of cold game in the Torah and Bible. Prolly find something in the Vedas.
 

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Been dating this girl for 2 months and she did some shyt yesterday that turned me off..

We went grocery shopping everything was smoove until we got to the whip and she said “we won’t have to worry about paying full price :mjgrin:“ so I’m like word 50-50 dope then this bytch pulled shyt out her bag that she shoplifted

I was PISSED! Not only was that the store I frequent but I was like why do that in the middle
Of Cacville
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Now I’m just not even tryna fukk with her because a nikka could have been arrested and I had no idea she did that dumb shyt
 

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Been dating this girl for 2 months and she did some shyt yesterday that turned me off..

We went grocery shopping everything was smoove until we got to the whip and she said “we won’t have to worry about paying full price :mjgrin:“ so I’m like word 50-50 dope then this bytch pulled shyt out her bag that she shoplifted

I was PISSED! Not only was that the store I frequent but I was like why do that in the middle
Of Cacville
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Now I’m just not even tryna fukk with her because a nikka could have been arrested and I had no idea she did that dumb shyt
How did she do that right under your nose?
 
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