Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Claudex]

This is why I have such an aversion to Angola. When I visit a country on the Continent, I wanna hear everything Afrikan, names and languages included. Even the DRC, although French was everywhere in Kinshasa, there are places were it's only Lingala and depending who's speaking to each other, they would switching back and forth between languages. These is cultural power isn't it? I can make you hate your own cultural names, religions and languages and make you follow mine. I'm of the opinion to drop ALL former colonial languages and names. How's he worst that can happen? The literacy rates are already low, we're the poorest and taking the names, religions and languages doesn't stop them from discriminating against us, right?

I can't fault you for that because it's bad out here fr.
If anything, this crazy assimilation wave we got ourselves in at the cost of our own cultural identity, just made assimilation of the ills of western civilization happen even faster.

I kid you not, when we were kids, some teachers tried to institute learning 2-4 (just as a starting project, there's 30+ languages in Angola) mother tongues for the elementary school kids around the capital. Parents around the country threatened to take their kids out of school for this and the project was abolished. It was a bizarre thing to witness. We were kids, so we didn't know any better. But thinking back, that should've been alarming AF nationwide, but it wasn't.

And it's crazy how just knowing one language can change a man so much. I studied with some zambians in 2009 and they were bewildered that I didn't know a single mother tongue. It just couldn't compute in their brains. Plus it felt lonesome a bit watching/hearing their bond. Very strong friendship I built with those people though. And part of the loneliness in seeing them was understanding that we were deprived of that.

 

[WIA20XX]

She says if we got married how I would get sex everyday.

Not to get all conspiratorial - but sex NOT is something to be bargained with. But it is something that women bargain with because men respond to it.

Plenty of dudes in LTRs and Marriages want to get in, but she's not feeling it for whatever reason. It's only then that dudes realize how "whimsical" these broads can be.

If you get into an GF/Wifey/Wife situation - it better be for something she can offer up, not put off.

 

[Ohene]

100 - I’m at this point now too. If she leaves, oh well, I have a lot to offer in the dating game. If she stays, that’s cool too as long as she doesn’t bring more bullshyt to my front door.

Pretty much.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Not to get all conspiratorial - but sex NOT is something to be bargained with. But it is something that women bargain with because men respond to it.

Plenty of dudes in LTRs and Marriages want to get in, but she's not feeling it for whatever reason. It's only then that dudes realize how "whimsical" these broads can be.

If you get into an GF/Wifey/Wife situation - it better be for something she can offer up, not put off.

Thats thing her convo was good but exceptional. She tried hard to come off as wifey material but i saw cracks in her character,these women tell on themselves fast. Surprise she tries to bargain men with sex. I would rather her say relationship but she kept saying marriage. Some dude will fall for it because she is attractive. Wont be me

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Imagine you going to walmart and everyone at walmart is walking right out of the store with their carts full reaping the harvest. But when it's your turn you're stopped and told to pay because you seem like a nice guy .

brilliant analogy

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Yea man I bushed fast

 

[Rocket Scientist]

I’m trying to attract someone who works out. Feel weird taking a gym selfie or having my boy taking photos of me in the gym. What y’all think? Not sure a mirror selfie at gym is the move.

A woman who goes to the same gym? Go for it

 

[Brandsdale]

I’m trying to attract someone who works out. Feel weird taking a gym selfie or having my boy taking photos of me in the gym. What y’all think? Not sure a mirror selfie at gym is the move.

I walk into people recording themselves, taking pics or recording their workouts n shyt a lot at the gym by accident




You’ll be fine bro

 

[The ADD]

I’m trying to attract someone who works out. Feel weird taking a gym selfie or having my boy taking photos of me in the gym. What y’all think? Not sure a mirror selfie at gym is the move.

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

It always amazes me how disloyal women are


I should know by now but it stil catches me off guard sometimes. They be so shameless with it.

You can be at the club with a chick, get up and go to the bathroom, she grinding on other dude when you come back


I went to the club solo dolo one time, saw a chick there I used to fukk. She came there with some dude but she left with me
dude was flabbergasted

Chicks be at the club with a dude but as soon as he goes to the bar or the bathroom she giving her number or Snapchat to some other dude

 

[The ADD]

It always amazes me how disloyal women are


I should know by now but it stil catches me off guard sometimes. They be so shameless with it.

You can be at the club with a chick, get up and go to the bathroom, she grinding on other dude when you come back


I went to the club solo dolo one time, saw a chick there I used to fukk. She came there with some dude but she left with me
dude was flabbergasted

Breezy told y’all

 

[re'up]

Can someone with more or different insight give me some guidance

I understand people's values systems are based around these concepts, and Value system =self ID= concept of self, so it's important, but sometimes seems like over the top to me. Like they take it intensely seriously. I know our culture is at base pretty puritanical.

often, I'll ask someone out, who is in a relationship, I almost always don't know whether they are single or not, and honestly sometimes I do know, and I just don't care, if she's down, I'm with it. But, mostly I truly don't know. Part is probably sometimes myopia, because of social media, they think I have more details on their lives than I do. And if I'm asking, we are probably flirting or just expressing interest.

They sometimes seem, not shocked? not offended? but something like that. Like I crossed a line I wasn't even aware of. I guess the easy conclusion is they see it as a questioning of their values, ex: monogamy? Is this just my deviance in terms of norms and values? As in, I don't really respect relationships and structures and systems, and it shows, even when I don't think it does. It's not the people but the structure?

 

[MikelArteta]

It always amazes me how disloyal women are


I should know by now but it stil catches me off guard sometimes. They be so shameless with it.

You can be at the club with a chick, get up and go to the bathroom, she grinding on other dude when you come back


I went to the club solo dolo one time, saw a chick there I used to fukk. She came there with some dude but she left with me
dude was flabbergasted

Chicks be at the club with a dude but as soon as he goes to the bar or the bathroom she giving her number or Snapchat to some other dude

I remember dating this pawg this was like 2009 and I had a keylogger on my pc. Right in front of my face she'd tell me she loves me, I'd go shower and she'd be on my pc emailing love letters to her supposedly horrible ex

 

[WIA20XX]

often, I'll ask someone out, who is in a relationship....They sometimes seem, not shocked? not offended?

It's normal. A lot of these chicks are scandalous. There's a whole Youtube industry on these tendencies.

 

[Wargames]

It's normal. A lot of these chicks are scandalous. There's a whole Youtube industry on these tendencies.

Bro…. Share some links.