Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Ever think the universe just wants you to take a break?

Seems like last year I was on fire & this year has been dead or bad opportunities
It comes in waves.. Cycle up, cycle down.. Thats life overall and the game is no different. When in down cycle, take time to switch things up, lean on fundamentals or take your game on the road.. Take a break if you have to, reinvest in yourself, in your growth, evolution.. Still in first qtr but midway thru, could be time to focus on what your goals were for 2023 and see if things are where you should be for the first qtr. Before you know it the wave comes back and when it does you are hot again

Happens to everyone.
 

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Should I flirt with this pretty eyed coworker on valentines day? We're friends but she's been giving me choosing signals ever since I said her eyes were pretty. She laughs at all my jokes. Even the unfunny ones. It's too easy. Might have to nut in her
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So, did you store your kids inside her yet? :mjgrin:
 

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And they all ran the risk of destroying their empires for p*ssy (bussy in some cases :dame: ). Clinton was impeached and almost destroyed his political career over what? Getting head by a fat chick with a strong chin?


Decades worth of work couldve been wasted. How is that rational?

Never said it's just men who take stupid risks.
Is it that Bill was irrational or the people who wanted him gone were irrational?
 

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Happens all the time it's the universe telling you to focus on other things. I take vacations and explore different countries as a reset or learn a new skill. Focus on yourself and you will notice the changes. It's always quality over quantity when it comes to women breh.
It comes in waves.. Cycle up, cycle down.. Thats life overall and the game is no different. When in down cycle, take time to switch things up, lean on fundamentals or take your game on the road.. Take a break if you have to, reinvest in yourself, in your growth, evolution.. Still in first qtr but midway thru, could be time to focus on what your goals were for 2023 and see if things are where you should be for the first qtr. Before you know it the wave comes back and when it does you are hot again

Happens to everyone.

Thank you brehs. I already feel more free after deleting hinge last night.

I went to the gym this morning and exchange info with a new joint

The Universe is crazy.
 

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I find that little by little you build momentum, and then usually, there's more than you can reasonably handle, there are all sorts of variables and exceptions, but that's usually my experience.

I gave a lot of thought recently to the conditional nature of relationships, vs less conditional, and a lot of what I see or hear, is if you can't be _________, you can't be anything, as in, if you don't want to be my boyfriend, I don't even want to talk to you. And I'm always opposite like I just see the person as a good contact.

This is something I didn't realize about people.
 
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It comes in waves.. Cycle up, cycle down.. Thats life overall and the game is no different. When in down cycle, take time to switch things up, lean on fundamentals or take your game on the road.. Take a break if you have to, reinvest in yourself, in your growth, evolution.. Still in first qtr but midway thru, could be time to focus on what your goals were for 2023 and see if things are where you should be for the first qtr. Before you know it the wave comes back and when it does you are hot again

Happens to everyone.

Yup what I notice the best relationships I've had is when I least expect it. As in just live your life and you go to a party, church, grocery store or something and the stars align
 

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Anyone ever dealt with dating women that wants to move cities ? girl is tripping about leaving Atlanta and I absolutely love it here and honestly have no damn desire to leave this city. I have thought about it multiple times but I am truly comfortable here. I moved here purposedly and one of the options look very attractive to me. She wants to go back to northern virginia. If there is one thing I cant stand is SNOW and COLD. How did you deal with this? After considering it, I really just want to stand my ground about calling ATL home.
 

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Anyone ever dealt with dating women that wants to move cities ? girl is tripping about leaving Atlanta and I absolutely love it here and honestly have no damn desire to leave this city. I have thought about it multiple times but I am truly comfortable here. I moved here purposedly and one of the options look very attractive to me. She wants to go back to northern virginia. If there is one thing I cant stand is SNOW and COLD. How did you deal with this? After considering it, I really just want to stand my ground about calling ATL home.
Define “girl”

How long y’all been together? Planning on marrying her?
 

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A question that came up in a group convo with the fellas: Is it important to be friends with someone you're in a relationship with?
 

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I find that little by little you build momentum, and then usually, there's more than you can reasonably handle, there are all sorts of variables and exceptions, but that's usually my experience.

I gave a lot of thought recently to the conditional nature of relationships, vs less conditional, and a lot of what I see or hear, is if you can't be _________, you can't be anything, as in, if you don't want to be my boyfriend, I don't even want to talk to you. And I'm always opposite like I just see the person as a good contact.

This is something I didn't realize about people.
The amount of people who ghost others for whatever reason seems to have skyrocketed. A urban poet once said "dont burn bridges my friend, imagine the gdub close and your ass got to swim".. That always stuck with me and has done me well in life.. But ghosting has become an acceptable thing now
 
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