Brandsdale
Big Yella
on anyone is a red flag tbh
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Action Mike
All praise..
A turn off at this point
Laughed & walked away. It was weird.
It’s ugly and one of the few things I immediately will dismiss online if I see no matter how hot she is. Not to mention she usually hates men. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a woman with a septum ring who is in a serious relationship with a guy who has options are doing well for himself.
Action Mike
All praise..
Canceling a date, going to make an excuse.
Pretty girl but dry answers and among other red flags has me feeling this a waste of an evening in my gut.
Pretty girl but dry answers and among other red flags has me feeling this a waste of an evening in my gut.
VertigoKnight
Veteran
This is good to see follow your gut. Dry answers and conversation in 2023 is a straight bushing for me. I don't care how pretty she is.
I've unmatched plenty of chicks where I was saying to myself she's not excited to even be chatting with me. Imagine how the face-to-face will be.
It's not about struggling to maintain a conversation with someone who is giving nothing back to work with.
Digital Omen
All Star
Every man gets the urge from time to time. At that point a decision has to be made: control your dikk or cheat (or break up with your woman).Relationship brehs, how do y’all to fight the urge for new p*ssy? This shyt be driving me nuts sometimes. Ive never cheated in relationship but after the one year mark in all my relationships, the itch becomes mad pronounced. Im starting to think I might be destined for the gmb life.
Put it on a scale: your woman vs new p*ssy
Which one do you value more? Can you live with your decision?
Dudes choose their woman and then are miserable, living a lie (cuz they really want the new p*ssy and regret not going for it)
or dudes go with new p*ssy only to find out it wasn't all that or not worth the drama that may come along then you see em begging to get that ol thang back
Sleepy Floyd
Superstar
I was in a 5-year relationship before, and also another that lasted 3 years...I never had an urge for new p*ssy. Are you actually having good quality sex with your partner? Is there any foreplay? Is she fulfilling your fantasies/kinks from time to time, and vice-versa? You making her cum multiple times per session? Are you very attracted to her or do you see her as a 4 or 5? Does she turn you on? Do you turn her on? Do you trust her? Do you ever lust for her?Relationship brehs, how do y’all to fight the urge for new p*ssy? This shyt be driving me nuts sometimes
How did you originally connect? I usually need about 10 minutes or less to see if someone is a good fit for dinner, or spending at least an hour plus together.
I would give the opposite counsel, and say go, what do you have to lose? and where are your expectations? and what will it cost you? Sure, there's an opportunity cost, an actual cost, and the sunken cost theory. You are looking at maybe $50/$150, and maybe 90 minutes, plus some awkwardness, at the worst.
If I am way off, sorry, I just see a pattern of people, "red flagging" people for relatively trivial reasons. Closes people off to each other. And also, for me, fukk the texts, fukk the memes, fukk the likes or loves, I just want to get in person, that's where I want to be.
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If a woman is giving one word responses I’m not taking time to meet her. If I’m on vacation and got time, I may entertain the idea of meeting.
I guess it depends on what your goal is. If you’re just looking for a hookup and nothing serious then it may work. Usually a phone conversation for 15 minutes can give you a good idea.
I agree sometimes it takes time to build chemistry. You may not completely click on the first date. But no way am I entertaining a woman whose every response is a one word yes or no. But that’s just me.
skyrunner1
Superstar
If we pay attention to the people who study that type of stuff, that would fall under the adornment or sending out signals for short term mating.. They would say things to standout and catch attention like tattoos, piercings, colorful hair, colorful contacts, even a choker on neck is sending out a signal.. Could mean they have higher mean to be promiscuous
DeuceZ
Li pitit gason
Relationship brehs, how do y’all to fight the urge for new p*ssy? This shyt be driving me nuts sometimes
Decide if getting new pus is worth losing the relationship
If the date's already planned, is where my reasoning was. I was wondering if they met in person or on an app, but yeah it's not encouraging or alluring. I was thinking to write a whole post on the use of signaling communication, rather than just being direct, and how and why we all got so tied to signaling, with the rise of smart phones and social media.