Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I recently had the movie thing come up, actually

My thinking is, as someone who loves movies, and sees movies alone weekly, unless they are on that same level, like someone who would spend an hour after the movie dissecting it, or you BOTH really want to see a movie, don't do it, it's very formal and stilted, with not much room for conversation, plus movie eats up like 2 hours, the setting isn't really romantic, or exciting, or sexy, (some theaters are exceptions)
 

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I recently had the movie thing come up, actually

My thinking is, as someone who loves movies, and sees movies alone weekly, unless they are on that same level, like someone who would spend an hour after the movie dissecting it, or you BOTH really want to see a movie, don't do it, it's very formal and stilted, with not much room for conversation, plus movie eats up like 2 hours, the setting isn't really romantic, or exciting, or sexy, (some theaters are exceptions)
Also God help the date if the movie is bad or just bad taste.
 

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Invited this girl out to the movies (should have went with a restaurant or something) but she still wants to go the movies despite not being a movie person herself. Hopefully we enjoy ourselves :yeshrug:

Really like her too

Told her stop being stubborn and she agreed to change the venue:ufdup:

We back!
 

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You says she’s a work friend what are your intentions?

If its dating, the cinema is a bad choice for a first hang.
I'm attracted to her but I'm trying not to go in with any expectations. I only planned this date because she complained about our relationship being too formal and business like.

She got a bit upset when I didn't wish her a happy New year
 

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I'm attracted to her but I'm trying not to go in with any expectations. I only planned this date because she complained about our relationship being too formal and business like.

She got a bit upset when I didn't wish her a happy New year
:snoop:
 

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I'm attracted to her but I'm trying not to go in with any expectations. I only planned this date because she complained about our relationship being too formal and business like.

She got a bit upset when I didn't wish her a happy New year

Know your worth.
 
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Well damn this female said she was 40 not 30 in her bio I tried to compliment her saying

“ you could have fooled me I thought you were 30 lol” then got a message notification only to see that I had been unmatched couldn’t even see the message :francis:

Very very sensitive about age even if you try to compliment
 
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Well damn this female said she was 40 not 30 in her bio I tried to compliment her saying

“I thought you were 30 lol” then got a message notification only to see that I had been unmatched couldn’t even see the message :francis:

Very very sensitive about age even if you try to compliment
blessing in disguise. Walking on eggshells with anybody is terrible

The most difficult hurdle I’ve overcame in dating was what the “right” approach was. There is no “right” approach and there’s not enough introspection that’ll answer as to why a woman isn’t feeling you.

Be respectful, upfront, and approachable is what I remind myself. If she still dips, it’s an issue on her end. Maybe I wasn’t attractive to her, maybe she going through her thing — all I know is I came correct.

That’s some BS the “brotherhood” needs to end this generation.
 

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Well damn this female said she was 40 not 30 in her bio I tried to compliment her saying

“I thought you were 30 lol” then got a message notification only to see that I had been unmatched couldn’t even see the message :francis:

Very very sensitive about age even if you try to compliment

Lol I get what you meant but that doesn’t sound like a compliment. :russ: reading it could come off as you takin the piss of her age.

I personally would not have mentioned anything age related till we had a chat rapport
 
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