Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[NeilCartwright]

Whats #handsomegang philosophy on cold approaching when out and about, do yall wait on choosing signals or if we see what we like we just go for it.

I honestly step out, and see who is trying to hold eye contact with me. From there I start up a conversation

 

[Brandsdale]

 

[WaveWhisperer]

Whats #handsomegang philosophy on cold approaching when out and about, do yall wait on choosing signals or if we see what we like we just go for it.

Sometimes you have to just grip ya nutz (harlem) and go for it, never know what could happen

 

[DaRealness]

Every 3 months I get STI tested. And get my Urine and blood tests done. Last week me and the women I see all got ours done. Got my results back today. And they've been sending me theirs throughout the day.

Everyone clear.

When It comes to sexual health I can't take anybody's word that they're 'clean' I want to see the evidence.

I hope everyone in here especially you younger cats are taking care of themselves.

Very important.

Yet I remember in this very thread when I mentioned this a long while back some dude told me I'm only saying it cos it sounds good but it never happens in the real world, some shyt like that.

Yeah, fukk around with your health until its too late.

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

Got a lil situation with my ol lady. Shes had a mail friend since childhood, and from her account he has never violated that platonic friendship line. But a couple years back, he broke up with his then gf, and in that moment he was going through it. Saying should i go back to woman X, get with woman Y, should i get with you (talking about my ol lady). She said she shut it down in that moment, that she valued their friendship too much, she dont see him that way etc.

Well i'm like ok, the fact that he even brought up my ol lady name when he was talking in that moment is enough for me to consider that "platonic" line as being crossed. She feels like that line hasn't been crossed. I feel disrespected when she calls their friendship platonic, and honestly doenst feel like he meant what he said. To me, once that line is crossed, thats it

Mind you this exchange happened a couple years back, before i was even in the picture, but im trying to asses the nature of their friendship. I'm not sure if im overreacting to this. She's said that all i have to do it tell her the boundaries and she'll do it, which i will. But where im at is, i dont like that she doesnt feel like he crossed that line based off what he told her in that moment.Im not really budging on that one. If what he said wasnt out of line, she wouldnt have had to chastise him and shut it down. And from my perspective, as a man, at that point in time, he thought about her sexually (bc of him even throwing her in the mix of that conversation). And of course she shut it down etc. Not sure if im trippen or not

Well it's already been established that It's not just platonic as far as he's concerned. That's very important.

Imagine if the roles were reversed and she found out a female friend you speak to a lot once tried to be with you, you think she'd be comfortable with letting you spend time with that woman? Of course not.

If you put it to her like that and she still acts like she doesn't understand why it bothers you, then that's a red flag IMO.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Very important.

Yet I remember in this very thread when I mentioned this a long while back some dude told me I'm only saying it cos it sounds good but it never happens in the real world, some shyt like that.

Yeah, fukk around with your health until its too late.

when you live a lifestyle of fukking everything walking in the shortest amount of time, it is unrealistic.

These be the same dudes who swear they’ve never encountered anything. Just eye balling the p*ssy for sores and infections.

 

[360dagod]

Well it's already been established that It's not just platonic as far as he's concerned. That's very important.

Imagine if the roles were reversed and she found out a female friend you speak to a lot once tried to be with you, you think she'd be comfortable with letting you spend time with that woman? Of course not.

If you put it to her like that and she still acts like she doesn't understand why it bothers you, then that's a red flag IMO.

It's only so much "policing" you can do...

If you more worried about her than she is you, that's an issue

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

It's only so much "policing" you can do...

If you more worried about her than she is you, that's an issue

I'm not saying police her. The fact that she's pretending not to understand why he would be bothered by her continued friendship to a man who has shown romantic interest in her in the past, is a major red flag in the context of a relationship.

She's not some random jumpoff hence why this bothers him, as it should.

 

[Nokids]

Had a first date with a shorty I matched on hinge
Gorgeous, educated and her body was ridiculous!!! Had to see if the personality matched and it did . Into museums, anime, and music. She’s an audio engineer Read Audiobooks and sponsored by big brands. Took her to a rooftop bar with views of the city told her let’s go back to my spot and smoke.

We smoking taking shots and she was like let me see it.. boyy she started topping me off then… I started throwing up

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

I’m eating very well off hinge right now (met with two already one is a pediatric physician and the other is a school teacher and they setting up the next meet up unsolicited). Just got back on it Sunday too.

Got girls talking about “hey” trying to restart the conversation cause I left em on read

For a man ain’t nothing like having options, that’s where you’re in your most comfortable effortless bag with women and they can sense that shyt.

 

[DJSmooth]

Had a first date with a shorty I matched on hinge
Gorgeous, educated and her body was ridiculous!!! Had to see if the personality matched and it did . Into museums, anime, and music. She’s an audio engineer Read Audiobooks and sponsored by big brands. Took her to a rooftop bar with views of the city told her let’s go back to my spot and smoke.

We smoking taking shots and she was like let me see it.. boyy she started topping me off then… I started throwing up

lmao. Did she take care nurture you back to health or it's a dub? It might be a funny story in the future if it works out.

 

[The ADD]

lmao. Did she take care nurture you back to health or it's a dub? It might be a funny story in the future if it works out.

 

[360dagod]

I'm not saying police her. The fact that she's pretending not to understand why he would be bothered by her continued friendship to a man who has shown romantic interest in her in the past, is a major red flag in the context of a relationship.

She's not some random jumpoff hence why this bothers him, as it should.

It bothers him more than it should cuz he gave up his options and now has to play defense....

Him explaining is a waste of breath lol..

Homeboy needs to start giving her a reason to worry

 

[Nokids]

lmao. Did she take care nurture you back to health or it's a dub? It might be a funny story in the future if it works out.

Nah she def looked out with the water and laid with me after but she dipped out and I was like damn I fukked up But she texted saying she had a good time and wants to chill again

 

[Trapperman Dave]

My brothers lol I keep trying to explain to my coworker a woman of course how men think when it comes to going out on dates this nikka just refuse to accept the reality of how most of us think