Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I entertain a woman coming back into my life based on how we split to begin with.

If she left me or stopped dealing with me for someone else/ghosted me for whatever reason then she can kick rocks, no hate or anything but I just can’t let that disrespect and her low value thought of me at the time of leaving slide. I would never forgive it so it’s a waste of time even entertaining her. :hhh:

Now if things just naturally stopped on a good note and she makes things easy for me then yeah we can see how things flow :yeshrug:
 
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Yeah it's a no no for me if she slid off and got with someone else over me and is now coming back because she wants some ego comfort with someone she feels will be easy. Whilst she gets herself together and looks for another guy she'll probably drop your ass for once she's set.

Save your energy and effort for a woman that chooses you. Its not worth my time if I'm already seeing better woman. I'd have to decline her offer nicely.

But I understand if a guy is going through a dry patch an easy layup can be beneficial.
 
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Depends on the situation. If it was never serious and she circles back for more of the same :manny:, win for me.
 
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VertigoKnight said:
Yeah it's a no no for me if she slid off and got with someone else over me and is now coming back because she wants some ego comfort with someone she feels will be easy. Whilst she gets herself together and looks for another guy she'll probably drop your ass for once she's set.

Save your energy and effort for a woman that chooses you. Its not worth my time if I'm already seeing better woman. I'd have to decline her offer nicely.

But I understand if a guy is going through a dry patch an easy layup can be beneficial.
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@ the bolded. This is what will happen 99% of the time.

-Realize that women operate on a emotional basis mostly all the time.
-Realize that no, she did not have a change of heart. Especially if considerable time has passed since the two of you have been together.
-Realize that a woman trying to run it back is strictly for her benefit and her benefit only. This is especially apparent if you begged her to stay when she left you.
-Realize that the woman you knew before she left no longer exists. Taking her back off of memories is a recipe for disaster.

My last point which could apply to ANY dealings with someone

-Some people only appear in your life to teach you a lesson. As the saying goes “People are in your life for reason, season, or a lifetime”

Recognize where a woman you dealt with or are dealing with falls within those three.
 
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Is it safe to say that when it comes to dating a person's level is determined by how much they earn?
 
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CW_1991 said:
Is it safe to say that when it comes to dating a person's level is determined by how much they earn?
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Moreso experience dating / being involved in relationships with the opposite sex + being mentally capable of learning someone else

It’s a small variable. Money comes to play because if you have more money you can do more, create more memories, etc.
 
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