Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Brehs cavorting, in serious relationships, or even married take heed:

THE GAME NEVER ENDS

Been with my girl for a month and change now. We're still in the honeymoon fukking like rabbits stage.
My dikk is bathed in the finest p*ssy juices and my balls are drained.
I'm living the dream right?

WRONG

Just the other day she pulled the most basic of shyt tests: left me on read the entire day. Up to that point she replied immediately if not soon to my messages.
When I saw that 15 min had passed by with no reply, I didn't trip. I didn't double text. She got my message just like all the others.
I kept on living my life as usual.
When she did text me back all lovey dovey in the evening, I remained cool. No asking where she been, why she ain't reply, none of that. Just made a mental note and KIM.
Like every man, you already know where my mind went
Even still, it served as a reminder that the game is the game. After I passed her little bullshyt test, she invited me over and I blew her back out as usual.
There will be more tests. It's in every woman's nature to qualify you as worthy.
She has to feel secure and know that you're not going to get all emo or lose your cool in a tight situation.
It is what it is. No point in getting mad at fish for swimming.
 

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If you fall for that "I want you to open up and be more vulnerable" bullshyt you're a fool.

Confide in women brehs :mjlol:

Mufuggas think they're gonna be punching the air and start sobbing their way into some p*ssy like Tre. :mjlol:

That's why men gotta be there more for each other cos the minute you get "vulnerable" with a chick she dries up quicker than a drop of water in a furnace. Plus that shyt only gives them leverage.
 
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I got a friend who is like a super Christian by the book. In a way I kind of admire his life but I take everything he says with a grain of salt.

He’s married and his wife just gave birth to their second child. He’s a year older than me. Meanwhile the rest of the guys I know are on hinge and fukking around different chicks.

He told me that most marriages where they that waited to have sex until they were married lasted longer than those that had it before. Idk if I’m super Christian level like that but I do know I want a wife and kids, it’s hard for me to wait till marriage and idk where I would find a women who would be down for that too.
 

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I got a friend who is like a super Christian by the book. In a way I kind of admire his life but I take everything he says with a grain of salt.

He’s married and his wife just gave birth to their second child. He’s a year older than me. Meanwhile the rest of the guys I know are on hinge and fukking around different chicks.

He told me that most marriages where they that waited to have sex until they were married lasted longer than those that had it before. Idk if I’m super Christian level like that but I do know I want a wife and kids, it’s hard for me to wait till marriage and idk where I would find a women who would be down for that too.
think its more about your commitment to your religion as oppose to how committed you are to abstaining from sex


there's HELLA super Christians that get married, cheat and never told they spouse (some I even know unfortunately):mjlol:



that fear of god, and the idea of panopticon, is what really guides people to do right in their marriage. If you fear God will judge you for your sins (all commandments included) then chances are you wont fukk up cause God is always watching
 

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Mufuggas think they're gonna be punching the air and start sobbing their way into some p*ssy like Tre. :mjlol:

That's why men gotta be there more for each other cos the minute you get "vulnerable" with a chick she dries up quicker than a drop of water in a furnace. Plus that shyt only gives them leverage.

Yup. Don't expect to get that level of support from the women in your life. They look to you for strength, stability and support, whether they are willing to admit it or not. I'm not saying don't cry if ya mama dies, but don't fall for the trick of sharing your deepest fears and insecurities with women.

Women will invite you to share these things just to gather information. What real benefit do they get from knowing your vulnerabilities?
 

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If you fall for that "I want you to open up and be more vulnerable" bullshyt you're a fool.

Confide in women brehs :mjlol:

I did that and it works for me and my wife tho :manny:

























Her: I want you to open up and be more vulnerable
Me: ya you right






















Now open them legs so I can make ur vagina more vulnerable to this D :shaq:
 

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Yup. Don't expect to get that level of support from the women in your life. They look to you for strength, stability and support, whether they are willing to admit it or not. I'm not saying don't cry if ya mama dies, but don't fall for the trick of sharing your deepest fears and insecurities with women.

Women will invite you to share these things just to gather information. What real benefit do they get from knowing your vulnerabilities?

So they can throw it in your face at a later time. Even female relatives will do that shyt to you when they're pissed off. Wasn't there some recent video of a dude who was crying his eyes out and talking about his pain while his own mother was like :unimpressed::camby:

That's why when women ask me how I am I'm like "I'm doing great. How about you??":gladbron:

Fool me once.....
 

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So they can throw it in your face at a later time. Even female relatives will do that shyt to you when they're pissed off. Wasn't there some recent video of a dude who was crying his eyes out and talking about his pain while his own mother was like :unimpressed::camby:

That's why when women ask me how I am I'm like "I'm doing great. How about you??":gladbron:

Fool me once.....

Yeah dysfunctional women will do that. Most others will just take note and not feel secure in your presence as well as lose attraction. Security is a core need for women.
 

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think its more about your commitment to your religion as oppose to how committed you are to abstaining from sex


there's HELLA super Christians that get married, cheat and never told they spouse (some I even know unfortunately):mjlol:



that fear of god, and the idea of panopticon, is what really guides people to do right in their marriage. If you fear God will judge you for your sins (all commandments included) then chances are you wont fukk up cause God is always watching
Good points. I know it’s immature of me or maybe I’m not that good enough of a Christian yet but idk how I can wait until I marriage and my wife’s pums is trash juice. And I may be a sex addict idk how imma manage
 

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Good points. I know it’s immature of me or maybe I’m not that good enough of a Christian yet but idk how I can wait until I marriage and my wife’s pums is trash juice. And I may be a sex addict idk how imma manage
Who is forcing you into this predicament?
 

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Great chat in here about sharing your vulnerabilities with women. It's certainly a tough balancing act. We can't pretend to have no feelings and be stoic all the time and we also can't be whining about everything that may upset us. But as men we need somewhere to exhale those stresses and fears. Especially as black men.

But to build a true bond with a chick you both need to share something of yourself. Something you've learnt from a previous relationship that you regret or want to do better at for example.

A lot of my personal vulnerabilities surround my family relationships something that can't easily be thrown back in my face if a woman decides to go rogue.

But the way I hope it goes is if me and a chick come to the end of the road we can be decent to one another and leave it at that.

Angry, bitter women. I haven't come across for a while as I easily avoid those types.

Chick I 'm seeing at the moment we have both talked about why we think our marriages failed. I found it illuminating tbh, and again I guess I'm vulnerable but it could never hurt me again. I've done the work on myself.
 
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