You right bro. That's the course we've been taking. I'm thinking that it's best that we try not to openly acknowledge those type of situations, but it's inevitable and damn near impossible to do, especially with feelings in the equation.
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You right bro. That's the course we've been taking. I'm thinking that it's best that we try not to openly acknowledge those type of situations, but it's inevitable and damn near impossible to do, especially with feelings in the equation.
i disagree. i think the regret is genuine. a lot of women follow their impulses and emotions when they're younger. honestly you're young for so long you think it'll last forever because that's all you know. when you get older you realize however that you'll be older a lot longer than you'll be younger.
nost of what gets called bad decisions that women make are made off short term thinking.
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How old are you chap?
One thing i noticed about a bevy of your posts was how convincingly self-absorbed they are.
That shiit repels women breigh.
You say you walk into a room and with all these things going for you, you can't pull women of your desire?
The look is a VERY SMALL FACET of ones overall game. Your mouth piece should be 100 times more impactful than your "image".
If you don't exude confidence and sex appeal in lieu of telling us how swagged out you are, how truly effective is your approach in dealing with women?
Your hygiene and appearance is EXPECTED if you want to play at an exponential level of gamage.
You're no different than the next man; okay you spend a little more for the Evisu jacket and CK ONE cologne with the Air Force One Italian jumpoff edition.
But that's trivial when it comes to the grand scheme of attraction.
What i do commend about you is that you're willing to learn.
The guys who focus too much on their look lose sight of how to develop their character/personality. You seem pretty cut and dry. All buzz but no fly.
Working on your accomplishments is a start. You're going to school, bettering your future - but what are you doing right now that differentiates you from the next man?
Why would a woman choose you? There are tons of guys who dress well, look nice, intelligent... but you have to be able to sell that with your pizzazz. How unique are you? How creative will your verbal ensemble be when you're chatting her up? Do you have a sense of humor? What makes you special?
You crack an egg with one hand fluidly? Mix raw cement with a popsicle stick?
Throw a boomerang with your eyes closed and catch it riding a unicycle?
Do you have any suggestions on how to keep waters beds from freezing in an igloo?
Ideas, concepts, stories, material for future date set-up...
Man, all this comes with experience.
Are you even a charming dude?
It's great that you point out your strengths... now work on developing your character. Women love a man who's eccentric yet not too peculiar that it's creepy. You just have to find your niche/schtick, harbor it, let it manifest and then apply it.
Do you know how you get over being reserved/shy/bytchmade around women of higher caliber? YOu gotta to talk to EVERYBODY!!! Get comfortable with talking period. And EH EH EH, don't tell me you are... because it should be able to and willingly initiating interaction with people of all shapes, colors, sizes, creeds and flavors... that when you do strike it up with a dime piece, shiit is purely second nature.
You feel?
Your goal is to reach the stage in your life where if you were blinded, placed in a random position with any kind of stranger (i.e., a group of venture capital execs to a room full of strippers or victoria's secret models)... open up the blind fold and be able to effortlessly kill the mothafukkin scene with some awesome conversation and be the ULTIMATE center of attention.
That's what you get when you're so comfortable in your own skin you could sell roller blades to a paraplegic. Garlic to a vampire. Jeans and other westernized clothes to a Muslim woman.
You could convince a homeless man to fill out and submit a gawt damn job application!!!
Game is a state of mind. But that destination CANNOT be reached without experience.
Keep putting yourself out there and you will learn.
Get burnt. Get hurt. Get flaked on and ranked. Get fukked over and so heart broken - you're swallowing superglue in hopes of refragmenting it.
I keep telling people that this "GEMS" is the best shiit on the internet.
Just believe in the creed. Plant the seeds, watch it blossom with glee.
then you will succeed... and you shall - indeed, young bleed.
And i'm out;
God speed.
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movies, media etc. have corrupted many chicks minds, younger women especially hold onto the fantasy that the no good nikka is gonna change and come around and there gonna live happily ever after
many single moms get knocked up by a loser but still hold in thier mind, he will come around, he'll be there for his kid, he'll marry me, then when none of it happens and the costs of raising that kid, daycare etc., the men who they are interested in giving them the
, they realize damn what was i thinking. but when your young and naive, hell i remember when i was 21 gonna get married at 22, life was set or so i thought, now 7 years older i wish i could go back in time and slap myself for being such a foolmovies, media etc. have corrupted many chicks minds, younger women especially hold onto the fantasy that the no good nikka is gonna change and come around and there gonna live happily ever after
many single moms get knocked up by a loser but still hold in thier mind, he will come around, he'll be there for his kid, he'll marry me, then when none of it happens and the costs of raising that kid, daycare etc., the men who they are interested in giving them the
ya that movie shyt be fukking things up all the time be like y cant we be like that or i want a guy like that
im glad when i was younger i was wild and having fun getting all that shyt outta my system it truly helped me from giving in temptation as i got older and got in serious relationships
but i do wish at times back in the day i didnt have to go above and beyond in some situations for a female that caused me issues or years wasted too and just sit back and do enough and walk away from it
i also wish that i learned bout inner beauty ALOT MORE SOONER and not just stay fukking with dime pieces and gave more women a chance with me instead of being so damn shallow cuz their were a few that i know for a fact that were GOOD WOMAN
but i was on my dumb tip looks are a priority when they shouldnt be cuz once i figured that out it was too late but in essence though it showed me things bout a woman that i never knew and learned more bout myself in the process
The thing is, many women are fully aware of what they are doing, but they simply do not care about the potential consequences until these women have to deal with those consequences. And what is worse is that they have the audacity to portray themselves as victims as a way to avoid taking personal responsibility for their decisions and far too often, society affords them this luxury. This has resulted in many women thinking that they can be perpetual fukk-ups and be given slack in spite of doing so, and it has gotten out of control.
This definitely is a difficult time to deal with women to have one for the long-term, but what makes that so fly is that it is times of adversity that bring out the best in a man. It's those tough times that will test your mettle and give you the opportunity to see what you're really made of... and will really polish your game to a high degree.
so realize this. When you're out here dealing with these women, you got three choices
you can step out
get stepped on
or step up
This is quite a fine time to really make your mark... but you have to have the heart to do it. Is it in you?
so realize this. When you're out here dealing with these women, you got three choices
you can step out
get stepped on
or step up
This is quite a fine time to really make your mark... but you have to have the heart to do it. Is it in you?
One of the tools I want ya'll to develop on that defensive end is the baseball bat.
During your tenure of dealing with women, they occasionally take a big ball of nonsense and throw it at you to test you. You have to step up and knock it out the park. If you don't, you strike out and she will escalate her behavior or peel off.
For example, you might have a woman step to you and ask, "Can I go to dinner with an old male friend of mine?"
You have to step up and knock it out the park. If you come weak, talking about, "Yeah baby, I trust you," then you will end up looking like a sucker. Now a lot of women hate having this notion of a man 'controlling them', so how I would respond is:
"Look baby, you can do whatever you want to do... but the question is you need to worry about what I'm going to do in response. You choose to go out to dinner with another man, but you're choosing to have me get up out of your life. You know better than to ask me a question like that."
If she is real about you, she will say,"Yeah, you're right."
In that case, you need to mash harder and say,"Look, you made the right choice, but where you in violation is if you want to be with me, you need to get it out your head of dealing with other men. You shouldn't even be having another man's number."
Now on the other hand, if she says something like, "You're being insecure," you need to hit her with that verbal judo and flip her over... tell her, "Nah babygirl, you must need eyeglasses because you sure ain't seeing me right. I'm more than secure in myself. I'm so secure to know that if you can't respect me, then you better get from up around me."
This is why it's important to have principles and a firm realization of what you will and will not accept. This is something powerful for you right here... you need to learn to like a woman's behavior more than her looks. If she cannot pass the proper behavior litmus test, you must have no hesitation in getting her from around you. A lot of men get too caught in 'having' a woman, but how can you say you really 'have' her if her tenure with you is filled with nothing but problems? That's called a liability. As a man of value, you don't want to accept liabilities into your life in a position as important as your woman. Your woman must be an asset-- in other words she must make your life better. If she can't do that, then learn to let her go.
During your tenure of dealing with women, they occasionally take a big ball of nonsense and throw it at you to test you. You have to step up and knock it out the park. If you don't, you strike out and she will escalate her behavior or peel off.
For example, you might have a woman step to you and ask, "Can I go to dinner with an old male friend of mine?"
You have to step up and knock it out the park. If you come weak, talking about, "Yeah baby, I trust you," then you will end up looking like a sucker. Now a lot of women hate having this notion of a man 'controlling them', so how I would respond is:
"Look baby, you can do whatever you want to do... but the question is you need to worry about what I'm going to do in response. You choose to go out to dinner with another man, but you're choosing to have me get up out of your life. You know better than to ask me a question like that."
If she is real about you, she will say,"Yeah, you're right."
In that case, you need to mash harder and say,"Look, you made the right choice, but where you in violation is if you want to be with me, you need to get it out your head of dealing with other men. You shouldn't even be having another man's number."
Now on the other hand, if she says something like, "You're being insecure," you need to hit her with that verbal judo and flip her over... tell her, "Nah babygirl, you must need eyeglasses because you sure ain't seeing me right. I'm more than secure in myself. I'm so secure to know that if you can't respect me, then you better get from up around me."
This is why it's important to have principles and a firm realization of what you will and will not accept. This is something powerful for you right here... you need to learn to like a woman's behavior more than her looks. If she cannot pass the proper behavior litmus test, you must have no hesitation in getting her from around you. A lot of men get too caught in 'having' a woman, but how can you say you really 'have' her if her tenure with you is filled with nothing but problems? That's called a liability. As a man of value, you don't want to accept liabilities into your life in a position as important as your woman. Your woman must be an asset-- in other words she must make your life better. If she can't do that, then learn to let her go.
Just saw this post on my FB Newsfeed. Chick opened her account after being away for a year. Happy I stay far away from these chicks.
The simps are already flying in.
The simps are already flying in.
Just saw this post on my FB Newsfeed. Chick opened her account after being away for a year. Happy I stay far away from these chicks.
smh
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that's cool and i feel you on that. the hard part though is justifying why you still have other chick's numbers while she's not allowed to, lol.
You can't really justify it because you know that that's not a mutually respectful thing. Some women WILL go for it, but that was something you had to have established when you first dealt with her and she had to have willingly accepted when she dealt with you. If she caught you with that number when you gave her the impression of exclusivity, she starts getting this notion that you are hiding things from her and it could very well make her start hiding things from you.
and that's the real. Some of us guys just shouldn't be in a relationship but we still get into them because
a. we want to claim exclusivity on the kitty
b. we're scared that she'll leave if we don't put a title on it
if you're not ready to make it exclusive, don't make it exclusive. If she wants to make it exclusive and you don't, you tell her exactly that and if she tells you "it's not fair because i'm not talking to anyone else" you do the
but then you have to be ready for her to talk to other people (and i'd also still advise not to abuse your power too much...)
Yeah so the girl I'm messing with smashed the dude when she went home over the weekend. Not surprised. She did mention that if I told her not to do it, she wouldn't have done it.
The exclusivity, and position of power angles are interesting ones. I'm not going to put a chain & lock on her vagina since this stint is about to end in about 2 1/2 months. I'd feel unnatural trying to force myself to get disgruntled over another dude hitting, when I'm not that attached to her myself. If the possibility of us seeing each other for another year was in tow, then I'd react differently.
The exclusivity, and position of power angles are interesting ones. I'm not going to put a chain & lock on her vagina since this stint is about to end in about 2 1/2 months. I'd feel unnatural trying to force myself to get disgruntled over another dude hitting, when I'm not that attached to her myself. If the possibility of us seeing each other for another year was in tow, then I'd react differently.
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Stay safe. Make sure you're wrapping it up. ^