Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I'm not gonna front I prefer cold approaching

A lot of these Gen Z chicks on these apps are socially awkward as hell

I miss pre 2020 Tinder
Felt this heavy plus they all turning tinder into christian mingle talking about relationships

What age group do you guys date/take serious? I’m 30 and for me it’s 26-30. I dont want to no woman older than me
 

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Felt this heavy plus they all turning tinder into christian mingle talking about relationships

What age group do you guys date/take serious? I’m 30 and for me it’s 26-30. I dont want to no woman older than me
I'm 30 myself and for me 19-30

Chicks from 19-23 just want to have fun. Being playful and giving them adventurous experience is my strongpoint. This also the age where you can train a chick to follow your program. Very impressionable.

Chicks from 23-28 are more level-headed and a bit mature. More open about their sexuality. Still in their "hoe phase". This is the range I mostly go for.
 

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I'm not gonna front I prefer cold approaching

A lot of these Gen Z chicks on these apps are socially awkward as hell

I miss pre 2020 Tinder
they are goofy in all age groups.
they change based on how long they've been on the apps.

at first its fun to them because they get so much attention from a wide variety of men...
...but after getting pumped and dumped dozens of times they start talking about "where are all the good men!? :bryan:"

thats when you start seeing "looking for a LTR not interested in games".
even then they are full of shyt because if they've experienced high status cats they cant unsee it.

It comes down to where you catch them in their dating cycle.

that chick thats straight forward and not hard to deal with?
she's been through it and is just looking for a cat to not ghost her
 

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I'm 30 myself and for me 19-30

Chicks from 19-23 just want to have fun. Being playful and giving them adventurous experience is my strongpoint. This also the age where you can train a chick to follow your program. Very impressionable.

Chicks from 23-28 are more level-headed and a bit mature. More open about their sexuality. Still in their "hoe phase". This is the range I mostly go for.
Good breakdown

I def messed with those 19-23 year old joints they kept me in the loop with a lot of things and were dtf but would never take one serious at all.

fukked with a 23 year old with money(inheritance) had me feeling like
rosebudd jr :wow:

but my conscious couldn’t do it:russ:

I just became more receptive to late 20’s -30 year old women I always was a little wary because I felt they would want to rush to have a kid but I am enjoying the maturity and relatable things to talk about (life before phones, tv shows etc)
 

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Example of terms / boundaries?
For me, it would be

-Not inteferring with my workout time
-Not having an issue with my cannabis use
-Alignment on budget

It just comes down to what each person will allow in the relationship. What are expectations and when changes in life happen, it's good to revisit to make amendments.
 

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Fun evening with the Korean chick. I worked later than expected yesterday and couldn't cook like I planned, so told her we could eat out.

She said she wanted to just have a chill one on one me and her and she could pick up a takeaway on the way over. Say no more.

Had a shower and she showed up 40 mins later, with some korean food. Things went pretty much as expected, ate, chilled, had a good chat and then relaxed and got down to it. She warned me she was kinda insatiable, and she wasn't playing.

She pre emptively brought an overnight bag 'just in case' and left this morning, as she wasn't working till this evening.

Good times overall and I'll see her again very soon.
 

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Fun evening with the Korean chick. I worked later than expected yesterday and couldn't cook like I planned, so told her we could eat out.

She said she wanted to just have a chill one on one me and her and she could pick up a takeaway on the way over. Say no more.

Had a shower and she showed up 40 mins later, with some korean food. Things went pretty much as expected, ate, chilled, had a good chat and then relaxed and got down to it. She warned me she was kinda insatiable, and she wasn't playing.

She pre emptively brought an overnight bag 'just in case' and left this morning, as she wasn't working till this evening.

Good times overall and I'll see her again very soon.
:leon:
 

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I don’t get black women at times for example if some of them want a black guy he gotta have an edge to him but when it comes to a white dude he can be just as normal as possible. Do they not ses the issue with that logic?
Logic to who? At the end of the day it’s their logic so if that’s what they want……..

It might be nonsense to everyone else but people want what they want. No sense for you or anyone to spend time thinking about it IMO.
 

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Logic to who? At the end of the day it’s their logic so if that’s what they want……..

It might be nonsense to everyone else but people want what they want. No sense for you or anyone to spend time thinking about it IMO.
It aggravates me when they group all us black dudes together when they specifically go for those and in the same breath say white men treat their women better
 

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This single mother with multiple kids(over 4) threw a hail Mary and asked if I was in a relationship..😢

The universe must sending me a message that I'm doing something wrong in life lol
How did you even get in a position to talk to her in that way?
 

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How did you even get in a position to talk to her in that way?

She knew me for Years thru my job..I even know one of her child/children's father lol..
Random conversation turned into that question

Maybe it's the valentine's day "rush" starting along with Proximity rules in play, but I just think I'm giving off a certain "energy" that makes these types bold enough to ask.
 
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