skyrunner1
Superstar
were you guys always naturally eating from your circumstances, or did you have to develop to have the game you have now?
was there any insecurities for you to overcome or a dark period?
how was the initial immersion of socializing? i feel like i have nothing to talk about.
Looking back a couple circumstances helped me early at young age that helped me benefit but I didnt really have "game", that developed over the years and then coming to spaces like this and reading alot of the different books out there at first made my game take a step back actually then it came together.
Circumstances include party line (showing my age, lol), lifting weights, club promoting and Original social media marketing program:
-Grew up young age going to women hair salon as kid, I was the one that had to clean up, I heard all the stories/gossip, they didnt really care because I didnt really pay attention and didnt understand until much later, why did this lady I know from church with her family have another dude pulling up to salon to give her money, plus the older cute girls were cool around me and we joked around.. This just made me comfortable around women young, in that era only few women got their hair done consistently/weekly. They either used their look to make money or women of nite (waitress, bartender, dancers, etc.) much smaller scene back then.
-Being on party line from like 8th grade, lol.. (gave MANY reps with speaking to women and holding conversations then drawing it to natural sexual conversation, I can still do that to this day with ease, its crazy). Started meeting girls up in high school, what I learned was dudes talk too much and girls were scared to mess with dudes from their high school because they could mess up their rep. I didnt go to their school so I found a untapped market where we both could get experience we wanted with low risk. Still to this day I benefit from those skills, my confidence is soo high I always tell people if I can get a chick on phone I can seal deal easily.
-Joining sport teams in high school (put me in contact with other dudes who were confident and popular, they gave LOTS of game, being around older coaches who spoke on their experiences and offer positive male influence, introduction to lifting weights for 3 years and last 2 years working out twice a day and thats before joining college)
-Getting in party scene and start doing promotions and parties right before graduating and next couple years after high school. I dont know anything that exposed to more female nature in actual circle than this, I still didnt put it all together because in your head you think its ONLY these type of girls. But this scene was alot of drama, we used to go to different colleges and setup events, this gave access to ALOT. Started to put numbers on board but not from having game, just being in a top position with access and the sheer volume of attractive ladies who have first taste of freedom and use their sexuality to barter with.
-Probably mentioned only once but the time where put the most numbers on board came because of a program marketers used on myspace, we were promoting and started using it also, this program was the one that made captcha take off, lol. It was CRAZY, basically we could search an area/zip code by age/sex/athletic build/ethnicity and then mass send message like hey you look familiar wassup.. Soo imagine sending 1000s messages at one time with even 25% response rate, lmaooo.. BIGGEST CHEAT CODE EVER. The best way I can put it is imagine having a responsive tinder that ONLY YOU have access to. No one was using it like that, me and my boys were EATING. It got soo out of control that it basically became a part time job, going out 5+ times a week became expensive tho, so thats where initial exposure to "game" came from, we had to trade notes with each other to really elevate our success rate. It was crazy tho, I never put up higher numbers than that time..
After those years, got out of party scene (BIG mistake, thought I had to "grow up".. Dude from my era, ended up becoming right hand man for dam near largest club promoter in world, you can imagine the models and stuff they deal with while swimming in loot, lol), market goes bust, take a beating. ISOLATE myself as I try to grind back and then jump back on scene couple years later.. Things have CHANGED, I have changed.. Isolation is death to social skills. Most guys when I hear there issues its usually a couple things but usually at top is they isolate themselves too much on computers/video games. These younger cats arent around just as friends or understand they just normal people, like they build this mystic around them and put them on pedestal. This is when I get introduced to "game" stuff online, and it was like I finally found the place I always needed. I wasnt jaded soo much but I could never connect the dots by myself, I had success but huge holes in overall game. Took steps back doing things consciously but then it merged and came together.
From another post sounds like you young 22. Breh the game JUST STARTING for you, you already have experience it seems also, I know it dont seem that way but you ahead of the game and dont know it. Most, High MAJORITY of dudes not getting play in high school like that. It might not seem like that on outside looking in but they not. Have been to football and regular reunions where dudes egos dont have to hide it and we speaking candidly and dudes openly saying they wasnt getting any in high school. The way most guys got any is girl chooses them, they end up in relationship for months and then they get some from their girl, they holding on to that source TIGHT to get thru them high school years, lol..
What most guys need is HIGH reps in exposure and proximity. If you in college, you should have BOTH. Odds are in your favor but you got to put yourself out there. Join clubs, get a campus job, club sports and/or intramurals, you got greek systems, extracurricular clubs for all types of topics, find your tribe, try to get in leadership position or some type of authority and then network/socialize. Use all the stuff you pay for, "free" gym, pool, track, tutoring, study groups. Go to events parties as much as your grades not suffering allow. Find your unique angle to stack the cards in your favor. There is always glitches in system, I showed mine above, time/technology might change but if your look at things from how you can benefit and take advantage you can see how you can make moves.