Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I love my Carribbean women but majority of them are lacking in the ass department .:francis:.

Chick I been talking to online said she got thick thighs but no ass . I hope she's exaggerating and atleast has a little something and is not completely flat .

I don't think I could seriously date a woman with no ass whatsoever .
 

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If you show you’re not judgemental, women will slip up, over share & tell you about “how many bodies they have”.

Not the exact number, but you can gauge their hoe-ness based on how they move.

Turns me off a bit when they over share, but it does give me an outlook on their character & sexual experience, which is helpful. In addition, they could be showcasing that their good in bed to me.
 

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If you show you’re not judgemental, women will slip up, over share & tell you about “how many bodies they have”.

Not the exact number, but you can gauge their hoe-ness based on how they move.

Turns me off a bit when they over share, but it does give me an outlook on their character & sexual experience, which is helpful. In addition, they could be showcasing that their good in bed to me.
Also, the first time she is naked in front of you, if she is not slightly shy, most likely many men have seen her naked.

Women with low body count usually are shy the first time you see them naked.

Just from my experience.
 

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Got a few dates this weekend, but I can't do anything until this moscullum clears up (dermatologist gave me some medicine so it's just a waiting game. I figured this would be a good time to try getting that roster I wanted for thwinter setup, so I figure I 'll just forgo sex on the first date and hope they don't get upset by waiting a week or so.

Who knows maybe they might be down to wait a bit, and that might give me brownie points by standing out from the smash and dash crowd.

Or it might just crash and burn.:mjlol:
 

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Chick that I matched with on BLK really wants to fukk. 2 seconds into the convo and she asks me if I eat ass which I :scust: at. She talking bout she want a FWB and can't find one and wants to meet up, but I don't think I want to do it. She's not that big which Is cool and not that unattractive, but damn... Dating apps are weird for me. I get matches despite being 5'5 and I'm uglygang sorta kind of, but I don't know. I prefer meeting women in real life type shyt,.
 

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Chick that I matched with on BLK really wants to fukk. 2 seconds into the convo and she asks me if I eat ass which I :scust: at. She talking bout she want a FWB and can't find one and wants to meet up, but I don't think I want to do it. She's not that big which Is cool and not that unattractive, but damn... Dating apps are weird for me. I get matches despite being 5'5 and I'm uglygang sorta kind of, but I don't know. I prefer meeting women in real life type shyt,.
It might be my age or just the general life stages of the apps, but I've been moving more towards real life again.

They were fun back in the 2010s when the novelty was fresh and they were next big thing, and they were super helpful when I was living in STL during Covid. Nowadays,

I'm living in the heart of Hollywood, and there's so much more going on than back in the midwest. Better nightlife, more activities, you can literally just find a group for anything in LA. Plus it seems like the apps are played out. Lot of people are skeeved out by them and it seems the pendulum is swinging back after pandemic ended. I'd rather chopped with some peeps at a rooftop lounge or on a hike at Runyon Canyon.
 

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Chick that I matched with on BLK really wants to fukk. 2 seconds into the convo and she asks me if I eat ass which I :scust: at. She talking bout she want a FWB and can't find one and wants to meet up, but I don't think I want to do it. She's not that big which Is cool and not that unattractive, but damn... Dating apps are weird for me. I get matches despite being 5'5 and I'm uglygang sorta kind of, but I don't know. I prefer meeting women in real life type shyt,.
What’s your success rate offline?
 

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What’s your success rate offline?
it's aight, women don't really give me any attention to be honest or maybe I'm not paying enough attention or something. basically, what I've been doing lately is having more interactions/conversations with women of all backgrounds in general even though I only go after Black women. It's been cool, I make some laugh, some have tried extending conversations long when I've tried to leave and go on about my business.
 

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Chick that I matched with on BLK really wants to fukk. 2 seconds into the convo and she asks me if I eat ass which I :scust: at. She talking bout she want a FWB and can't find one and wants to meet up, but I don't think I want to do it. She's not that big which Is cool and not that unattractive, but damn... Dating apps are weird for me. I get matches despite being 5'5 and I'm uglygang sorta kind of, but I don't know. I prefer meeting women in real life type shyt,.

BLK is a trash app. On par with pof just straight bottom-of-the-barrel women.

I'd sidestep that chick sounds like she's lining you up.

Thirsty men would pull up to meet her and run into the guys that are waiting to rob you.

That or she'll leave you with a burning present that you'll need antibiotics for.
 

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Brehs weren’t lying about the women in Vancouver. They fasho on go for a well kept brotha. Already got a date with a Chilean chick and a Brazilian chick for when I touch down. The Chilean wants to cook me Chilean food since I’ve never had it :wow:
Inbox pics bro
 

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Those grandparents who sleep in different rooms got it right. It's part of the reason why they're still together. They were able to adjust over the years of being together FOREVER. shyt even my parents sleep in different rooms now.

From a guy's perspective, we see ourselves settling down with a girl we find attractive, someone we connect with and hang out with. Guys also want their own space to do shyt-- playing 2k, watching sports, drinking with the homies, and other individual activities.

And some cases, your girl tries to change that about you instead of accepting you as you are, which in the long-term planning the relationship will be a disaster. This is why grandparents sleep alone, dads have mancaves, guys have poker night/drinking night, etc.

When a girl is feeling you, wanting you-- for most of them, women will want all your attention and time to be with them. For example, less time going out with your drinking buddies and more hanging out with your friends who are in a relationship too, fewer sports events and shyt you like to watch but more of something you both can enjoy, someone who's probably going to post you on social media all the time, etc. :gucci:

This is why I believe in smashing before I get into a relationship. I always put my A-Game into a girl I'm really feeling. She's digging me too.
We end up smashing a few times and then I'm like :patrice: and I don't put in the effort anymore. I don't want to talk or hang out like that anymore either, even though I still might dig them or whatever.

This is why they say show me a hot chick and I'll show you a guy that's tired of getting with her.


You really have to like that girl ALOT for it to work out. And she can't change those certain aspects about you.

Isn't this the point of Pac's Run Tha Streets?
So do mine never cared to ask why though :huhldup:
 
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