Those grandparents who sleep in different rooms got it right. It's part of the reason why they're still together. They were able to adjust over the years of being together FOREVER. shyt even my parents sleep in different rooms now.
From a guy's perspective, we see ourselves settling down with a girl we find attractive, someone we connect with and hang out with. Guys also want their own space to do shyt-- playing 2k, watching sports, drinking with the homies, and other individual activities.
And some cases, your girl tries to change that about you instead of accepting you as you are, which in the long-term planning the relationship will be a disaster. This is why grandparents sleep alone, dads have mancaves, guys have poker night/drinking night, etc.
When a girl is feeling you, wanting you-- for most of them, women will want all your attention and time to be with them. For example, less time going out with your drinking buddies and more hanging out with your friends who are in a relationship too, fewer sports events and shyt you like to watch but
more of something you both can enjoy, someone who's probably going to post you on social media all the time, etc.
This is why I believe in smashing before I get into a relationship. I always put my A-Game into a girl I'm really feeling. She's digging me too.
We end up smashing a few times and then I'm like
and I don't put in the effort anymore. I don't want to talk or hang out like that anymore either, even though I still might dig them or whatever.
This is why they say show me a hot chick and I'll show you a guy that's tired of getting with her.
You really have to like that girl ALOT for it to work out. And she can't change those certain aspects about you.
Isn't this the point of Pac's Run Tha Streets?
begging women for handouts?
