Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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...hmm, nah i disagree. If i thought this way I wouldn't even be talking to girls romantically. I've won with good women and I've met milestones with girls in my life that have absolutely been champions in sofar as they see us together as opportunities to grow and build stronger than we were apart. Seems like you're seperating "women" from "people" which is odd but hey that's you.

So you need a woman to be great? Or you want great women around you? There's a difference. Sounds like you want a cheerleader with a bank account, which is fine, though not my point. As I already posted, you don't need a woman to be a "champion", if you think you do, you need more help than having a pretty face around you for morale support.
 

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This breh I know, has a 3 year old daughter. Him and his baby moms been living together since the child was born. They've been going through some issues and he recently found out she's pregnant for someone else :picard:

Not married I take it? He's just making dumb decisions with a bird he rarely knows. Any money bet he takes care of the b*stard as well.
 

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Saturday at 8:30 was texting my girl and she said she's feeling asleep and going to bed. Called her 15 minutes later no answer. She texted me yesterday Sunday the morning like nothing happened. Gave her the cold shoulders.

My guts telling me something not right but I have 0 proof.

Who do I handle this situation brothers ?

You called her 15 minutes into her telling you that she's going to bed....sounds like you're a bit too clingy my friend, lay off giving her attention and focus on yourself a bit. Your woman should be coming after you, not you thirsting over what she might be doing just because she didn't pick up your phone call. If that simple gesture bothers you this much, you need to re-shift. Or expand on the entire situation.
 

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Honestly, I prefer meeting girls without social media. I had success with snap and IG, but I get very lazy fast since it's mostly virtual.

I prefer establishing bonds in real life because I get to feel the person without any distractions. Way more fun.

I agree, though its almost impossible these days. Everyone is tethered to their phone and have at the very least; 2 types of socials. The best you can hope for is a bird who doesn't really use any of them frequently.
 

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It feels nice to finally find the love of your life.



Like, i'm at work thinking about her and I get sappy as fukk.




Damn famb.



A vigga really gonna hang up this playa jerzey 1nce and for all times.




Wish me luck, fellas.




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Congrats breh.

But you be real careful with that "love of my life" talk we all thought that at some point :russ:

Best we can do is enjoy someone until the day they change up.
 

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I agree, though its almost impossible these days. Everyone is tethered to their phone and have at the very least; 2 types of socials. The best you can hope for is a bird who doesn't really use any of them frequently.
The best women I ever met didn't have no social media presence. They were very engaging and genuine. But I agree it's rare since everything is positioned around social media nowadays. I just keep it as a portfolio for photos.
 

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:why: Chick got me doing all this back and forth texting only to casually drop in that she has a child. She was badd too . I hate when they do that
a chic I met a couple months back at an event introduced herself that way (her bd is a friend I went to college with)

shyt is super weird but the sooner the better I guess. Shorty in yur situation probably comfortable with you enough to tell you that so maybe its a sign she prolly likes you :manny:
 

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My ex called me few weeks ago, I didn't pick up. Today she called again, I gave in & picked up. She said she missed me & she called to "check up" on me. :comeon:

We had a convo catching up on our families, work, dating.....etc.

I felt nothing after the call, I have come a long way since the break up. I guess having a new woman I'm getting to know has helped.
 

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What she think a nikka thinkin

Meanwhile City Boyz puttin numbers on the board
 
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