RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
What happened with your last girl you talked about on here?
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Tres Leches
Empire Business
Yup. I’ve heard women say, if they need dikk (well not exactly that word lol) they have someone who they can call. Basically attempting to move like men.
DTXwavey_02
All Star
Haven't tapped in for a while. Hope all the brehs been improving and focused on their goals while making 5-10% of your time for women/leisure... The world economy is changing and we have to be on grind mode, we gotta have our assets up and livelihood in order to provide and thrive in these coming times whether you have a woman by your side or not.
Question for all the brehs because it's scary how on point I be.... can y'all tell when a woman has a situation going on or is unavailable? Like just being able to save yourself the need to even approach/interact outside of maybe a smile or wassup because you just get that 6th sense she has somethin going on, whether it's a man, kids, or something extra. My game is big on eye contact and one thing I've noticed is like the pimp game, certain women when they are taken will NEVER even look at you, you might as well not exist. Or they'll go out of their way to not have to cross paths with you thinking you might try to open them up. It's crazy cause most times when I see shorties and I get that sense, I'll either see the ring and be like I knew she was cuffed, or if I do open them up it usually comes out they been in a LTR, like over a year. Still gotta see wassup though sometimes even though I'm rarely off my intuition, cause I never know when I just miiiiight be wrong and end up +1 .
Nah, I don’t have time for all that. I don’t like to overthink too much, but overall, you’ll never really know. The best way to gauge is by the effort. Whether it’s talking to you, asking you questions, give you small gifts, maybe she takes you out for a drink, etc.
Just keep shooting, you’ll never know what might happen. It’s all a numbers game. Lose the defeatist, scared mindset. Enjoy life.
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BigBlackSea
All Star
So that's that new move. Might be advantageous to forego trying to get action the first date.
I never had a roster before, so I might employing that strategy.
You’re better off pushing the envelope and going for the smash first date. Atleast you let intentions be known up front.
BigBlackSea
All Star
That's been my MO for the longest time. I've got what it takes for me to smash, but how to I keep them coming back?
Lieutenant Daniels
I’m up for Major
Question for all the brehs because it's scary how on point I be.... can y'all tell when a woman has a situation going on or is unavailable? Like just being able to save yourself the need to even approach/interact outside of maybe a smile or wassup because you just get that 6th sense she has somethin going on, whether it's a man, kids, or something extra. My game is big on eye contact and one thing I've noticed is like the pimp game, certain women when they are taken will NEVER even look at you, you might as well not exist. Or they'll go out of their way to not have to cross paths with you thinking you might try to open them up. It's crazy cause most times when I see shorties and I get that sense, I'll either see the ring and be like I knew she was cuffed, or if I do open them up it usually comes out they been in a LTR, like over a year. Still gotta see wassup though sometimes even though I'm rarely off my intuition, cause I never know when I just miiiiight be wrong and end up +1 .
In my experience when women have something going on (fwb, kids, in a relationship) they typically act kinda icy towards me ( not engaged in the conversation, walking while talking, won’t make eye contact/avoid me, or just straight up ignore me). On the flip side I’ve had a woman do all the above and be interested waiting for me to talk to her. Ultimately I’ve learned that the only TRUE indication of her mental availability and physical availability is if she is making things easy for you AND giving you the ass within 3 dates. Really the best you can do is shoot your shot because you never know. If I get any resistance when we first start talking I assume her attraction towards me is below the threshold and I’m just an ego boost, so bushes and on to the next.
Exactly. Mental availability & Physical is key. Both of these elements need to be present, or you’re looked at as an ego boost.
If it’s real life & the convo is easy, she’s down to meet within 36 hours, I know I’m good. If it starts slowing down at any point, I know there’s most likely someone else or she’s just bored.
When it’s online, I just drop my Google number as fast as possible. That clears up anything. As soon as I drop it, I expect a text from her. If she starts asking questions or asks goofy, I bush.
Usually after date 1, I can figure it out. (The hug, physical touch, etc.) I only give two dates.
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Lieutenant Daniels
I’m up for Major
At the bolded. You holding a sermon this morning 
Exactly. For me there’s the assumption there is ALWAYS someone else. I can be wrong, I can be right but playing it like that keeps me even mentally on point and able to see the games. Like you I learned that if they’re easy to link within 36 hours AND she lets me get physical then she’s definitely interested. If she don’t give me the ass within 3 meet ups I bush REGARDLESS of how cool she is
The True HD
Billionaire
Conqueror that’s fearless. Just my observations playing the field. Yes let us keep enjoying life every day like it is our last, with impact and interesting events
Exactly. For me there’s the assumption there is ALWAYS someone else. I can be wrong, I can be right but playing it like that keeps me even mentally on point and able to see the games. Like you I learned that if they’re easy to link within 36 hours AND she lets me get physical then she’s definitely interested. If she don’t give me the ass within 3 meet ups I bush REGARDLESS of how cool she is
Blessings lol
36 hours is easy. I explained that to a woman recently, I need face to face so I can figure out if I want to continue to invest. She was like:
All that texting just makes you the “emotional text buddy” (if you didn’t hit several times). Any woman that pops in and pops out, I’m not interested & neither is she.
The funny thing about other guys is you honestly never know, but women do always have their phones on them. If you’re top 1% in her world or the highest on the totem poll, they’ll be callin, texting you within minutes. Even apologizing if they don’t get back to in a decent time frame. Eager to ask, when you’ll see them again. I always tell them effort gets rewarded.
Wargames
One Of The Last Real Ones To Do It
i don’t know about this…. The women I mess with reflect my energy or maybe we just have similar energy to begin with. Either way, occasionally they will type back to a text immediately if we’re planning on meeting that day, but I don’t expect them too normally do that because I don’t either.Blessings lol
36 hours is easy. I explained that to a woman recently, I need face to face so I can figure out if I want to continue to invest. She was like:
All that texting just makes you the “emotional text buddy” (if you didn’t hit several times). Any woman that pops in and pops out, I’m not interested & neither is she.
The funny thing about other guys is you honestly never know, but women do always have their phones on them. If you’re top 1% in her world or the highest on the totem poll, they’ll be callin, texting you within minutes. Even apologizing if they don’t get back to in a decent time frame. Eager to ask, when you’ll see them again. I always tell them effort gets rewarded.
Ain’t shyt to talk about that is urgent enough to need immediate response.
Like I’m her lover not her friend. Meanwhile my female friends respond quicker because we have things in common that we find interesting to talk about.
I always say this but having legitimate female friends makes having a chick easier because you see the difference interaction and you realize being too friendly isn’t the point. Talking to much isn’t the point.