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BigBlackSea
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Well after 11 months, I'm back on the market.
Gonna restart my Hinge and Bumble, and hit up a Club Crawl this weekend.
Also going to spend some more time on my own activities and shyt. Couldn't really do much during the last year, so I'm trying to make some gains in all areas of life.
I fell off a bit, but Handsome Gang never runs on empty.
I was volunteering at the local observatory last weekend, and a Filipino looking chick dropped me her number after I showed her the moon and Saturn.
Gonna restart my Hinge and Bumble, and hit up a Club Crawl this weekend.
Also going to spend some more time on my own activities and shyt. Couldn't really do much during the last year, so I'm trying to make some gains in all areas of life.
I fell off a bit, but Handsome Gang never runs on empty.
I was volunteering at the local observatory last weekend, and a Filipino looking chick dropped me her number after I showed her the moon and Saturn.
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BigBlackSea
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Just fell out of my feelings for her, but moreso I might not be where I am comfortable enough to handle my own shyt and also that of a significant other.
The backstory was that I moved to LA a year ago, and I was playing the field a bit, mostly through OLD. I was getting dates. but I wasn't getting anywhere with them. My ex came around and was choosing heavy (asked me for drinks within a few messages). We smashed on the second date, (would have happened on the first date but her mom was at her place that night.) and I got super comfortable. We started to clash here and there when I started trying to fit my shyt that I do on my own into the schedule (work on my hobbies, the gym, and side gigs).
Lot of times it felt like a power struggle over the most trivial shyt, like what music to listen and what movies to watch. I'm not the controlling type, but I know in relationships there's gotta be some compromise here and there. I was getting stressed out cause I don't know where the line is between putting your foot down and being an a$$hole. It didn't help that we were getting into some heated arguments over the past few months. I think looking back, I should have stayed on the market for a longer period of time after moving to LA and dealt with settling in and getting into a groove before committing time to someone else, if that makes sense. I think I'm still in the "empire-building" stage of my life where I have to do the things I want (grad school, traveling, set up different income sources).
100% facts. If you can’t get atleast a kiss it’s likely a waste of time.
What?Any brehs practice the Lifestyle or participate in the Lifestyle? How is that like?
Fellas take notes. This is how the savages and #HOH are created.Man every time I think I've seen it all, they surprise me. Algerian girl (same one who was talking marriage and all that after we started having sex) just played me straight up. Months wasted. I let myself get too comfortable, she would come to my place, cook, clean, everything. It's been awkward between us since she brought up the getting married thing but we were still good. She travels, we still good until recently I see she's acting different. She was supposed to come back last week but she's stuck there and shyt. She wasn't giving me much info so I wasn't checking up on her like that. Fast forward yesterday, I ask her if she's good, she only replies "yes", i'm like okay cool, I know i've been m.i.a but I got a lot of work going on, she replied "it's okay". I was out chilling, I posted a couple stories on ig, then replied to her message " alright cool". Next thing I know she removes me off ig. Like she unfollows me and removes me as a follower as well.
I message her like wtf did I do something wrong ?This is how it goes
Me : Did i do something wrong ? what's going on ?
Her : Nothing, I need to work on some things and fix things, can't talk rn
Me : Tf ? If something was wrong, thought you'd let me know. You getting married other there or what ? I'm not a kid, I like you but I can take the truth. We either fix shyt together or if we can't we can't
She got mad and started blowing up telling me marriage is the fkkn last thing on her mind rn, she's stuck overseas with no money, no passport,no luggage, she's trying to figure how to get the fck outta there and she already missed two weeks of school and everything. That she got more important shyt and doesn't need stress from anybody.
We started arguing a bit because I was like how tf am I supposed to know if you don't say shyt, then she says she can't because she literally cannot talk to me, she only gets wifi sometimes and there's the time difference. (BS excuses but whatever). She then says I worry too much and that we'll talk about this later cause she can't deal with this or the relationship vibes rn and that it's funny that I tell her all this as soon as she removes me off ig.
shyt makes no sense, why would you remove me out of all ppl when I've been nothing but supportive with you ?? Tf ?? And then I call it like it is and tell her she made her choice to cut me off so alright, I'll keep it moving. She got the nerves to say I'm overreacting and that she's not cutting me off, just dealing with shyt. Then it goes like this.
You : Listen, you scared for no reasons with me , you think too much. And I'm the opposite... I can't.
Me : I'm not scared, whatever happens happens, I just don't like when things gotta be complicated when they could be so easy. At the end of the day if I lose you, I lose you
You : See, you talking about losing me and stuff. The only thing on my mind is to come back and start school again. Listen we gonna talk about this some other time. Because i gotta go now.
Me : Sure. Aite.
Man I can't believe the lack of accountability, jheeze I am too stunned right now. Like she really thinks I'mma pick up this conversation with her later ?? This is over. It makes no sense at all. I haven't done anything wrong. Yea I'm living my best life on ig, you jealous ?? I don't get it. I'm literally just in shock. Didn't expect that from her.. I'm hurt too because I was trying to make things work for when she'd be back. I didn't deserve this at all man.
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been on pornhub a few times a day since I took a break from dating
DTXwavey_02
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Man this African chick I’ve met has been everything I could hope for so far. I can tell she’s really into me, she be constantly telling me I’m handsome and does the little things
She goes to the gym, doesn’t smoke, drink or party and has goals in life helps that she speaks another language too
And most importantly she’s consistent and communicates in a timely manner
most of these hoes my age have the communication skills of a piece of paper so it’s a breath of fresh air
I know it’s early but I hope this can work out, I deleted hinge because it lowkey fell off. Most of these hoes need therapy or waste my damn time
She goes to the gym, doesn’t smoke, drink or party and has goals in life helps that she speaks another language too
And most importantly she’s consistent and communicates in a timely manner
most of these hoes my age have the communication skills of a piece of paper so it’s a breath of fresh airI know it’s early but I hope this can work out, I deleted hinge because it lowkey fell off. Most of these hoes need therapy or waste my damn time
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Lookahere mayne...
Man this African chick I’ve met has been everything I could hope for so far. I can tell she’s really into me, she be constantly telling me I’m handsome and does the little things
She goes to the gym, doesn’t smoke, drink or party and has goals in life helps that she speaks another language too
And most importantly she’s consistent and communicates in a timely manner
I know it’s early but I hope this can work out, I deleted hinge because it lowkey fell off. Most of these hoes need therapy or waste my damn time
Don’t get too comfortable.
DTXwavey_02
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I’m already knowing bruh women can change up in an instant. Just gonna see how things go from here
