Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Balla]

Or if you’re a Alpha or a Que, or if you’re job is cool, or if you’re from Jack & Jill or looking for dysfunction they’re familiar with or Attempting to correct me lol.

This Latin joint from overseas, is putting in work. Investing; always appreciative & thanking me fie our time, asking me to send her playlist so she can relate to me more, bringing me gifts so I can understand her world, etc



I’ll even take it a step further, the non-bw I’ve been with have been more pro-black than any of the black women I’ve been with lol

I tell joints effort & transparency is the only thing I ask.

Overseas ? What app you on ?

 

[Balla]

Should I feel bad about still not wanting to settle down in my late twenties?

I really like my freedom.

I have conflicting thoughts, like I wanna enjoy my freedom, but I can’t see myself dating around and not having a main chick and kids when I’m really old.

 

[MikelArteta]

Should I feel bad about not wanting to still setting down in my late twenties?

I really like my freedom.

I have conflicting thoughts, like I wanna enjoy my freedom, but I can’t see myself dating around when I’m really old.

nope not at all.

 

[AStrangeName]

Or if you’re a Alpha or a Que, or if you’re job is cool, or if you’re from Jack & Jill or looking for dysfunction they’re familiar with or Attempting to correct me lol.

This Latin joint from overseas, is putting in work. Investing; always appreciative & thanking me fie our time, asking me to send her playlist so she can relate to me more, bringing me gifts so I can understand her world, etc



I’ll even take it a step further, the non-bw I’ve been with have been more pro-black than any of the black women I’ve been with lol

I tell joints effort & transparency is the only thing I ask.

That's the thing majority of men want, but get either one or none at all

 

[Ahadi]

Overseas ? What app you on ?

Well kind of, she moved to the states on a visa. Only been here for 3 years. She’s from Central America. This is on Hinge. I lucked out.

 

[Ahadi]

That's the thing majority of men want, but get either one or none at all

Yup. They become goofy when you say effort. investing, and being open because they want the upper hand.

Effort & investing doesn’t mean you have to spend money or just keep giving sex, that’s surface level. There’s multiple things, like the video about the girl going on a date with a guy and the guy mentioning his love for cigars & the girl brought a cigar roller on the next date.

Stuff like that. Ppl are just lazy.

 

[Ahadi]

Should I feel bad about still not wanting to settle down in my late twenties?

I really like my freedom.

I have conflicting thoughts, like I wanna enjoy my freedom, but I can’t see myself dating around and not having a main chick and kids when I’m really old.

Not at all.

But keep your eyes open in case you run into a woman who is giving you everything you need, and someone you could see yourself with.

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

All my life I was a pawger until I turned 30. Was only 7 years ago that I turned to my black queens and in those 7 years I've never cavoted with a non black woman except for twice went out with sri lankan and went out with once with an egyptian.

And you know what when I pawged no one cared that I wasn't from their tribe or that I was jamaican. Or this and that, maybe its my destiny to pawg



It was only when I started dating black women I got the oh you're jamaican my parents warned me about you

Tribalism pushing brehs towards PAWGs. You hate to see it

 

[VertigoKnight]

Made friends with a guy who moved in near me. His been in Van for 6 months. So a British girl moved in near us recently and has become part of the friend group. She's from Manchester and I like her, she's cool.

He has taken a shine something heavy to her. He asked me last week how best to approach her. I told him just ask her out and don't delay. As you don't want to become that male best friend. Even if she turns you down. She at least knows the energy.

He does and according to him she was up for dinner. A group of us hang out last night but she was inconspicous by her absence. Apparently her friend is visiting. I could tell my man was slighty going through it. Fighting the urge to message her again.

Gonna take him aside today and read the riot act to him about how to talk yourself out of getting with a chick by being too into them, too early. He barely knows her yet and I can tell his infatuated with her.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Date out

I may go back to pawgin

Yep guys sitting round waiting for unicorns and getting nothing.

I’ve been dipping my toe back into pawgin after a long time. In fact I was with a white chick last night. I enjoy her company and these days you’ve got to find a woman/women who suit your program and go from there.

I told her how I move and she was more than fine with it. Plus her ass is crazy

I know people on here joke abut every white woman being a PAWG but this is the real deal. Slim white chick with an actual big in shape juicy booty.

 

[VertigoKnight]

The lack of success stories

Its going well for me ATM, got 5 solid chicks on the roster. And no current issues with them.

White
Egyptian
Indian
Japanese
Chinese

Have 3 more I’m considering.

 

[Reality]

Aight fellas, need some advice.

Before you read this and wonder why I don't just take my L, I should clarify that I'm a boob guy. It's #1 on non-facial things that make a girl attractive to me. Not even close. Nothing makes me happier physically. Anyway...

I swiped on this Latina who had some Autumn Falls type joints on an app. We match. I'm texting her to keep things warm before the date, and then I realize she doesn't have any full body pics. I'm like "uh oh."

We go on a date. She's wearing a loose fitting denim jacket and it's like 74 degrees outside- I can't see her midsection at all. That plus a dress right abover her knees. Pretty, but a bit of a round face, and she mentioned being from Texas, so I'm like OK I think she's probably Mexican and this might be a fridge in the mid situation.

Date goes fine, she's nice to talk to & we get along well. End of the date, she mentions having a wonderful time & conversation. I'm thinking...I can't play around with this when I got 2 days a weekend to see women and I have other matches I want to date. Your boy's trying to lock one down for good now and has strict criteria.

I text her later and curve her in terms of a 2nd date (said I didn't feel romantic chemistry), but she's cool, so we say in touch via text. I basically friend zone her.

Fast forward a few days, we connect on IG. I go to take a quick look at her pictures after I add her and....... At the very worst she's just a little bit soft in pics from like a month ago. Chubby would even be too strong a word.

Pics from 3 months ago and she's looking like .


My mind is racing now and I'm like holy shyt this might be the 2nd worst fumble in my career.

How do I salvage this? We're still texting, but what would y'all do?

 

[DA_LURKA]

The lack of success stories

Are you married?

If so for how long?

If not what's a success story to you?

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For the pawgers... How do y'all deal with that white people smell? I personally can't deal with it... One of the main things holding me back from taking that plunge....

 

[Ahadi]

The lack of success stories

Oh nah, I’m smashing 1-2 joints every week, I just like posting my dating fukkery lol.

 

[CW_1991]

Any of y'all have a weed and alcohol stash for loosening up females when they come over to chill at your crib?

What would you say to having one if you don't partake in smoking due to your job?