Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ahadi]

You have to have a feel of the situation. When a woman is showing high interest you will get physical quicker than a dude she has low interest in.

There are women I got physical with without any date, some on the first date, some 2nd date or some 3rd date.

After 3rd /4th date with no progress, its probably better to end it.

I’d say 2nd date.

I wouldn’t even wait for a 3rd.

If she isn’t touching any part of you during the date or it’s a side hug then you know it’s not happening.

 

[VertigoKnight]

I’m going to present a scenario I think this can be an interesting topic of discussion. Last night I was on this girls live and she was talking about being hesitant to date, because after the date men want to either have sex or kiss her, and she finds that very offensive simply because she doesn’t know “you”. So my question is if you are dating a woman like this how would you handle the situation?

That sounds like a woman who shouldn’t dating anyway. Sounds like she’s holding back artificially.

I mean things don't have to go that way. What kind of men is she selecting?

Me personally I can tell when woman wants me to kiss her and I’ve also felt when the date went not so well and I won’t be trying it.

I’ll also add talking to female friends she is either feeling you physically or not. Of course if you're boring that will slowly cease to matter.

But if the physical is there they would expect at least a kiss at the end.

 

[Manolo]

The hug at the end of the date or time together will tell you everything.

If she’s not squeezing tighter and longer than the first hug it’s a dub

 

[VertigoKnight]

I don’t even talk about it. Physical touch is all that needs to be shown.

Bunch of dudes get angry cause they don’t get sex on date 1. But if you show you don’t care; or understand her “comfort level”, you’ll be able to hit either 10-15 mins later, or on date #2. (This shows you actually get sex and also shows you have self-discipline)

You’ve seen my stories in here, more often than not I hit or play around heavily on the first date due to the above.

As you said above physical touch is the key. Once she’s cool with you touching her hand, then it can move on till you have your arm around her.

If she rejects escalation, then its a dub. A lot of guys are too eager to move fast early in the date and blow it.

For me personally if nothing physical has happened by date 2 its usually not happening.

Although I pretty much always get a kiss on the first date. So that precedent has been set for date 2.

 

[Rozay Oro]

I’m so sick of hoes

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

Went out on a second date last night. I didn't get a kiss on the first date so I figured it was a wrap. Usually if you don't get a kiss on the first date they aren't interested. I think she is just a little awkward or something. I mentioned on this date I didn't think I would see her again because we didn't kiss but then we kissed after this date. all women are different I guess but I kind of feel like she doesn't have a lot of dating experience.

 

[DTXwavey_02]

The hug at the end of the date or time together will tell you everything.

For real, in my experience on first dates if a girl just gives me a lil side hug and we barely getting physical than it’s a dub.

But if a woman is all up on me and letting me grab her cheeks and shyt when we hug near the end of a date than I know she’s into me. I be noticing shyt like that now because after a couple of dates in my teen years where I noticed if a girl wasn’t getting touchy we weren’t advancing nowhere most of the time


With that being said the gym is really a cheat code man, most of these girls be all over me whenever I see them for the first time lol.

 

[Ahadi]

Went out on a second date last night. I didn't get a kiss on the first date so I figured it was a wrap. Usually if you don't get a kiss on the first date they aren't interested. I think she is just a little awkward or something. I mentioned on this date I didn't think I would see her again because we didn't kiss but then we kissed after this date. all women are different I guess but I kind of feel like she doesn't have a lot of dating experience.

Like I said, If I get a side hug, quick hug, or low amount of physical touch. I’m not calling her back again. Now if she’s bad, I may give it another chance under particular circumstances. She would also have to reach out to me.

(Straight to the crib, or a drink at night)

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

Like I said, If I get a side hug or a quick hug, I’m not calling her back again. Now if she’s bad, I may give it another chance under particular circumstances.

(Straight to the crib, or a drink at night)

this is also why I never text them after a date. this girl texted me the next night saying she had a good time. The more you chase them the farther they become. Got to let them come to you because then you know she's into you and makes things easier.

She hasn't texted me yet after this date but I bet she does tonight. And if she doesn't then it is what it is.

 

[Ahadi]

Met this bad as mixed joint on a date. A thicker Lauren London with a bbl.

She got 5 kids

She was 43 btw. 3 marriages.

Got custody of 3 kids, all dads got visitation

 

[BaggerofTea]

How do you come back from your woman saying she’s attached to her ex?

You don't, kim

 

[Ohene]

Sliding scale of factors:

What date number is this?
How well did you know her before hand?
What’s you goal with her?

At face value I can’t blame a woman not wanting to have sex or even kiss after the first date.

Pretty much
At the same time, i cant fault men who may try to go in for one (if its he second date or after) because not doing so can make you seem like a bytch or unconfident to some women

 

[RaspberryFitted]

You don't, kim

It was a hypothetical to drive in how ridiculous the concept is, and I agree

 

[Ahadi]

When they write paragraphs trying to argue. Reply back with “ok”

 

[Rasille]

When they write paragraphs trying to argue. Reply back with “ok”

I think it depends though.