Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Iceson Beckford

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I'll be honest, women are only one part of it

Just feel a bit insecure in general about where Im at rn, I just dont want to be seen. i dont think its healthy but it is what it is :hubie:

Im 21 so its just a weird stage of tryna get a car and those types of things.

Doing a lot better, got a gf now and starting to become more of the man I want to be:ehh:
 

Rozay Oro

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Lol you can do that. I’m just saying don’t blindly trust them. You get hurt putting all your trust in someone.
Yeah it’s understood. Shorty is just an add on to my life.
 

Ohene

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Women are a$$holes man. Even my girl who I truly love, shes an a$$hole. My mom? a$$hole. 90% of them all a$$holes lol.

nikkas be tall, good looking, fashionable, fit, having good jobs, their own cribs, travelled, funny, intelligent, honest, responsible etc etc…

Its nikkas out here who have literally grinded from the bottom with nothing given to them, learning how to approach, talk to and treat women only to have women out here turning their nose up at them, complaining/whining about needless shyt in relationships, rolodexing them, complaining to their girls how no good men are around, etc etc

Women have no idea how good they have it. Unfortunately they have obscene expectations while dating and no ability to deal with conflict when interacting with males…setting traps that box you in on some “damned if i make x decision, damned if i do y” shyt.

It’s women out here who can’t even respond to a text message promptly or arrive to a rendezvous on time but expect the man in said scenario to plan something, open the door, pull out the chair, pay for drinks and food, make her laugh, edify her, make a move etc etc. the scale is too lopsided. Men giving women infinite chances in hopes they can sniff the p*ssy, and women exploiting it, making men walk on egg shells and cutting men off for the slightest indiscretion: a bad joke, a bleh outfit, being a bit nervous, being too eager to meet up, asking for a picture, not being eager enough, etc etc

Let that sink in lol
The game is fukked :laff:
Quoted for emphasis.

As a man nowadays you are expected to do everything in dating / relationships while receiving nothing from women in return. And if you dare call it out, people/women will say you "then dont date", "youre going after the wrong women", "you sound bitter", "do you hate women?" as tactics to try and keep the wool over people's eyes.

Dont fall for it brehs. I say that to say that when dating, you should be making sure your girl is invested as early as possible, be it through sex, paying for dates, doing errands/tasks for you etc.

My girl cooks for me, folds my laundry, contributes about 25% of the rent, and most of all, left her home country to come be with me. shyt just last night I made her order us a pizza cause I had a craving for some.

I can cook for myself. I can buy my own food. I can fold my own laundry...and I make more than enough money to cover the rent alone, but I would be damned if I just let her be in the relationship without contributing anything...especially when I know all the emotional, and sometimes financial support I bring to the equation. Thats a surefire way to have a girl ghost you and move on to the next dude. Your woman has to contribute.
 

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I’m going to present a scenario I think this can be an interesting topic of discussion. Last night I was on this girls live and she was talking about being hesitant to date, because after the date men want to either have sex or kiss her, and she finds that very offensive simply because she doesn’t know “you”. So my question is if you are dating a woman like this how would you handle the situation?
 

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I’m going to present a scenario I think this can be an interesting topic of discussion. Last night I was on this girls live and she was talking about being hesitant to date, because after the date men want to either have sex or kiss her, and she finds that very offensive simply because she doesn’t know “you”. So my question is if you are dating a woman like this how would you handle the situation?
Sliding scale of factors:

What date number is this?
How well did you know her before hand?
What’s you goal with her?

At face value I can’t blame a woman not wanting to have sex or even kiss after the first date.
 
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