Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[The ADD]

Only time i took these broads out were the very first time i was gettin to kno them. 1-2 dates. Didn’t even spend more than $25-30 per chick. After that, it was strictly walking/chilling in parks and hopping into the backseat.

Self-Inflicted Learning Lesson

 

[Deathstroke]

Man every time I think I've seen it all, they surprise me. Algerian girl (same one who was talking marriage and all that after we started having sex) just played me straight up. Months wasted. I let myself get too comfortable, she would come to my place, cook, clean, everything. It's been awkward between us since she brought up the getting married thing but we were still good. She travels, we still good until recently I see she's acting different. She was supposed to come back last week but she's stuck there and shyt. She wasn't giving me much info so I wasn't checking up on her like that. Fast forward yesterday, I ask her if she's good, she only replies "yes", i'm like okay cool, I know i've been m.i.a but I got a lot of work going on, she replied "it's okay". I was out chilling, I posted a couple stories on ig, then replied to her message " alright cool". Next thing I know she removes me off ig. Like she unfollows me and removes me as a follower as well.

I message her like wtf did I do something wrong ? This is how it goes

Me : Did i do something wrong ? what's going on ?
Her : Nothing, I need to work on some things and fix things, can't talk rn
Me : Tf ? If something was wrong, thought you'd let me know. You getting married other there or what ? I'm not a kid, I like you but I can take the truth. We either fix shyt together or if we can't we can't

She got mad and started blowing up telling me marriage is the fkkn last thing on her mind rn, she's stuck overseas with no money, no passport,no luggage, she's trying to figure how to get the fck outta there and she already missed two weeks of school and everything. That she got more important shyt and doesn't need stress from anybody.

We started arguing a bit because I was like how tf am I supposed to know if you don't say shyt, then she says she can't because she literally cannot talk to me, she only gets wifi sometimes and there's the time difference. (BS excuses but whatever). She then says I worry too much and that we'll talk about this later cause she can't deal with this or the relationship vibes rn and that it's funny that I tell her all this as soon as she removes me off ig .

shyt makes no sense, why would you remove me out of all ppl when I've been nothing but supportive with you ?? Tf ?? And then I call it like it is and tell her she made her choice to cut me off so alright, I'll keep it moving. She got the nerves to say I'm overreacting and that she's not cutting me off, just dealing with shyt. Then it goes like this.

You : Listen, you scared for no reasons with me , you think too much. And I'm the opposite... I can't.
Me : I'm not scared, whatever happens happens, I just don't like when things gotta be complicated when they could be so easy. At the end of the day if I lose you, I lose you
You : See, you talking about losing me and stuff. The only thing on my mind is to come back and start school again. Listen we gonna talk about this some other time. Because i gotta go now.
Me : Sure. Aite.

Man I can't believe the lack of accountability, jheeze I am too stunned right now. Like she really thinks I'mma pick up this conversation with her later ?? This is over. It makes no sense at all. I haven't done anything wrong. Yea I'm living my best life on ig, you jealous ?? I don't get it. I'm literally just in shock. Didn't expect that from her.. I'm hurt too because I was trying to make things work for when she'd be back. I didn't deserve this at all man.

 

[The ADD]

Man every time I think I've seen it all, they surprise me. Algerian girl (same one who was talking marriage and all that after we started having sex) just played me straight up. Months wasted. I let myself get too comfortable, she would come to my place, cook, clean, everything. It's been awkward between us since she brought up the getting married thing but we were still good. She travels, we still good until recently I see she's acting different. She was supposed to come back last week but she's stuck there and shyt. She wasn't giving me much info so I wasn't checking up on her like that. Fast forward yesterday, I ask her if she's good, she only replies "yes", i'm like okay cool, I know i've been m.i.a but I got a lot of work going on, she replied "it's okay". I was out chilling, I posted a couple stories on ig, then replied to her message " alright cool". Next thing I know she removes me off ig. Like she unfollows me and removes me as a follower as well.

I message her like wtf did I do something wrong ? This is how it goes

Me : Did i do something wrong ? what's going on ?
Her : Nothing, I need to work on some things and fix things, can't talk rn
Me : Tf ? If something was wrong, thought you'd let me know. You getting married other there or what ? I'm not a kid, I like you but I can take the truth. We either fix shyt together or if we can't we can't

She got mad and started blowing up telling me marriage is the fkkn last thing on her mind rn, she's stuck overseas with no money, no passport,no luggage, she's trying to figure how to get the fck outta there and she already missed two weeks of school and everything. That she got more important shyt and doesn't need stress from anybody.

We started arguing a bit because I was like how tf am I supposed to know if you don't say shyt, then she says she can't because she literally cannot talk to me, she only gets wifi sometimes and there's the time difference. (BS excuses but whatever). She then says I worry too much and that we'll talk about this later cause she can't deal with this or the relationship vibes rn and that it's funny that I tell her all this as soon as she removes me off ig .

shyt makes no sense, why would you remove me out of all ppl when I've been nothing but supportive with you ?? Tf ?? And then I call it like it is and tell her she made her choice to cut me off so alright, I'll keep it moving. She got the nerves to say I'm overreacting and that she's not cutting me off, just dealing with shyt. Then it goes like this.

You : Listen, you scared for no reasons with me , you think too much. And I'm the opposite... I can't.
Me : I'm not scared, whatever happens happens, I just don't like when things gotta be complicated when they could be so easy. At the end of the day if I lose you, I lose you
You : See, you talking about losing me and stuff. The only thing on my mind is to come back and start school again. Listen we gonna talk about this some other time. Because i gotta go now.
Me : Sure. Aite.

Man I can't believe the lack of accountability, jheeze I am too stunned right now. Like she really thinks I'mma pick up this conversation with her later ?? This is over. It makes no sense at all. I haven't done anything wrong. Yea I'm living my best life on ig, you jealous ?? I don't get it. I'm literally just in shock. Didn't expect that from her.. I'm hurt too because I was trying to make things work for when she'd be back. I didn't deserve this at all man.

Told you was too invested in someone you was just taking too.

Don’t listen

 

[Deathstroke]

Told you was too invested in someone you was just taking too.

Don’t listen

We weren’t just talking though. We were seeing each other before she left. Like dating. Then things go wrong in her life and I’m the one whose gotta pay for that smh.

 

[EffYou]

We weren’t just talking though. We were seeing each other before she left. Like dating. Then things go wrong in her life and I’m the one who’s gotta pay for that smh.

Don’t fight it, don’t push for anything (too late since y’all got into that lil argument). Just go on with your life and if she decides to come back/return handle it as you will.



You were too invested into another human being (not just her being a girl) and got hurt, move on focus on your life and do you

edit: “we don’t chase em we replace em”

 

[MikelArteta]

Fellas, don’t ever let a woman get comfortable over time (with no sex). By that, i mean hanging out with her and making out, fingering, gettin head, etc. but no fukking. Guilty of this and it backfired on me twice with 2 different women i was casually seeing (one since last sept on/off and one since may) tonight and 2 fridays ago.

Both were down to their panties grinding on my dikk but the minute i tried sliding it to the side and gettin down to my boxers its

Both women 30. I’m like aii get off me cuz i’m not about to get blue balls while u get off.

Immediately took both home after not engaging in back and forth and kicked them out the car as soon as they got in front of their spot.

Both tried to juelz, apologize and try to say “they need time” or “need commitment” to smash respectively.

At the end of the day fellas, do not do what i did. Don’t let bytches ever get comfortable thinkin sex won’t ever happen. You gotta be on it from the jump or real early on.

Only reason i let it go on for so long was cuz i wasn’t thirsty but inbetween that time the women that i did fukk made me wanna fukk these 2 which is why i went for the juggular only to get hit with bullshyt resistance. Like i get it early on…but months of seein each other and beyond the point of comfortability where we practically 80% the way there..

The one tonight had the nerve to even tell me she “pulled back from me” early on in jan when we stopped talking to see how i’d react and she was correct in doin that cuz she knew i was gonna do what she figured which was to fall back. So why the fukk come back to me and get down to your panties tonight?

Brehs…don’t let these hoes get comfortable. She either gonna get with the program or not..but find out early.

I wouldn’t say i’m too pissed as much as its a lesson learned…but man…the bullshyt and illogics women come up with..

And stay attractive fellas.

always remember unless they are virgins these chicks have spread it for a nukka fast before

 

[The ADD]

We weren’t just talking though. We were seeing each other before she left. Like dating. Then things go wrong in her life and I’m the one whose gotta pay for that smh.

“Dating”

Bro she don’t owe you nothing

 

[Rasille]

I ask her if she's good, she only replies "yes"

The convo would’ve ended right here if that was me.

 

[RealAssanova]

always remember unless they are virgins these chicks have spread it for a nukka fast before

I kno fam. Only plus i can take from all of this is, i never spent money on them apart from the jump nor gave them attention beyond setting things up and sporadic messages/snaps.

 

[RealAssanova]

Man every time I think I've seen it all, they surprise me. Algerian girl (same one who was talking marriage and all that after we started having sex) just played me straight up. Months wasted. I let myself get too comfortable, she would come to my place, cook, clean, everything. It's been awkward between us since she brought up the getting married thing but we were still good. She travels, we still good until recently I see she's acting different. She was supposed to come back last week but she's stuck there and shyt. She wasn't giving me much info so I wasn't checking up on her like that. Fast forward yesterday, I ask her if she's good, she only replies "yes", i'm like okay cool, I know i've been m.i.a but I got a lot of work going on, she replied "it's okay". I was out chilling, I posted a couple stories on ig, then replied to her message " alright cool". Next thing I know she removes me off ig. Like she unfollows me and removes me as a follower as well.

I message her like wtf did I do something wrong ? This is how it goes

Me : Did i do something wrong ? what's going on ?
Her : Nothing, I need to work on some things and fix things, can't talk rn
Me : Tf ? If something was wrong, thought you'd let me know. You getting married other there or what ? I'm not a kid, I like you but I can take the truth. We either fix shyt together or if we can't we can't

She got mad and started blowing up telling me marriage is the fkkn last thing on her mind rn, she's stuck overseas with no money, no passport,no luggage, she's trying to figure how to get the fck outta there and she already missed two weeks of school and everything. That she got more important shyt and doesn't need stress from anybody.

We started arguing a bit because I was like how tf am I supposed to know if you don't say shyt, then she says she can't because she literally cannot talk to me, she only gets wifi sometimes and there's the time difference. (BS excuses but whatever). She then says I worry too much and that we'll talk about this later cause she can't deal with this or the relationship vibes rn and that it's funny that I tell her all this as soon as she removes me off ig .

shyt makes no sense, why would you remove me out of all ppl when I've been nothing but supportive with you ?? Tf ?? And then I call it like it is and tell her she made her choice to cut me off so alright, I'll keep it moving. She got the nerves to say I'm overreacting and that she's not cutting me off, just dealing with shyt. Then it goes like this.

You : Listen, you scared for no reasons with me , you think too much. And I'm the opposite... I can't.
Me : I'm not scared, whatever happens happens, I just don't like when things gotta be complicated when they could be so easy. At the end of the day if I lose you, I lose you
You : See, you talking about losing me and stuff. The only thing on my mind is to come back and start school again. Listen we gonna talk about this some other time. Because i gotta go now.
Me : Sure. Aite.

Man I can't believe the lack of accountability, jheeze I am too stunned right now. Like she really thinks I'mma pick up this conversation with her later ?? This is over. It makes no sense at all. I haven't done anything wrong. Yea I'm living my best life on ig, you jealous ?? I don't get it. I'm literally just in shock. Didn't expect that from her.. I'm hurt too because I was trying to make things work for when she'd be back. I didn't deserve this at all man.

One of the biggest lessons i learned when it comes to women and dating is never argue nor go back and forth. Even if u want to defend yourself. Its feminine and an attraction killer.

Act. Say what you need to say firmly once and that’s it. Keep your mouth shut and ignore her.

 

[rabbid]

We weren’t just talking though. We were seeing each other before she left. Like dating. Then things go wrong in her life and I’m the one whose gotta pay for that smh.

women are loyal to their emotions first and foremost. if at any point her emotions tell her to avoid you or that in time you will grow to resent or look down on her, she will act with absolute prejudice to prevent it from happening.

however, the gaslighting here is a red flag and you should consider yourself lucky. hope she recovers and finds a better way to deal with people. sounds like you just found her at the wrong time. best believe she will hit u up when her life is better acting like she wasn't down bad before. be prepared.

 

[Ahadi]

Doesn’t look at you or make eye contact with you doing conversation doesn’t mean you’re out the game. She could be nervous by your presence.

 

[NOSKI_DA_DON]

What did she do that wronged you?

It wasn't anybody recent but more so the resement comes from my past. I've delt with women that never made me feel valued,that I was worth something. It felt like I was the last option or I was the dude that was use for attention when the one they wanted wasn't acting right,and when he was i was kick to the curve. I didn't even touch on the disrepect, belittling,embarrassment for no reason,remind you that was the past but I would.be lying if I said if didn't cause bitterness or effect my self esteem years later

 

[The ADD]

It wasn't anybody recent but more so the resement comes from my past. I've delt with women that never made me feel valued,that I was worth something. It felt like I was the last option or I was the dude that was use for attention when the one they wanted wasn't acting right,and when he was i was kick to the curve. I didn't even touch on the disrepect, belittling,embarrassment for no reason,remind you that was the past but I would.be lying if I said if didn't cause bitterness or effect my self esteem years later

Lot of of hard luck stories in here

Woof

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

The convo would’ve ended right here if that was me.

This times 1000. Knowing what I know now. Yep. “If a woman thinks she can do better let her” word to @FireMikelArteta