Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Originally I planned to go to Dave and buster but the day I picked was bad for her so the day she rescheduled was the day dave and buster was closed(I have no idea why this particular one is closed on a goddamn thursday :mjlol: :mjlol: ) so I had to call a audible and I told her “ok imma call you tomorrow(which was yesterday)” what throws me off is she is the one who wanted to go on a date with me on Thursday:mjlol::mjlol: now you disappear like Casper:mjlol:

More than likely a guy she liked more than you is taking her out that same day and time.

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How do y’all deal with that point after approaching a woman where you make sure things are sexual?

I been approaching a lot and have been getting a lot of “it’s nice to meet you” or random bs small talk typa shyt that ends with me uninterested as hell.

Feel like some women have been waiting for me to pull the trigger like “what are we talking for :skip:“ type of vibes

Come off too casual not like I’m tryna fukk imo
 

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How do y’all deal with that point after approaching a woman where you make sure things are sexual?

I been approaching a lot and have been getting a lot of “it’s nice to meet you” or random bs small talk typa shyt that ends with me uninterested as hell.

Feel like some women have been waiting for me to pull the trigger like “what are we talking for :skip:“ type of vibes

Come off too casual not like I’m tryna fukk imo
So y’all are just hanging and you don’t make a move?
 

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How do y’all deal with that point after approaching a woman where you make sure things are sexual?

I been approaching a lot and have been getting a lot of “it’s nice to meet you” or random bs small talk typa shyt that ends with me uninterested as hell.

Feel like some women have been waiting for me to pull the trigger like “what are we talking for :skip:“ type of vibes

Come off too casual not like I’m tryna fukk imo

These are women you approached in the street?If thats case you need more than a chat to know if the chemistry is there to make things sexual.
 

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How do y'all deal with introverted women? The women I've dated have always been extroverts this girl is the exact opposite.


These introverted quiet types are very hard to read. I've never dealt with one before so its a real change for me.
 

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How do y’all deal with that point after approaching a woman where you make sure things are sexual?

I been approaching a lot and have been getting a lot of “it’s nice to meet you” or random bs small talk typa shyt that ends with me uninterested as hell.

Feel like some women have been waiting for me to pull the trigger like “what are we talking for :skip:“ type of vibes

Come off too casual not like I’m tryna fukk imo

Massage talk . Then mention you have edible oils . Depending on how she reacts to the edible part will give you a clear indication on whether or not she's tryna get sexual with you.

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These are women you approached in the street?If thats case you need more than a chat to know if the chemistry is there to make things sexual.
Nah that is a limiting belief. I’ve seen it done before many times. You wouldn’t know if you don’t cold approach like that. I’m just trying to figure out how to navigate through letting my intentions be known.
So y’all are just hanging and you don’t make a move?
Me approaching them was the initiation of move. How I lead the conversation is how you finish it.

Massage talk . Then mention you have edible oils . Depending on how she reacts to the edible part will give you a clear indication on whether or not she's tryna get sexual with you.

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Cool topic, wanna talk about something authentic to me tho. Not big into massages or oils.
 

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Females love to tell you they "hope you find what you looking for" when you explain to them that you not looking for some kind of long-term serious relationship.
Meh, shorty prob just annoyed cause she prob saw boyfriend material in you but now she gotta go thru hell again to find a decent dude

It sucks, but prob for the better cause thats how you avoid some shorty being attached, meanwhile you just tryna smash and run
 

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Brehs on apps….

Do you keep your profiles or delete them and refresh after some time?
 

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Nah that is a limiting belief. I’ve seen it done before many times. You wouldn’t know if you don’t cold approach like that. I’m just trying to figure out how to navigate through letting my intentions be known.

Me approaching them was the initiation of move. How I lead the conversation is how you finish it.


Cool topic, wanna talk about something authentic to me tho. Not big into massages or oils.

I’ve done plenty of cold approaching. Or had women make it very clear they are interested.

For me it’s fun innuendo and seeing how they react to that. That usually lets me know where I am in regards to her feeling me.

I’s not a secret that women know exactly what your intentions are when you approach and say hello. And a lot of guys get too sleazy and obvious too early and switch a chick off. Or aren’t even in the running in the first place. And she really is just being friendly.
 
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