Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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So every time I'm seeing a chick casually, no strings attached, everything is perfectly fine. Then they want to make the relationship official and serious, then after that everything goes to shyt.

How do I keep things casual when women start pushing for a relationship? It's like once we're official they start being on bullshyt or cheating . And I'm like why push for a serious relationship if they start acting like they didn't want it
Are you telling them from jump you don’t want anything serious?
 

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You cant. FWB has a time limit. Its simply not natutal no matter what feminist say
Facts!

Are you telling them from jump you don’t want anything serious?
It's not that I don't want anything serious. I'm cool with either serious or casual as long as we're both on the same page

The issue is that they push for the relationship then they start acting like they don't want anything serious
 

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Facts!


It's not that I don't want anything serious. I'm cool with either serious or casual as long as we're both on the same page

The issue is that they push for the relationship then they start acting like they don't want anything serious

They say the casual shyt to lure you in and see if you boyfriend material. If they see you are they do dumb shyt to try to “change your mind” but it never ends well.
 

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You cant. FWB has a time limit. Its simply not natutal no matter what feminist say

Yep, at the low end you'll get 4 months of FWB before the energy shifts and she starts asking questions about what you and her are doing.

Longest I've gone is 7 months before the questions began, once me and her started hanging out more than twice a week, that's when everything accelerated. And she wanted to know if we were going to be a couple.
 

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Yep, at the low end you'll get 4 months of FWB before the energy shifts and she starts asking questions about what you and her are doing.

Longest I've gone is 7 months before the questions began, once me and her started hanging out more than twice a week, that's when everything accelerated. And she wanted to know if we were going to be a couple.

Its usually she changes up on you or officially bounces to the dude who was playing boyfriend
 

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So every time I'm seeing a chick casually, no strings attached, everything is perfectly fine. Then they want to make the relationship official and serious, then after that everything goes to shyt.

How do I keep things casual when women start pushing for a relationship? It's like once we're official they start being on bullshyt or cheating . And I'm like why push for a serious relationship if they start acting like they didn't want it
I think you need to adjust your game. If they pushing you for a relationship and then start bs'ing...then how did you change from when you were in a fwb situation to a relationship?

The quickest way to make a woman unhappy is to give her everything she wants.

You always gotta be playing the "game" whether you're in a fwb, relationship or married.
 

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I think you need to adjust your game. If they pushing you for a relationship and then start bs'ing...then how did you change from when you were in a fwb situation to a relationship?

The quickest way to make a woman unhappy is to give her everything she wants.

You always gotta be playing the "game" whether you're in a fwb, relationship or married.
I didn't change, I only know how to be myself

The woman changes because she was just faking the whole time to secure the relationship
 
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