Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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After 3 years in a relationship ended early this year & back on the dating scene, been going on a few dates and it's not easy finding a woman that you click with.
nothing you can do but keep trying. I got a homey been single a year since his break up and a homey found someone a month later. Im 5 months out of a relationship so I feel you but just gotta stay positive.
 

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Been catching up with this chick I went to high school with. I reached out first to talk about work, but she usually initiated the conversations after that. Just texting for a few months. We done talked about damn near everything. She’s just now mentioning that she has a guy that she has been “seeing for a little while”. Apparently she met him a few years ago in college.

This chick has a whole BF :dahell:

She probably texts me more than she texts him some days :dead:
 

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Been catching up with this chick I went to high school with. I reached out first to talk about work, but she usually initiated the conversations after that. Just texting for a few months. We done talked about damn near everything. She’s just now mentioning that she has a guy that she has been “seeing for a little while”. Apparently she met him a few years ago in college.

This chick has a whole BF :dahell:

She probably texts me more than she texts him some days :dead:
W for him :heh:
 

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Been catching up with this chick I went to high school with. I reached out first to talk about work, but she usually initiated the conversations after that. Just texting for a few months. We done talked about damn near everything. She’s just now mentioning that she has a guy that she has been “seeing for a little while”. Apparently she met him a few years ago in college.

This chick has a whole BF :dahell:

She probably texts me more than she texts him some days :dead:
Lol you filling her attention void.

any nothing to he chit chatting about with a woman thats in a relationship.
 

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You may be right. I don’t really have friends these days, so I’m fine with it. She’s a cool person to talk to. I don’t be sending her simp shyt.

Can men and women be just friends, brehs?
They can but you have to be honest about how it came about. Personally I don’t think two single adults who randomly meet can truly be friends. Acquaintances……sure
 

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You may be right. I don’t really have friends these days, so I’m fine with it. She’s a cool person to talk to. I don’t be sending her simp shyt.

Can men and women be just friends, brehs?

Me personally I'm not chit chatting with a woman who has a man (because I'm good on my chick chit chatting with a man). I would look into getting into some hobbies/joining meet up groups if you want more friends with a common interest.

I dont think Men and Women can be friends, I think they can be acquaintances sure. Unless this is a woman who you came up with thats like a cousin/sister and yall families are intertwined to a degree and even then, after teen years It's a no from me.
 

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my shawty done cut me loose... after 3 years of being a side piece. best sex ever... she was damn near 40 but had that snapper.. it is what it is brehs. time to find some other local cougars
 

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my shawty done cut me loose... after 3 years of being a side piece. best sex ever... she was damn near 40 but had that snapper.. it is what it is brehs. time to find some other local cougars

you were the side piece? Lol things like this dont last forever and to say “my shawty” sounds like you caught feelings
 

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you were the side piece? Lol things like this dont last forever and to say “my shawty” sounds like you caught feelings
You don't smash somebody for three years straight and not have at least a little feelings for them. Breh should be thankful that situation lasted that long. I can't keep a fwb situation going for more than 3 months
 
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