Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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One thing about a woman is....they always want a favor. I remember when I was in local college....My friend warned me about a woman who was "the campus goldigger". People warned me,but me being 18 I was just happy to get attention.This woman really was into me.... ,always laughed at my jokes etc...and then one day she calls me and says "Can you come pick me up"? I was at home doing hw and was about to drop everything and go 10 miles to campus.However prior to this,the woman stopped returning my calls prior to her asking to pick her up,so I was excited to hear from her.I called her back 10 mins later,and said "no". This woman threw a tantrum similar to a little kid on the phone and I just hung up and for the rest of the school year she stayed mad.Funny thing was,she found another dude quick.Like Kevm says if a woman likes you its for a reason and 9 tmes out of 10 she wants a favor.

Sounds just like the broad I described pages back in this thread. By the way the problem wasn't getting burned because of the contributing to cheating on the test.....the problem was her reaction after where she showed her true colors. Her getting pissed and talking about "not to use her name" to the professor when I never actually did use her name and how the professor sent that email to me with her name without me even saying anything about her.

Responding back with "k", not responding when i sarcastically say "your welcome too" .......without even showing any sense that you feel bad

Then days later asking if "u still have the textbook"? The same pdf book I gave her last august before the semester started and she wanted to make thousands of excuses throughout the semester for not being able to use an entire book downloaded for her.

I mean you ignore me when I send you New Years wishes,etc but only respond when i have something that benefits you? Or you only want to talk when you want something that benefits you?

I mean like in your case @C.Holla it amazes me how these broads will straight up IGNORE you when you contact them then message you out of the blue one day to ask you for something and spaz on you when you don't fufill their requirements.

The sad thing like you just said with your campus golddigger is that this broad will probably continue. I mean she is 6 years older than me and it goes to show that 662 was correct about women mature earlier when young but stopping emotional maturity by the age of 18. There are immature women out there in their 40s who i feel like I could be their father.

I mean how can the girl you know and the girl I know show such lack of accountability that they will act like something never happened, and days later ask you for another favor? When they know they showed disrespect to you in some way or pissed you off.

The ONLY regret I have was sending that quick and simple message of "Dont contact me again. Thx" when responding to that disrespectful do u have the textbook comment......was that I did not call her up like you did with the girl you know......so she could actually hear my voice setting the record straight and then cutting her off and hang up as you did. That is my biggest regret.

I find that shyt just straight up disgusting. Will they ever learn or they don't take experiences like this as lessons in life? And I hate that whole annoying "Guys do it too......so i dont know why they complain" childish mindset alot of them have about "using guys" in life to get what they want. Guys "use you" because you show that you are not wifeable material and not to be respected. When the opposite is done to you and you are indeed RESPECTED.....you take advantage of that and rationalize it with idiotic logic about their being a "double standard" when both cases are completely different.



The funny thing is that its not just somethign to do with the fathers with these girls its also in many cases because of a mother talking shyt about like "make sure you get a rich man" or as a friend of my mother told her daughter "make sure u know a man who knows what he is doing when its ur first time.....dont get no amateur". Yeah sex is and should be a big part of relationship I am not saying this is a fairytale, but living in a world where the primary concern of a mother is her daughter finding a dude good at sex?.........

:wtf:

It is like they are addicted to the thrill of using guys. How do you laughing like a hyena with your girlfriends about how someone like @C.Holla is falling into your "trap" and how "lame" he is(dont be offended breh the way im using u as an example just showing you how a dirty game it is with these harlots hope ur not offended)

How do you laugh about something like that one second .......and then get angry at him the second he realizes your bullshyt and doesn't give in anymore?

We have all seen those girls(ALL OF US GUARANTEED) sitting down with their girl ridiculing a guy in front of people who are currently texting or messaging their phone and using that cliche annoying ass "He doesn't take the hint...." nonsense and conveniently leaving out the fact that they are the ones using them for favors only when THEY want something.
 
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Doesn't really deal w/ women, but anyway I'll tell it anyway.

I came back from Staples to get some flyers done, and I overheard some dude in line talking to a lady(probably his woman). Long story short, he's talking how two of his friends get frequently hurt by women for being nice guys, and he mentions about how his other friends dog sack-chasers. The moral of the story is to not tell anyone your personal buisness(family; friends, s/o), because the people you tell(friends; family, s/o included) will likely spread it. The only time you tell about your business, is to someone you know is not a gossiper. Also, you as a man should never gossip or tell about other people's person's private matter to others.
 

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what happened?

man.........

My girl started back school again so she been busy but i still be trying to f*ck and she just doesn't to like that anymore. she's saying its because she's always tired and has school on her mind. So we got into it....

basically her saying school is more important (she's right) ... but still... a n1gga needs the box....

plus, i been down on hard times a little bit so i've been kinda insecure, thinking she's sneaking around and sh1t...

thats a short summary lol
 

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man.........

My girl started back school again so she been busy but i still be trying to f*ck and she just doesn't to like that anymore. she's saying its because she's always tired and has school on her mind. So we got into it....

basically her saying school is more important (she's right) ... but still... a n1gga needs the box....

plus, i been down on hard times a little bit so i've been kinda insecure, thinking she's sneaking around and sh1t...

thats a short summary lol

I have always said that women who are having mindsets like that.....the second you mention something that benefits them all of a sudden all of the "headaches" and "tiredness" goes completely away.
 

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man.........

My girl started back school again so she been busy but i still be trying to f*ck and she just doesn't to like that anymore. she's saying its because she's always tired and has school on her mind. So we got into it....

basically her saying school is more important (she's right) ... but still... a n1gga needs the box....

plus, i been down on hard times a little bit so i've been kinda insecure, thinking she's sneaking around and sh1t...

thats a short summary lol
keep your head up man. maybe it's an opportunity to take care of the other stuff in your life (about you going through hard times) as well as get your mind right.
 

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Sounds just like the broad I described pages back in this thread. By the way the problem wasn't getting burned because of the contributing to cheating on the test.....the problem was her reaction after where she showed her true colors. Her getting pissed and talking about "not to use her name" to the professor when I never actually did use her name and how the professor sent that email to me with her name without me even saying anything about her.

Responding back with "k", not responding when i sarcastically say "your welcome too" .......without even showing any sense that you feel bad

Then days later asking if "u still have the textbook"? The same pdf book I gave her last august before the semester started and she wanted to make thousands of excuses throughout the semester for not being able to use an entire book downloaded for her.

I mean you ignore me when I send you New Years wishes,etc but only respond when i have something that benefits you? Or you only want to talk when you want something that benefits you?

I mean like in your case @C.Holla it amazes me how these broads will straight up IGNORE you when you contact them then message you out of the blue one day to ask you for something and spaz on you when you don't fufill their requirements.

The sad thing like you just said with your campus golddigger is that this broad will probably continue. I mean she is 6 years older than me and it goes to show that 662 was correct about women mature earlier when young but stopping emotional maturity by the age of 18. There are immature women out there in their 40s who i feel like I could be their father.

I mean how can the girl you know and the girl I know show such lack of accountability that they will act like something never happened, and days later ask you for another favor? When they know they showed disrespect to you in some way or pissed you off.

The ONLY regret I have was sending that quick and simple message of "Dont contact me again. Thx" when responding to that disrespectful do u have the textbook comment......was that I did not call her up like you did with the girl you know......so she could actually hear my voice setting the record straight and then cutting her off and hang up as you did. That is my biggest regret.

I find that shyt just straight up disgusting. Will they ever learn or they don't take experiences like this as lessons in life? And I hate that whole annoying "Guys do it too......so i dont know why they complain" childish mindset alot of them have about "using guys" in life to get what they want. Guys "use you" because you show that you are not wifeable material and not to be respected. When the opposite is done to you and you are indeed RESPECTED.....you take advantage of that and rationalize it with idiotic logic about their being a "double standard" when both cases are completely different.



The funny thing is that its not just somethign to do with the fathers with these girls its also in many cases because of a mother talking shyt about like "make sure you get a rich man" or as a friend of my mother told her daughter "make sure u know a man who knows what he is doing when its ur first time.....dont get no amateur". Yeah sex is and should be a big part of relationship I am not saying this is a fairytale, but living in a world where the primary concern of a mother is her daughter finding a dude good at sex?.........

:wtf:

It is like they are addicted to the thrill of using guys. How do you laughing like a hyena with your girlfriends about how someone like @C.Holla is falling into your "trap" and how "lame" he is(dont be offended breh the way im using u as an example just showing you how a dirty game it is with these harlots hope ur not offended)

How do you laugh about something like that one second .......and then get angry at him the second he realizes your bullshyt and doesn't give in anymore?

We have all seen those girls(ALL OF US GUARANTEED) sitting down with their girl ridiculing a guy in front of people who are currently texting or messaging their phone and using that cliche annoying ass "He doesn't take the hint...." nonsense and conveniently leaving out the fact that they are the ones using them for favors only when THEY want something.

Naw bruh im not offended :laugh: I dont take nothing personal dont worry. Yea its a dirty game out here. This is why I developed the attitude Kevm has.You better off being by yourself then putting up with non sense.Face it SOME women are baggage.The thing is always listen to how a woman talks and not what she says.They usually mean the opposite at times.:jawalrus:
 
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man.........

My girl started back school again so she been busy but i still be trying to f*ck and she just doesn't to like that anymore. she's saying its because she's always tired and has school on her mind. So we got into it....

basically her saying school is more important (she's right) ... but still... a n1gga needs the box....

plus, i been down on hard times a little bit so i've been kinda insecure, thinking she's sneaking around and sh1t...

thats a short summary lol

" :ooh: baby you taking me to Paris? All of a sudden my headache has gone away and i dont have school on my mind anymore"
 

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keep your head up man. maybe it's an opportunity to take care of the other stuff in your life (about you going through hard times) as well as get your mind right.

Yea man.... I aint been more down in the dumps in my life. And this sh1t with my girl aint helping none.

Once I get out of this hole it'll be the greatest comeback in the history of mankind :win::win:

That on top of me and my girl going through it got me about to f*cking lose it. I don't know whats up but hey ...whatever I guess.

Everytime I give her the chance to just outright say she not feeling a n1gga anymore or she's done she says thats not what it is....

I dont know...
 

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Yea man.... I aint been more down in the dumps in my life. And this sh1t with my girl aint helping none.

Once I get out of this hole it'll be the greatest comeback in the history of mankind :win::win:

That on top of me and my girl going through it got me about to f*cking lose it. I don't know whats up but hey ...whatever I guess.

Everytime I give her the chance to just outright say she not feeling a n1gga anymore or she's done she says thats not what it is....

I dont know...

Reminds me of the story on here somewhere on the Coli about how this girl was getting flabby and sick and basically not taking the marriage seriously anymore, randomly saying one day that she thinks the two of them should move on.....

And pretty much teasing and doing that "game Playing" some of these girls do to get a reaction,

The dude on here(cant remember who) then surprised the hell out of her and showed her divorce papers shortly after and long story short all of a sudden now she wants to be all "we dont have to go that far baby"

Going as far as to wake him up in the morning sucking his dikk because now all of a sudden she doesnt want it to end :upsetfavre:

I would honestly tell you to just break up with your girl and tell us what her reaction will be.
 

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Reminds me of the story on here somewhere on the Coli about how this girl was getting flabby and sick and basically not taking the marriage seriously anymore, randomly saying one day that she thinks the two of them should move on.....

And pretty much teasing and doing that "game Playing" some of these girls do to get a reaction,

The dude on here(cant remember who) then surprised the hell out of her and showed her divorce papers shortly after and long story short all of a sudden now she wants to be all "we dont have to go that far baby"

Going as far as to wake him up in the morning sucking his dikk because now all of a sudden she doesnt want it to end :upsetfavre:

I would honestly tell you to just break up with your girl and tell us what her reaction will be.

I already know what she'll do. Regardless of how she feels she'll just hit me with the "Ok." reply.

in person or through text
 

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Everytime I give her the chance to just outright say she not feeling a n1gga anymore or she's done she says thats not what it is....

I dont know...
i its gonna end why not end it on your terms?

if you are the one to end it you can always go back if she's single and free. if she ends it you can never really go back.
 
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