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Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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One thing about a woman is....they always want a favor. I remember when I was in local college....My friend warned me about a woman who was "the campus goldigger". People warned me,but me being 18 I was just happy to get attention.This woman really was into me.... ,always laughed at my jokes etc...and then one day she calls me and says "Can you come pick me up"? I was at home doing hw and was about to drop everything and go 10 miles to campus.However prior to this,the woman stopped returning my calls prior to her asking to pick her up,so I was excited to hear from her.I called her back 10 mins later,and said "no". This woman threw a tantrum similar to a little kid on the phone and I just hung up and for the rest of the school year she stayed mad.Funny thing was,she found another dude quick.Like Kevm says if a woman likes you its for a reason and 9 tmes out of 10 she wants a favor.
Ultimately it comes down to why even be in a relationship? What are you really even gonna gain from it? It's not like you meet that person and come to the natural conclusion that you wanna be with them it's more like you want the relationship and search out someone to fill the role. The person that fills the role becomes irrelevant because if they weren't filling is somebody else would.
There's a huge difference between being alone and being lonely. A lonely person is one that isn't comfortable only being in their own presence and probably isn't comfortable with themselves.
I'm perfectly comfortable going to the grave single and not attached to anyone as an old man. I mainly reached that level when I looked around and started to notice many people are so determined to not walk away with nothing that they'll take whatever they can get convinced its the best they can do. Those type of people never really get what they want. The difference between coming away with nothing and settling for less is the person that has nothing is still on the hunt and they still have hope of obtaining what they want the settler they gave up and have resigned themselves to something undesirable.
There's a huge difference between being alone and being lonely. A lonely person is one that isn't comfortable only being in their own presence and probably isn't comfortable with themselves.
I'm perfectly comfortable going to the grave single and not attached to anyone as an old man. I mainly reached that level when I looked around and started to notice many people are so determined to not walk away with nothing that they'll take whatever they can get convinced its the best they can do. Those type of people never really get what they want. The difference between coming away with nothing and settling for less is the person that has nothing is still on the hunt and they still have hope of obtaining what they want the settler they gave up and have resigned themselves to something undesirable.
main reason i get into a relationship is because i want to own her p*ssy. i don't want her to feel like she can give "my p*ssy" to someone else.
but you can never own someone else's body or thoughts. besides that, i don't know why else i want to be in a relationship. social pressure as well to some extent maybe.
I can feel you on the exclusitivity aspect of calling babe your one and only shone.
My ass actually gave 2 other girls the boot because i'm really feeling this new one i've been spending copious amounts of time with.
Been about 5 weeks and for the first time last sunday, she texted me with "Babe" (i hear it a lot, but it seems like she was finally comfy enough to categorize/legitimize me as such).
What i want to add, and i have a question for y'all nugz,
How do you feel bout "Weekend Girlfriends?"
The kind of companion you only see on weekends due to newness, conflicting/available schedules, etc.
For me, i think it keeps it interesting because you aren't constantly in eachother's atmospheres so prevalently and you get space/alone time to just do chores, run errands (and run Erin's if you like, eh heh heh - kidding bout that).
Just my thoughts...
i'ma whip out my proverbial scale - so y'all can weight in on this.
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im the same hell i travelled to another country alone and had the time of my life. Sports, internet, travelling, and my hobbies and im good.
i dont need a nagging depreacing asset, snotty nose kids or a anchor on my feet.
canada the great
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its shocking but stast show that it culd be as high as 15% of dads are raising kids that aren't theirs that they dont know off.
its what the media markets, they market houses, weddings, rings, familiies. if your a single male getting older "dont you want a family, dont you have kids, you must be gay":
they dont bring up the high infidelity rates, that most relationships just last a little while.
hell even going on vacation why are all the packages double occupancy?
does being in a relationship make you feel better? i remember when i was in relationships, the boring ass phone calls, boring ass repetitive dinners, movies, the drives there and back, the meeting the friends and famly bla bla bla its all repetitive, ther eis no such magical "one" insert anyone and its all the time, whether a month, a year, a few years, a decade it deteriorates and ends
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Weekend companion thing is a great idea....I always said the less time around a woman the better.Just like in life,nobody wants to be bothered EVERY DAY. I never understood why cats wanna spend every waking moment with their woman. Once a woman knows your pattern or your too common you become "boring".As a man you should be short and straight to the point with a woman. You dont wanna be her best friend,honestly we dont wanan hear about her fav reality tv show or anything irrelevant.We just wanna know if we going out that night 
this is why I tell brothas the more you talk,the more your talking yourself out of her mind/heart. There is a reason why the term "Man of few words" is respected.
this is why I tell brothas the more you talk,the more your talking yourself out of her mind/heart. There is a reason why the term "Man of few words" is respected.canada the great
alpha lays beta raises
its shocking but stast show that it culd be as high as 15% of dads are raising kids that aren't theirs that they dont know off.
Imagine finding out the guy you thought was your father isn't & your mother is a loose skank at the same damn time..
Sickening as fukk!
Patrice the gawd... he should be mandatory listening for all nikkas in relationships...
btw, kev literally summed up 8000+ posts in an excellent set of paragraphs... perfection
i actually heard about this on the radio today. even heard the simp on the radio. honestly, it's hard to have sympathy for him. dude is a TRUE simp...
WOW is all I can say about this: Nicole Frederick