Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[VertigoKnight]

do yall nikkas not ever get tired of this shyt though?

iunno, I liked meeting and fukking new bytches...but it honestly became tiresome and boring to some degree

Oh for sure, which is why I slowed down on dating new women last year. And I'm not on the traditional dating apps. Late 2018-2020 I had multiple new chicks every week. shyt is tiresome and wasteful of my resources and energy.

The chick above I knew for over two years, she wasn't just a smash and grab. We developed a deep understanding and care. I realised my life at the moment is not about a traditional relationship,

But I still want to connect with women who also share that way of thinking. As long as we both know what's what.

At some point I will settle down again. But I don't feel that pull yet.

 

[Ohene]

Oh for sure, which is why I slowed down on dating new women last year. And I'm not on the traditional dating apps. Late 2018-2020 I had multiple new chicks every week. shyt is tiresome and wasteful of my resources and energy.

The chick above I knew for over two years, she wasn't just a smash and grab. We developed a deep understanding and care. I realised my life at the moment is not about a traditional relationship,

But I still want to connect with women who also share that way of thinking. As long as we both know what's what.

At some point I will settle down again. But I don't feel that pull yet.

Word

whats the end game for you? Is it marriage or that isnt foe you

 

[Malik1time]

Not sure why but I been getting so many matches in hinge lately
Ever since I put a voice intro In my profile I been getting matches left and right
Cute women

 

[DapMeUp!]

do yall nikkas not ever get tired of this shyt though?

iunno, I liked meeting and fukking new bytches...but it honestly became tiresome and boring to some degree

Yes...but if you haven't met the woman you want to settle down with, what is the alternative?
It's tiresome but gotta be in the game to win it

 

[jay83]

Not sure why but I been getting so many matches in hinge lately
Ever since I put a voice intro In my profile I been getting matches left and right
Cute women

The voice is everything. I see a cute face but she got a smokers voice or talks like a bird I’m unmatching. Lol

 

[Ohene]

Yes...but if you haven't met the woman you want to settle down with, what is the alternative?
It's tiresome but gotta be in the game to win it

Yes sir

 

[MikelArteta]

do yall nikkas not ever get tired of this shyt though?

iunno, I liked meeting and fukking new bytches...but it honestly became tiresome and boring to some degree

I got tired of it
I probably met like over 150 chicks in the past three years . Was the same song and dance talked went out maybe a few times drifted, or i got tired of them rinse and repeat.

glad to be out of that life

 

[Ohene]

I got tired of it
I probably met like over 150 chicks in the past three years . Was the same song and dance talked went out maybe a few times drifted, or i got tired of them rinse and repeat.

glad to be out of that life

so if you're glad...why were you so quick to potentially end things with her. i gotta hold some of yall in here accountable (as corny as that sounds)
one thing I was always frustrated with when dealing with shorties is how they can be so fickle and quick to move "on to the next one". We should strive to be better than that

i too am anticipating being outta the game in that regard. its just a waste of time, money and energy...and to be honest emotions sometimes

 

[VertigoKnight]

Word

whats the end game for you? Is it marriage or that isnt foe you

Tbh I'm still thinking over it. I was in a 12 yr relationship 7 of those married and the idea of getting hitched and things going south again. Fills me with dread. It took years to come to my current mindset of feeling like a new healthier me.

I said on here before my divorce was relatively clean, but me and her still had our issues. And it really turned parts of my life over.

I do want a real partner at some point but I've learnt a lot about women the last few yrs and so I try to go into a situation open minded, but also knowing shyt can switch up at any time.

 

[The ADD]

so if you're glad...why were you so quick to potentially end things with her. i gotta hold some of yall in here accountable (as corny as that sounds)
one thing I was always frustrated with when dealing with shorties is how they can be so fickle and quick to move "on to the next one". We should strive to be better than that

i too am anticipating being outta the game in that regard. its just a waste of time, money and energy...and to be honest emotions sometimes

How old are you?

 

[Ohene]

How old are you?

30

 

[Ohene]

Tbh I'm still thinking over it. I was in a 12 yr relationship 7 of those married and the idea of getting hitched and things going south again. Fills me with dread. It took years to come to my current mindset of feeling like a new healthier me.

I said on here before my divorce was relatively clean, but me and her still had our issues. And it really turned parts of my life over.

I do want a real partner at some point but I've learnt a lot about women the last few yrs and so I try to go into a situation open minded, but also knowing shyt can switch up at any time.

i completely understand. IF i ever get married...I'm only doing it once.
After that, i will just have girlfriends and one baby mom or some shyt,

 

[VertigoKnight]

so if you're glad...why were you so quick to potentially end things with her. i gotta hold some of yall in here accountable (as corny as that sounds)
one thing I was always frustrated with when dealing with shorties is how they can be so fickle and quick to move "on to the next one". We should strive to be better than that

i too am anticipating being outta the game in that regard. its just a waste of time, money and energy...and to be honest emotions sometimes

Yeah the fickleness bothers me with some of these chicks and it's not fair to the new guy they get with either. They just take all the shyt they haven't dealt with to whatever new situation they're in. Rinse and repeat.

 

[Ohene]

Yeah the fickleness bothers me with some of these chicks and it's not fair to the new guy they get with either. They just take all the shyt they haven't dealt with to whatever new situation they're in. Rinse and repeat.

Pretty much

One shouldnt become a completely new person, but they should expect to have to bend/change at least a little in relationships.

If ones girl wants him to affirm her some more, it really wouldnt kill you to do so...as long as it is in a dignified/not over the top way. The whole, "we are different...or...accept me for who i am" shyt is immature on many levels.

If it starts to become that she continues to complain about how you do it, or is always bringing up something new to bytch about...thats when you have to draw the line in the sand AND she needs to meet in the middle.

Thats just me though

I understand Reincars POV though because a lot of women (especially those inexperienced with men) almost expect men to show their love/affection like bytches. And thats not how men do. shyt...you do it too much and your girl might even lose respect for you. Its fukked up that way

 

[Bossyyyyy]

gonna start taking some of these chicks on dates. still very in love w baby, but i also wanna see what’s poppin

hinge giving me some gud feedback, but once i get the number n start texting i lose interest

tiny pants tiny shirt szn around the corner, and personally im ready but my mouthpiece lagging a bit #gottagetright

looking forward to the summer