Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[International Playa]

Got a date lined up for tomorrow and need good date ideas. Netflix and Chill is out of the question as neither of us have privacy at home. Was going to do dinner and drinks but that seems to tame. Also WTF to talk about. Typically I swipe, smash, cycle but this one Ive got to balance it out. Dont wanna fumble the bag or have an dead akward time. Any advise brehs

Activity dates are the best to help with any awkward silences & help keep the conversation flowing. Bowling, arcade, golf, games, museums ( they are free)etc.

Some bowling alley serve alcohol too

 

[VertigoKnight]

yea makes you wonder whats up with them lol. I see girls on there now I saw 2 years ago before I got with my ex.

I feel a lot of these chicks love overtly or unthinkingly sabotaging potential relationships. Or like the idea of dating but not the reality of them having to have an actual personality.

That or they have 2-3 guys they see until these guys make it clear their not looking for anything serious and she dumps them.

Rinse and repeat.

Most women I saw on these apps when I was more active have a guy on deck to help with their occasional 'needs'

Heck I've been that guy, she comes round to my yard to chill and fukk whilst playing the good girl for the other guy she's dating.

 

[The ADD]

yea makes you wonder whats up with them lol. I see girls on there now I saw 2 years ago before I got with my ex.

Lol but you on there two years later

 

[Ohene]

Deleted hinge.

These apps are the biggest waste of time.
- Trash response times
- Attention thots
- Time wasters
- etc.

Just going to focus on real life interactions.

Yup

don’t know how brothers do it

 

[Ahadi]

can sign up in 6 months and will be the same chicks

Facts. & they try to match again you like nothing happened.

I may download if I’m in Toronto or somewhere else with bad African women.

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

I know with oh girl, I didn't react the best most of the time with her nonsense, but it only got to that point because of her actions. And not talking to her these last few days after being told we're done for good, I realize I was semi being gaslighted about how I reacted.

Women claim to want reassurance, communication, affection, etc. Well, shyt, we want that too. Especially if we're talking to someone or dating, putting all this effort on our end to make it work.

I know people aren't mentally there and are going through things, shyt we all are. It just feels like the internet has made both topics a crutch to lean on instead of taking accountability. Sure, it is the actual reason most of the time, and we try to have patience with people. But when you can't even put in the minimum effort to make it feel as if you also want this to work, of course, I'm a be angry.

Every time I would try to communicate why I'm frustrated and angry with her I somehow would end up apologzing. And I truly meant it too, I just wanted that shyt to work out like for real for real.

I spent the past few days sad that it was over. Now I'm mad because I tried my best, and the energy wasn't reciprocated the past couple months. This wasn't some one and done or two date adventure. This was a full-year thing we had going, and it's down the drain.

Makes me even angrier to see women bash us 24/7 on social media. Like some of you aren't shyt either.

I find it respectable when people can apologize and communicate without putting the blame solely on one person unless it's deserving.

Guess I dodged a bullet. Guys go through this everywhere, except they go further by having kids or being married to her. All that work down the drain and now they paying for it. I guess it could still be worse but I'm still heated.

 

[MikelArteta]

the thing about these apps as well, women love the attention, and its the same for guys as for women. You talk to someone and their great but just around the corner you matching with someone hotter, etc.

I remember i'd match with one chick go out on a date etc. and everything was great, but then next day some sexier ass chick who was like a dr or some next chick with the body of a gawdess, or talking to a chick thats 36 then next 26 and adios older chick

Also I remember I was sorta cavorting witht his nigerian chick but she'd just pause her profile. Like she was waiting for me to eff up and just unpause it

 

[Organic Trees]

Just so you understand, no matter how cool you think she is...she's a stripper, and those fall under the scumbag tree. Don't trust anything she says, and always fukk her miles away from your house. Besides that, you should be fine.

I'm not trying to love the bytch just fuxk on her

I get what you saying tho

 

[RealAssanova]

I feel a lot of these chicks love overtly or unthinkingly sabotaging potential relationships. Or like the idea of dating but not the reality of them having to have an actual personality.

That or they have 2-3 guys they see until these guys make it clear their not looking for anything serious and she dumps them.

Rinse and repeat.

Most women I saw on these apps when I was more active have a guy on deck to help with their occasional 'needs'

Heck I've been that guy, she comes round to my yard to chill and fukk whilst playing the good girl for the other guy she's dating.

Men be aware of the image you present to a woman.

She can be one nikka’s cum storage but to you she is a woman of god that doesn’t engage in demonic behaviour.

all because of how you presented yourself…

That and her level of sexual attraction towards you.

So if you come across as a nice, respectable, funny, “get to know her” type…she’ll portray herself as a good woman/catch.

the seasoned player/fukkboy knows how to tap into her inner hoe and help her release it. This is what 90% of woman love and deep down desire.

the more a woman has to “act/play a role” to “trap” or “deceive” a nikka for one reason or another (ie. biological clock is ticking and she wants to secure a provider/beta dude), the worst a relationship/situation becomes because she isn’t herself.

don’t be that guy.

 

[Ahadi]

Men be aware of the image you present to a woman.

She can be one nikka’s cum storage but to you she is a woman of god that doesn’t engage in demonic behaviour.

all because of how you presented yourself…

That and her level of sexual attraction towards you.

So if you come across as a nice, respectable, funny, “get to know her” type…she’ll portray herself as a good woman/catch.

the seasoned player/fukkboy knows how tap into her inner hoe and help her release it. This is what 90% of woman love and deep down desire.

the more a woman has to “act” or “play a role” to “trap” or “deceive” a nikka for one reason or another (ie. biological clock is ticking and she wants to secure a provider/beta dude), the worst a relationship/situation becomes because she isn’t herself.

don’t be that guy.

Examples of tapping into her inner thot? Besides liquor and not giving a fukk?

 

[RealAssanova]

Examples of tapping into her inner thot? Besides liquor and not giving a fukk?

It can be as simple as bein carefree, fun and seductive.

tone, body language, eye contact and physical touch.

harness those 4 and panties will be down by her ankles.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

hmmm

 

[VertigoKnight]

Men be aware of the image you present to a woman.

She can be one nikka’s cum storage but to you she is a woman of god that doesn’t engage in demonic behaviour.

all because of how you presented yourself…

That and her level of sexual attraction towards you.

So if you come across as a nice, respectable, funny, “get to know her” type…she’ll portray herself as a good woman/catch.

the seasoned player/fukkboy knows how to tap into her inner hoe and help her release it. This is what 90% of woman love and deep down desire.

the more a woman has to “act/play a role” to “trap” or “deceive” a nikka for one reason or another (ie. biological clock is ticking and she wants to secure a provider/beta dude), the worst a relationship/situation becomes because she isn’t herself.

don’t be that guy.

Perfect description of the chick on my roster who called it time with me this past week. She is going for the provider/ hubby

She doesn't want to be the bridesmaid anymore she wants the main event. From talking to her I could tell her friends getting engaged and married was slowly getting to her. She took action to change that.

I'm intrigued to see if she bags him fully, shes very good at putting on a certain persona when she needs to. Not in a malicious way moreso in presenting one face to the worlds whereas I unlocked all her desires she craves.

Examples of tapping into her inner thot? Besides liquor and not giving a fukk?

Listening to her. Let her tell you her sexual fantasies and wants. Once she crosses that line with you, she will open herself up fully.

The chick I talk about above. She loved getting chocked till her face turned red, one of the only ways she could cum, that or slapping her t*ts hard and denigrating her verbally or spanking her ass whislt I pullled her hair. I'm gonna miss that little freak.

But when a woman is fully comfortable and more importantly safe with you, man the things she will want you to do with her. And she can't help herself.

And it's not even some special skill. Women crave wild sex just pull them along a bit and they'll do the rest.

 

[DJSmooth]

women don't ever hear that damn fire alarm going off in the background when you video call them.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

women don't ever hear that damn fire alarm going off in the background when you video call them.