Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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NYC black coffee tough guys aka the Stoozy Boys
So heres the line up

-Gf
-Side bytch
-bytch who said we could be fwb if she gets to know me soon
-this sza lookn bytch…who wants to date date…one thing that bugs me is she doesnt wana talk sexual and is one those “stimulate my mind “ crystals bytches…bytch is bad but it irks me about lack of naughty talk


I never met a woman who didn't send nudes or talked dirty at some point. The "sapiosexual" women have no idea what the word means, and are just as disgusting. She'll eat your ass just the same, however, she'll also talk about how her tongue is spiritually connected to your anus at 3 a.m. in the morning.
 

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Brehs how do you handle women who are only in your city for work for a few months & going back overseas to their home country?

Take pics and vids. Look back fondly at the memories created. Even more so if you can play the long game/manipulate her into sending you gifts and nudes.
 

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Brehs, whats the standard on the level of contact with exes when in a relationship.

The girl ive been in a relationship for the past 4 months (well now my ex) just cut things off cuz she saw an ig notification from my ex. In those series of messages, i responded to her her story about that nigerian dude that got killed by the white girl, cuz she kept posting about it and shes not Nigerian. Im Nigerian btw. I asked if she knew him and she said she knew his brother. I replied more than 24 hours later in the morning then she asked why I was up so early cuz i replied to her message in the more than 24hrs later. I said my new bae is a morning person, so thats been the wave lately. She was enthusiastic in wanting to know some of the details but I kept the shyt very brief.

I showed my girl the messages but she wasnt satisfied. We had spoken about ex's and she said maintaining relationships with exes was a deal breaker cuz in previous relationships, her nikkas were creepin on her with their exes. I acknowledged this but i feel a random social media message like once every couple of weeks does not constitute maintaining a relationship.
But i'm sitting here like :mindblown:. Im telling these hoes that i have a girl, putting them on notice, but just the mere contact is enough for suggest im trying to maintain a relationship.

Bare in mind, she has some guy friend that one day called her on a saturday night out of the blue and asked her to babysit his son while we were chilling. Homegirl barely gave this nikka any pushback, and asked if she could help him. She had explained the dynamic between them prior so i allowed it. Im like how can you really hold about this when you have this type of the

A bit relieved cuz when the level of irrationality is too much for me to handle.
 

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Got a date lined up for tomorrow and need good date ideas. Netflix and Chill is out of the question as neither of us have privacy at home. Was going to do dinner and drinks but that seems to tame. Also WTF to talk about. Typically I swipe, smash, cycle but this one Ive got to balance it out. Dont wanna fumble the bag or have an dead akward time. Any advise brehs
 

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Brehs, whats the standard on the level of contact with exes when in a relationship.

The girl ive been in a relationship for the past 4 months (well now my ex) just cut things off cuz she saw an ig notification from my ex. In those series of messages, i responded to her her story about that nigerian dude that got killed by the white girl, cuz she kept posting about it and shes not Nigerian. Im Nigerian btw. I asked if she knew him and she said she knew his brother. I replied more than 24 hours later in the morning then she asked why I was up so early cuz i replied to her message in the more than 24hrs later. I said my new bae is a morning person, so thats been the wave lately. She was enthusiastic in wanting to know some of the details but I kept the shyt very brief.

I showed my girl the messages but she wasnt satisfied. We had spoken about ex's and she said maintaining relationships with exes was a deal breaker cuz in previous relationships, her nikkas were creepin on her with their exes. I acknowledged this but i feel a random social media message like once every couple of weeks does not constitute maintaining a relationship.
But i'm sitting here like :mindblown:. Im telling these hoes that i have a girl, putting them on notice, but just the mere contact is enough for suggest im trying to maintain a relationship.

Bare in mind, she has some guy friend that one day called her on a saturday night out of the blue and asked her to babysit his son while we were chilling. Homegirl barely gave this nikka any pushback, and asked if she could help him. She had explained the dynamic between them prior so i allowed it. Im like how can you really hold about this when you have this type of the

A bit relieved cuz when the level of irrationality is too much for me to handle.

I don't keep in contact with exes. not even casually.
What good could come out of still having an ex on socials when your in a new relationship?
Just seems like creating problems for yourself.
 

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YOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!

I just figured out why I’m so bad with getting women!!!

I’m being a LAME! Like I’m actually being a lame ass dude, a nice guy. I’m PURPOSELY being this way.

All I gotta do it just be chill and smooth. Like damn major epiphany!!!

I’m already confident I just gotta allow it to come out.
 

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How many here fukking with a girl around your size/weight or even bigger than you?
 

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Got a date lined up for tomorrow and need good date ideas. Netflix and Chill is out of the question as neither of us have privacy at home. Was going to do dinner and drinks but that seems to tame. Also WTF to talk about. Typically I swipe, smash, cycle but this one Ive got to balance it out. Dont wanna fumble the bag or have an dead akward time. Any advise brehs
never do dinner on the first date. I would meet for drinks after 9 pm.
 

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YOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!

I just figured out why I’m so bad with getting women!!!

I’m being a LAME! Like I’m actually being a lame ass dude, a nice guy. I’m PURPOSELY being this way.

All I gotta do it just be chill and smooth. Like damn major epiphany!!!

I’m already confident I just gotta allow it to come out.

Just be indifferent and have a “idgaf” attitude. That’s usually the best way to go about it. Random and unpredictable.
 
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