Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
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Never understood not going that routeY’all might be on to something with these coffee dates.
A few minutes to understand if there’s a vibe and what you’re dealing with.
She paid for her own coffee too. Let me know how to move from jump.
Am I out of line for being mad at my gf because I found out via her Facebook post that she was in an accident yesterday that totaled her car? Like I saw the post hours after it had already happened. She had the time to post on FB about it but didn’t even contact me knowing sooner or later I’d see it and be freaking out. Only reason I got on her about it is 1) because she’s physically okay and 2) I texted her something at like 2 today and she ain’t respond to it all day but she had time to post on fb 3 times in the same timespan. I know she was at work and busy most the day as shes a pharmacist but how hard is it to throw a fukkin emoji or to like a text? Especially when you got time to share shyt on fb during that same time? She said she didn’t respond or read it because we had talked yesterday about me coming over tonight after class. But what does that have to do with simply acknowledging my muhfukkin words to you?
I don’t get emotional with her like in terms of raising my voice or anything but talking to her about it today I had to tell her bout herself a little and I honestly am not feeling bad about it. Okay maybe a little, but that’s why I’m here
I don’t get emotional with her like in terms of raising my voice or anything but talking to her about it today I had to tell her bout herself a little and I honestly am not feeling bad about it. Okay maybe a little, but that’s why I’m here
She went to social media before her man?
that shyt is crazy. Ima be honest, if something don’t feel right, you need to just leave. It should never be this confusing. This ain’t just you; this is all men. Figure out your dynamic and make sure she understands the program
Brehs how do I become emotionless? I found myself reminded of that girl that I simped for last year. I thought getting a second job would help me stay occupied.
Worked today 10:30am-7pm and then my second job is 8:30pm-11pm. Im not even that tired.
Worked today 10:30am-7pm and then my second job is 8:30pm-11pm. Im not even that tired.
I literally paid $2.81 for a coffee and tea at a local coffee shop. That was my entire expenseY’all might be on to something with these coffee dates.
A few minutes to understand if there’s a vibe and what you’re dealing with.
She paid for her own coffee too. Let me know how to move from jump.
Go to the gym
Idk if it was a gym thing. I think more of an intermediation factor. Some black women don’t like it when a black man is doing better or well. It was like she saw me as completion. Didn’t realize I swiped on a 30 year old either on hinge.
But also she was a sweetheart or some shyt. Idk I didn’t do any of that pledge stuff, so I’m completely clueless when it comes to that.
I’ve always had issues with HBCU ppl testing my blackness. Not on some Carlton shyt tho. On some Huey going back to chicago and getting into it with that hotep
Malik1time
What you looking at?
Talking to a fine ass women .everything clicking only to find out she lives in another state
12hours away
Her recent post were her visiting her best friend in Houston
Waste of time
Edit: she’s moving Dallas this summer… that’s cool it went from 12hours to 4hours
12hours away
Her recent post were her visiting her best friend in Houston
Waste of time
Edit: she’s moving Dallas this summer
… that’s cool it went from 12hours to 4hours
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RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
There’s too many women in your proximity for you, me, or any dude to entertain someone miles away from you. If you or the other person frequently travels then that’s one thing, but some women purposely change their location “just to see what’s out there” or don’t update it.Talking to a fine ass women .everything clicking only to find out she lives in another state
12hours away
Her recent post were her visiting her best friend in Houston
Waste of time
Edit: she’s moving Dallas this summer
Women I see at my local grocery store
shordi spending a weekend in Atlanta.
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
I’m naive and still young to be saying this, but weed and alcohol is starting becoming my dealbreaker.
bill riser
Pro
Exactly. Y'all don't know how much time I've saved by telling women up front that it's coffee/drinks on first date.Never understood not going that route
I use it as a sniff test to see if she's even worth the pursuit.
Some chick's will try to curve you immediately if you try to set the first meet up as a coffee/drink date but I see it as a silver bullet dodged
.Funny thing about this is that some chicks that initially curved me do a complete 180 when they see me dating another woman the very next day or week
.You smartExactly. Y'all don't know how much time I've saved by telling women up front that it's coffee/drinks on first date.
I use it as a sniff test to see if she's even worth the pursuit.
Some chick's will try to curve you immediately if you try to set the first meet up as a coffee/drink date but I see it as a silver bullet dodged
Funny thing about this is that some chicks that initially curved me do a complete 180 when they see me dating another woman the very next day or week
fukk all these bytches
bill riser
Pro
Hey, let's not get a head of ourselves herefukk all these bytches
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