MT gang happy belated MT daybeen getting back in the game with a new (my old) perspective. so far shyt has been smooth sailing.
In great shape from muay thai & bjj, my finances on point, and moving into an apartment with no roommates in the city in the next few weeks.
we eating this summer
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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More we started talking and getting to know each other red flags were coming up, she seemed to be a “good” girl, very direct with what she was looking for and wanted. But things wouldn’t have worked out so I did the old grenade self sabotage. Things would’ve probably worked a few years back but my minds been to jaded, so let her go and find that right person for her
They don’t play games, they pull u lol
Where do I go? What do I wear?
They come to you. Being yourself and what you do normally day to day, they’re more aggressive than younger women so they’ll holla at you or give you all the signs needed to smile at or say hi to them
It’s definitely postpartum depression. She’s going to a therapist about it. Seem like it got worst tho
ya it’s rough as hell with that some people can’t handle that and it breaks relationships or marriages unfortunately.
My ex was real bad but I rode it out and it got better over time tho
Only advice I can say is be supportive as best as you can not saying put up with disrespect or bullshyt cuz u shouldn’t either give her time is all u can do and put her on the right track as best as possible
You said all that and she’s your ex lmao
I’m realistic.
she’s my ex not cuz of that she’s ex cuz she didn’t want to be with a someone who got sick medically discharged from military and have the responsibility of being bread winner and still deal with kids so she took the easy way out and cheated and left me and kids
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
she’s my ex not cuz of that she’s ex cuz she didn’t want to be with a someone who got sick medically discharged from military and have the responsibility of being bread winner and still deal with kids so she took the easy way out and cheated and left me and kids
Hope you and the kids are doing alright, and hope she’s a good mother/figure to them.. sheesh
Killigraphy
Banned
-They're always gonna use the "I'm older so I know x" line on you as a shyt test, so always have ammo for that.
-Salsa clubs, Lounge's, etc. Basically, you want to increase the time + proximity aspect as fast a possible. Moms are essentially losers with limited time on their hands. So once you break the ice, you're pretty much in. You'll also get laid in no time, the only problem I see, is how well you can talk. Get good at dancing, and you can get some spanish milfs.
As for apparel, keep it simple, not hood, but simple. If I'm going to a popular cougar spot, I usually just do a simply Nirvana or Misfits Tee shirt, with black jeans, gives them a point of reference to how much I love music and what I can talk about.
Can you go more in depth on the ammo for shyt tests?
Sometimes we get so stuck in our heads thinking “damn the missed opportunity “ or “how’d I blow that” without realizing that could’ve been a blessing and we don’t realize the bullet we dodged or future opportunities that could’ve been missed being tied down.
I’m in the military tooshe’s my ex not cuz of that she’s ex cuz she didn’t want to be with a someone who got sick medically discharged from military and have the responsibility of being bread winner and still deal with kids so she took the easy way out and cheated and left me and kids
So she is the breadwinner but then said fukk them kids?
If it ain’t one thing it’s another. I’m sure she initially wanted to separate during the postpartum shyt but couldn’t bc u played a supporting role, so she skedaddled the next opportunity, which was u getting medically separated.
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
The grass always seems greener on the other side.
Those thoughts are amplified when you hear success stories from all areas of your life: social media, IRL, relatives, etc… rarely do we talk about our failures. Not hearing the multiple attempts to get there or the downside after accomplishing said goal makes it seems you’re the biggest loser on earth.
the only thing I preach to myself and others is try. Try for that opportunity. If your gut, instincts, or outside forces doesn’t allow you to accomplish it.. then at least you can say you made an attempt.