Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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you right breh, i think it’s the fear of rejection that’s getting in the way from me
Biggest thing I learned is “are you what you want the other person to see you as?” If you desire casual sex from these women, are you someone who walks and talks like that’s what they offer?

This plays a part in rejection because if you are confident in what you offer, there’s no reason to be scared of a no.
 

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you right breh, i think it’s the fear of rejection that’s getting in the way from me
what's the fear? get over that shyt. I used to have it too. then I realized life is short and what doesn't break me makes me. the more rejected you get the better your game will get. just remember you are the man and feel it in your gut and the bytches will feel it too.
 

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You are wrong. But I will entertain your “philosophy” by leaving this one joint I matched on “hide” and HOPEFULLY IN JESUS NAME SHE WILL POP OUT AND GIVE ME JUST ONE CHANCE AND SEE I AM WORTHY!”

:mjlol:

Let’s see what happens.

Day 2: No response yet. But I left her on hide to show her she doesn’t matter.

:troll:
 

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what's the fear? get over that shyt. I used to have it too. then I realized life is short and what doesn't break me makes me. the more rejected you get the better your game will get. just remember you are the man and feel it in your gut and the bytches will feel it too.

exactly its just like a job ditto if one rejects you move on.
 

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What im bout to say may sound crazy or off the wall:Always pay attention to who women fantasize over and type of image that man brings forth. Yea may sound stupid but there is truth in it.For example If a woman has a lifetime crush on lets say 2Pac. Thats type of dude she wants or ultimately will have. Yes 2Pac isnt alive but you never ever hear a woman fantasize about a Johnnie Cochran,Malcolm X type dude. You see my point. What a woman endorses or likes plays big factors.
 

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What im bout to say may sound crazy or off the wall:Always pay attention to who women fantasize over and type of image that man brings forth. Yea may sound stupid but there is truth in it.For example If a woman has a lifetime crush on lets say 2Pac. Thats type of dude she wants or ultimately will have. Yes 2Pac isnt alive but you never ever hear a woman fantasize about a Johnnie Cochran,Malcolm X type dude. You see my point. What a woman endorses or likes plays big factors.

Do you lay in bed fantasizing about Rosa Parks, or have Susan B. Anthony as your WCW? Of course you don’t, so why would it be different for a woman? People who have infatuations with celebrities, moreso dead ones, are weirdos anyway.
 

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Do you lay in bed fantasizing about Rosa Parks, or have Susan B. Anthony as your WCW? Of course you don’t, so why would it be different for a woman? People who have infatuations with celebrities, moreso dead ones, are weirdos anyway.
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Do you lay in bed fantasizing about Rosa Parks, or have Susan B. Anthony as your WCW? Of course you don’t, so why would it be different for a woman? People who have infatuations with celebrities, moreso dead ones, are weirdos anyway.
Wtf ? Always 1 dude trying to spin shyt and be funny. U know what im talking bout
 

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Wtf ? Always 1 dude trying to spin shyt and be funny. U know what im talking bout
There was no spin. You explicitly questioned why women don’t fantasize about Malcolm X or JOHNNIE fukkING COCHRAN… you want women to drool and lust over breh who got OJ off? :mjlol: Fantasizing = lust breh.. I assumed you would of known that since you “see women for what they are” and we don’t :laff:
 

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Since not eveyone is good at texting let me give some game hopefully help someone else out:

Text with a purpose - Don't ask dumb shyt and don't ask too many questions. I usually ask the same few questions. What do you like to do for fun? what do you do for work? find a common interest and talk about that.

Save the convo for the date - Guys waste too much time trying to get to know a bytch through text. Texting is only to build rapport early on and get them comfortable enough to meet you in person. Save the deeper stuff for the date. The first few dates is really where you see what type of women she is and if shes a jump off or wifey status or ain't shyt.

Try to meet up or get the number asap - Some girls will give you the number after the first day, some won't. Respect there decision but if they don't give it just say well I was just trying to meet you in person. You can still talk to them through the app but set up the date asap. If you are talking for more than a few days you need to get the number or try to meet up asap. Women like a man that takes action.

You pick the time and the place - When asking them to meet up you set it up and do it on your terms. Its more fun this way and its more like you are inviting them to do what you want instead of letting them decide. I hate bowling so I'm not gonna ask a bytch to go bowling but I took a bytch to bar/arcade and she liked it and I liked it so it was a win win.

Send one follow up message if they don't respond in time - People are busy and you never know what's up with a bytch. I talked to this bytch all last weekend. Didn't hear from her all week. Thursday I sent "Is anybody in there?". She responded that same day and said sorry it's been a busy week. She also didn't give me her number but we talked about getting coffee this week.

Do not use emojis and do not simp - Leave the emojis to the bytches and don't simp over a bytch you don't even know. be a man.

Slip in stuff that makes you look good - I have tattoos, my own company, crib, and place. I will casually slide this shyt in plus I work out and box so slide in some shyt and humble brag.

All of this above is just to get you to the first date. Dating in person is a whole other story but the above shyt has personally helped me.

It's still a numbers game tho so don't get discouraged remember you are the man and just keep swiping. when you get a bytch who is feeling you they don't play games and it makes your life easier. don't make shyt more difficult than it needs to be life is tough already.

This is basically it brehs; this is the playbook. Using this will make your life much, much easier.

The bolded is also really important. Red pill will have you assuming the worst, and it's good to have the thought that she's already getting D'd down by somebody else cross your mind - cuz it happens, but too many brehs end up actually emotionally :mad: when not getting the response you want. You don't need to know details, just know she's not ready at the moment & keep it pushing.

Trust, when you have a fifth of the options women do, you'll start mirroring a lot of the behavior from them that pisses you off anyway.
 
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