Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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this was a good ass question:eek:

We’re in the early talking stages. Honestly if I didn’t see that she was posting IG stories, I wouldn’t have cared that much. Also, I know if I’m feeling someone, I’m not going to ignore they text all day.


I’m sure she replied back to the guy she’s really into :wow:
 

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this was a good ass question:eek:

We’re in the early talking stages. Honestly if I didn’t see that she was posting IG stories, I wouldn’t have cared that much. Also, I know if I’m feeling someone, I’m not going to ignore they text all day.
So y’all aren’t much of anything.

She’s not showing much interest so move accordingly. Doesn’t sound like anything to be upset about IMO
 

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How would that change anything though?
Don’t listen to the dude telling you to unmatch. :mjlol:

Not sure which app you’re on, but there’s a hide option on Hinge, you can utilize that until they decide to pop back out. Some of the women on there legit don’t check the app all that often, some of them may just not be all that interested in you (for now), and some use it for an ego boost.

Hiding puts the unresponsive batch to the side, but will keep the option open.
 
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Don’t listen to the dude telling you to unmatch. :mjlol:

Not sure which app you’re on, but there’s a hide option on Hinge, you can utilize that until they decide to pop back out. Some of the women on there legit don’t check the app all that often, some of them may just not be all that interested in you (for now), and some use it for an ego boost.

Hiding puts the unresponsive batch to the side, but will keep the option open.

:mjgrin:

You are wrong. But I will entertain your “philosophy” by leaving this one joint I matched on “hide” and HOPEFULLY IN JESUS NAME SHE WILL POP OUT AND GIVE ME JUST ONE CHANCE AND SEE I AM WORTHY!”

:mjlol:

Let’s see what happens.
 

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How y'all deal with chicks not responding or stopping after a few messages & how long y'all wait before asking a woman out?

I get more matches than messages at this point
:mindblown:
I will send one follow up message like 3 or 4 days later. im not sitting around waiting for them but ive met up with a few chicks through sending a ffollow up message. just gotta write somethin funny lke I thought we had something special or anybody in there? anybody in there works all the time for me. but I send one message and if it fizzles out again after they respond I just move on.

biggest thing about the game is just can't care and you shouldn't care. It's all a numbers game and if a bytch is making you jump through hoops shes not interested and im not wasting my time.

you also gotta get her number after a day or so or if its going that good the same day. If you waiting more than a day to ask for the number you wasting time.

I had a few bytches say how refreshing it was I move quick and too many dudes act like penpals.
 

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you also gotta get her number after a day or so or if its going that good the same day. If you waiting more than a day to ask for the number you wasting time.

I had a few bytches say how refreshing it was I move quick and too many dudes act like penpals.

So many guys want to be meek not ask for her number and move her off the app and just talk to a chick for a week with good morning messages and all, then wonder why a chick is lukewarm.

Another thing is men who don't know what they want to do. It’s such a simple thing and I thought most men were on it, but according to my female friends it seems not. and these are not demanding women they cool and chill but some of these guys can't do the bare minimum.

If I’m inviting a woman out I know what, when and where. Guys asking women where they should meet and what she wants to do. :francis: Then get baffled when her energy is meh

And like I’ve said if a chick is already feeling you. It can be anywhere. A park for a walk, a coffee shop, a free museum but you’ve shown that you know what you’re doing and you have a plan for your time together.

The amount of women I’ve bagged with a simple inexpensive date where we can talk in person. Then the second date is usually at my place or hers for dinner and then sex.
 
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