Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[RaspberryFitted]

How y'all deal with chicks not responding or stopping after a few messages & how long y'all wait before asking a woman out?

I get more matches than messages at this point

unmatch or let it sit. Emphasis on the “let it sit”.

stop responding? These dating apps are a literal game to women & men with multiple options. Can’t get too beat up about it.

As far as asking out, as soon as possible. Chit-chat about the prompt for a few messages then either ask for the # then set it up, or set it up on the app then give out your #

 

[Koli_Kat]

Unmatch them

How would that change anything though?

 

[Reality]

How y'all deal with chicks not responding or stopping after a few messages & how long y'all wait before asking a woman out?

I get more matches than messages at this point

I usually like to get convos going on Tuesday evening and try to set something up for that same weekend. You're far out enough for them to not have plans yet, but close enough to (hopefully) weed out flaking.

In terms of chicks not responding, I usually just move on. If she's legit a 9 or 10, I might do a hailmary 2nd message, but it's rare that they re-engage after a convo falls off. It's usually over if the convo dies without you getting their #.

 

[Canon]

How would that change anything though?

they just want attention

those girls who stopped responding are neeeeeeever gonna hang out with you

 

[Koli_Kat]

they just want attention

those girls who stopped responding are neeeeeeever gonna hang out with you

I agree, just saying that unmatching would be a waste of energy.

 

[Urbanmiracle]

Don’t gonna lie breh, still missing shorty that ghosted me only after a month of dating. Taking time to clear my head. I did have 3 dates since then, 2 with the same woman. She cool but she kinda particular but we vibe and talk pretty well. The other woman she into me a lot, I got brunch with her tomorrow. Not gonna rush anything and just enjoy the moments for what they are. Cuz as I’ve learned, one day they all into you, next day they don’t even remember you exist

 

[Ahadi]

Classic Quotes.

I was about to take a girl out, then I remembered.

The less money I spend on women, the more p*ssy I get. I know cats that are going out on 3-4 dates a week and just getting a hug at the end of the night. I just tell chicks to come over the crib for drinks and most are down for it. I feel sorry for the dudes blowing hundreds of dollars on chicks each week with no play.

Yup. These women will keep taking these free dates as long as these nikkaz keep offering. brehs gotta smarten up, the power is in our hand.

 

[Ahadi]

I agree, just saying that unmatching would be a waste of energy.

Not at all. Unmatching shows you value yourself and your time.

If you decide to let them sit & they do wana hang out with you, they’re just bored and you’ll be wasting money because the attraction is lukewarm or none at all.

Personally, I Unmatch if the convo is dry or they don’t respond to my initial comment on hinge. I don’t trust this “screenshot” generation, so I try to keep my messages limited and as less goofy as possible.

Not tryna be West Elm Caleb

 

[MollyGalaga]

/EndWholeThread

whole thing is funny (to me), I was saying that in relation to going out to bars


I hear yall 1000%

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

my bad if this topic been to death

how y’all feel about text responsiveness ?

This a.m., I hit up this chick about a playlist she was supposed to send me. *crickets*

I check IG in the p.m. and she’s been posting stories. Am I petty for being annoyed at this? The last text she sent was about thanking me for inviting her out to go bowling with my friends and wanting to hangout more.

I know. Spare me the sermon of : “This is why you need to be talking to multiple girls”.

Women are so fickle

 

[Ahadi]

my bad if this topic been to death

how y’all feel about text responsiveness ?

This a.m., I hit up this chick about a playlist she was supposed to send me. *crickets*

I check IG in the p.m. and she’s been posting stories. Am I petty for being annoyed at this? The last text she sent was about thanking me for inviting her out to go bowling with my friends and wanting to hangout more.

I know. Spare me the sermon of : “This is why you need to be talking to multiple girls”.

Women are so fickle

Yup. You said it yourself, just keep multiple plates spinning. Don’t invest anything into these women, just play the game and protect yourself.

Look for women who actually give you the same energy back.

 

[twan83]

my bad if this topic been to death

how y’all feel about text responsiveness ?

This a.m., I hit up this chick about a playlist she was supposed to send me. *crickets*

I check IG in the p.m. and she’s been posting stories. Am I petty for being annoyed at this? The last text she sent was about thanking me for inviting her out to go bowling with my friends and wanting to hangout more.

I know. Spare me the sermon of : “This is why you need to be talking to multiple girls”.

Women are so fickle

2 ways
Like @Mufasa Ahadi said reason to have a rotation aka a roster cuz on to the next one
Also if u don’t have a roster whether by choice or just don’t want one
Just don’t pay her attention and go do a hobby u like workout , video games , reading , movies etc…
Don’t take it too seriously that we’ll definitely make it easier cuz it be like oh well her lost and if she comeback around more serious I just use her as a low fukk buddy status whether she knows it or not till she earns that right back to even be talking status cuz she demoted to low fukk buddy status or hit and quit status
Low fukk buddy status is where I really don’t give a fukk don’t talk too me unless u wanna fukk
Regular fukk buddy status we can kick it at times be civil but still keep it fukk buddy with some small privileges such as fitting u on my schedule and may make some time changes. Low fukk buddy has only that time I say no compromises

 

[The ADD]

my bad if this topic been to death

how y’all feel about text responsiveness ?

This a.m., I hit up this chick about a playlist she was supposed to send me. *crickets*

I check IG in the p.m. and she’s been posting stories. Am I petty for being annoyed at this? The last text she sent was about thanking me for inviting her out to go bowling with my friends and wanting to hangout more.

I know. Spare me the sermon of : “This is why you need to be talking to multiple girls”.

Women are so fickle

I get it but are y’all even in a space where you should be annoyed? I can’t tell what the situation is between y’all from what you posted.

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

I get it but are y’all even in a space where you should be annoyed? I can’t tell what the situation is between y’all from what you posted.

this was a good ass question

We’re in the early talking stages. Honestly if I didn’t see that she was posting IG stories, I wouldn’t have cared that much. Also, I know if I’m feeling someone, I’m not going to ignore they text all day.

 

[MikelArteta]

my bad if this topic been to death

how y’all feel about text responsiveness ?

This a.m., I hit up this chick about a playlist she was supposed to send me. *crickets*

I check IG in the p.m. and she’s been posting stories. Am I petty for being annoyed at this? The last text she sent was about thanking me for inviting her out to go bowling with my friends and wanting to hangout more.

I know. Spare me the sermon of : “This is why you need to be talking to multiple girls”.

Women are so fickle

I live by the focus on women who focus on you.

Makes things so much easier.
And no you’re not petty , everyone checks their phone every few minutes in this generation. And people reply back to those they are interested in.

When a woman is interested in you nowadays it should be like she's so annoying like a mosquito

I also agree with the rotation it makes things so much easier and helps with the frustration. In the end the one that will stay will stay. And as well you can evaluate.

Example the nurse I was talking to who flaked on me it was like pulling teeth to ever meet up excuse after excuse.

The 26 year old same thing, always busy or this or that. If I never messaged never ever got a message.

The doctor was cool but just way to busy.

The jamaican girl I met up with twice got angry and stopped talking to me because one of my deal breakers was cheating

Even remember the last girl I was sort of dealing with who got angry at me because I had to cancel a date and couldn't let it go

Yet my girl I called she answered, I asked to meet up we met up. I had to cancel a date a few hours before and she understood.