Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Married brehs…

me and my wife have been married for about 8months now and here in the last month she hasn’t been in the mood for sex. I may have smashed a couple times in the last two weeks compared to before we were having sex 5-7 times a week.

Every time I ask what’s going on and why haven’t we been getting intimate lately she just says “I don’t know” or “I’m just not in the mood.” I’ve been trying to be patient and not pressure her into doing anything but it’s starting to get frustrating…

Get married brehs :francis:


Maybe buy lingerie or a weekend getaway?
 

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In longterm relationships, it's important to keep things exciting, with various dates, trips out of town, vacations, introduce sex toys, run her a bath with rose petals and candles, give her a massage. Etc

Never let your woman get bored. Women will always crave excitement & spontaneity. In long term relationships, continue to court & date your woman or she will get bored.

How do you look physically, are you in the gym improving your physique?

I guess I could try and be more romantic though and I haven’t been in the gym since the pandemic started :mjlol: but I’ve actually lost 19 pounds from from just eating healthier/drinking alcohol less often
 

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Married brehs…

me and my wife have been married for about 8months now and here in the last month she hasn’t been in the mood for sex. I may have smashed a couple times in the last two weeks compared to before we were having sex 5-7 times a week.

Every time I ask what’s going on and why haven’t we been getting intimate lately she just says “I don’t know” or “I’m just not in the mood.” I’ve been trying to be patient and not pressure her into doing anything but it’s starting to get frustrating…

Get married brehs :francis:
Oh oh.. you’re about to get 5-10 different responses on what you “should” do.... but you know what’s up bruh. What it too
Married brehs…

me and my wife have been married for about 8months now and here in the last month she hasn’t been in the mood for sex. I may have smashed a couple times in the last two weeks compared to before we were having sex 5-7 times a week.

Every time I ask what’s going on and why haven’t we been getting intimate lately she just says “I don’t know” or “I’m just not in the mood.” I’ve been trying to be patient and not pressure her into doing anything but it’s starting to get frustrating…

Get married brehs :francis:
how long were y’all together before you got married?
 

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Married brehs…

me and my wife have been married for about 8months now and here in the last month she hasn’t been in the mood for sex. I may have smashed a couple times in the last two weeks compared to before we were having sex 5-7 times a week.

Every time I ask what’s going on and why haven’t we been getting intimate lately she just says “I don’t know” or “I’m just not in the mood.” I’ve been trying to be patient and not pressure her into doing anything but it’s starting to get frustrating…

Get married brehs :francis:
If your bytch don't wanna fukk you get a new bytch.
 

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Oh oh.. you’re about to get 5-10 different responses on what you “should” do.... but you know what’s up bruh. What it too

how long were y’all together before you got married?
Engaged after 1 year married a year later
 

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So this might be the old dog in me… but I think game and pickup lines are two different things. That guys get mixed up to their detriment. Like Game is mutual attraction and showing confidence and being funny/interesting. You can’t learn it, like a script, it’s a mindset. It’s basically the art of just being likable and approachable. Its easier if you look good, but you can talk your way into being likable too.

The only legit “pickup line” is having something she wants (drugs, alcohol, a meal, etc.) and inviting her to share it with you. Even then when she comes over you still have to have game to make something happen. Which is where the issue of Simps kick in. They understand the idea of “sharing with a woman to attract them”, but either share too much or give it all away thinking that can compensate for being likable. Which works with Escorts but these days that line is blurrier than ever.

Flipside the only “pickup line” you need for a woman you already been with sexually is “I been thinking about you” and if she responds you got to still have game to make her give you a second chance. Not as much, but she can’t hate you. Which is why messy breakups (unless you hate her) is counterintuitive.

Basically a lot of lonely men need to focus on being more approachable and likable and they will start to meet women. I actually think a lot of problems is more men need to have female friends to realize women are people who aren’t some monolithic thing they have to have rules when dealing with. There are no rules for women, just don’t be dumb, mean, or weird and you’ll do better. Even if you are out of shape/ugly/short, you can find a out of shape/ugly/short woman to give you some play if you are approachable and likable. You can do better than your equivalent if you’re that and have something interesting they want to share with you like drinks/drugs/a meal, etc.

Like the high value male talk is relevant but if you have a shytty personality and come off as unapproachable you’re still not going to get women interested in you.

Then you can start to get into escalating and de-escalating relationships but that is a whole other level.
 

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In longterm relationships, it's important to keep things exciting, with various dates, trips out of town, vacations, introduce sex toys, run her a bath with rose petals and candles, give her a massage. Etc

Never let your woman get bored. Women will always crave excitement & spontaneity. In long term relationships, continue to court & date your woman or she will get bored.

How do you look physically, are you in the gym improving your physique?

aka be a slave. You mention nothing about the women doing anything.

in reality when a woman knows other women want you she will he in her A Game. When she stops doing stuff she knows she defeated you and you have no where to go (because a man with options would leave her or go sleep with other women, not come to an online message board to vent)
 

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aka be a slave. You mention nothing about the women doing anything.

in reality when a woman knows other women want you she will he in her A Game. When she stops doing stuff she knows she defeated you and you have no where to go (because a man with options would leave her or go sleep with other women, not come to an online message board to vent)
Exactly. Can’t believe we got nikkas in here talking about running bath water and shyt for bytches. :mjlol::mjlol::mjlol:
Using sex toys to get your wife in the mood. :hhh::hhh::hhh:
 

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Was talkn to this “alpha” bytch from oakland lol

she didnt even last 5 mins


Chatted with this pawg…she said i seem kinda aggressive for askn for her #…she doesnt feel comfortable yet….bytch its day 3 :mjpls:
 

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Was talkn to this “alpha” bytch from oakland lol

she didnt even last 5 mins


Chatted with this pawg…she said i seem kinda aggressive for askn for her #…she doesnt feel comfortable yet….bytch its day 3 :mjpls:
aggressive because other dudes ask for her socials
 
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