What’s a successful relationship ?
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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exactly lol, dudes gotta stop using fairy tale terms and define their own personal requirements. Only then can they personally say their needs are being met or not, and if they aren't being met at least examine if these are things they can live without, things that can be adapted, or something unacceptable.
I took a massive big L today I’m disgusted in myself
This nurse flaked on me Monday but then messaged me today how we can do lunch. Only for one minute before when we were supposed to meet how she’s so sorry she forgot to let me know earlier but she’s swamped
Never give anyone who flakes on you a second chance I had to touch the hot stove
I didn’t even respond and just deleted and blocked her number
This nurse flaked on me Monday but then messaged me today how we can do lunch. Only for one minute before when we were supposed to meet how she’s so sorry she forgot to let me know earlier but she’s swamped
Never give anyone who flakes on you a second chance I had to touch the hot stove
I didn’t even respond and just deleted and blocked her number
I took a massive big L today I’m disgusted in myself
This nurse flaked on me Monday but then messaged me today how we can do lunch. Only for one minute before when we were supposed to meet how she’s so sorry she forgot to let me know earlier but she’s swamped
Never give anyone who flakes on you a second chance I had to touch the hot stove
I didn’t even respond and just deleted and blocked her number
I misread disregard
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I’ll say this they are content with their relationship the successful part just depends is it the job status or relationship status cuz same answer not bad not good just content
Lord Bison
Superstar
Summer around the corner + covid on the verge of being “over” (everyone relaxing mandates), i hope yall boys spent this time grinding and not just crying
if you handled your business its about to be game time
Been in the gym tough since late December to prepare for the summer. Been out the game for a while but ready to come back like Jordan with the 45.
Winter is here...but Summer is coming.
just make sure you set a goal before you enter the field and stick to it.Been in the gym tough since late December to prepare for the summer. Been out the game for a while but ready to come back like Jordan with the 45.
Winter is here...but Summer is coming.
lotta dudes act like they finna just run through chicks and end up cuffing first chick they meet and enter this thread talmbout "I found the one brehs"
lol. Nothing wrong with relationships just be sure to once again set a goal and stick to it to avoid confusion.
Lord Bison
Superstar
Salute... that's good advice to hear breh.
Honestly I've been out the game for about two years while I sorted through personal and financial issues. All that's behind me though, rn I'm straight. Only real issue is that I need to drop 20-30 lbs to get the best results possible. So I been in the gym 5-6 days a week working on that. If brehs aint putting in that work for that summer body since around November, you going to be playing catch up right now in March.
Because I haven't dated in a while, my skills have went through atrophy. So right now I'm just going in with no expectation of a specific outcome. Just focus on building solid friendships with women I enjoy company with and pick from the ones that's choosing me.
I always used to complicate shyt and overthink things back when I was deep in the game. This time around imma keep it simple, get my rejections out the way so I can focus on the yes women I can work with.
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Salute... that's good advice to hear breh.
Honestly I've been out the game for about two years while I sorted through personal and financial issues. All that's behind me though, rn I'm straight. Only real issue is that I need to drop 20-30 lbs to get the best results possible. So I been in the gym 5-6 days a week working on that. If brehs aint putting in that work for that summer body since around November, you going to be playing catch up right now in March.
Because I haven't dated in a while, my skills have went through atrophy. So right now I'm just going in with no expectation of a specific outcome. Just focus on building solid friendships with women I enjoy company with and pick from the ones that's choosing me.
I always used to complicate shyt and overthink things back when I was deep in the game. This time around imma keep it simple, get my rejections out the way so I can focus on the yes women I can work with.
this is why hobbies and living life is important. Because if you focused on self but learning and experiencing new things you still have things to talk about.
NoirDynosaur
Yurrrrrrrrrr
For the first part: Con-fid-ence. It can overshadow the shortcomings we have as people. It’s all about audacity. The nerve of you to walk over to a “9”, smile, AND blurt out something engaging while being the untraditional standards of beauty she tweets about
for the second part, I have two schools of thought with it:
1) chemistry & attraction.
It’s not about what is brung to the table, it’s about how comfortable the chairs are.
Although it’s important for substance later in the relationship, all that high value, lyrical miracle spiritual shyt isn’t necessary to attract a woman. Can you make her laugh? Are you a fun person to be around? Can she let her guard down with you? Regards of her status, the excitement of being around you matters.
Hood/Broke brehs, for better or worse, don’t care about logistics and don’t take life or themselves too seriously. A woman who already has enough stress in her life would rather kick back with a breh and turn off her brain than be “mentally stimulated” by a guy who has nothing else to offer besides intellectual conversations.. ESPECIALLY if she’s 18-25 Now, those same women are birds for allowing FUN to dictate who becomes their baby’s father, but that’s another topic.
Point is, we as men over complicate things by suppressing the fun/juvenile side of ourselves. Ask wild hypotheticals. Flirt. Make fun of her forehead or outfit.
2) False perception. On the outside, the relationship may look like polar opposites, but behind closed doors it makes sense. Ignore the accolades, her degrees, her two parent household, her modest apparel, her community service work, and just simply watch her actions. Some of these women are broken inside and their ain’t shyt partner is a perfect match for them.. regardless of how they look aesthetically.
The ills of growing up. When I was a kid, I was often appalled how adults were "too serious" and always "uptight". Our "inner child/fun side" is what makes situations way more animated, exuberant and vigorous. Without a sense of humor, this world would be lifeless as fukk
VertigoKnight
Veteran
Salute... that's good advice to hear breh.
Honestly I've been out the game for about two years while I sorted through personal and financial issues. All that's behind me though, rn I'm straight. Only real issue is that I need to drop 20-30 lbs to get the best results possible. So I been in the gym 5-6 days a week working on that. If brehs aint putting in that work for that summer body since around November, you going to be playing catch up right now in March.
Because I haven't dated in a while, my skills have went through atrophy. So right now I'm just going in with no expectation of a specific outcome. Just focus on building solid friendships with women I enjoy company with and pick from the ones that's choosing me.
I always used to complicate shyt and overthink things back when I was deep in the game. This time around imma keep it simple, get my rejections out the way so I can focus on the yes women I can work with.
This is the way.
Nowadays I ask myself if I wasn't fukking this woman could I stand to be around her? does she fulfil me mentally as well as physically, do we teach and learn things from each and be open and understanding as well as being able to challenge one another and be egoless enough to be called out when the situation calls for it.
I used to smash a ton of chicks with no real outcome, just to smash. Since late 2019 and then with covid shutting shyt down. I’ve slowed down and been more thoughtful and purposeful of the kinda energy I want to surround myself with and also to leave with the women I see.
The women I’m currently seeing all have the same line of thinking less bullshyt and games and more openness and honesty and I’ve discussed with them the moment they no longer feel that, we can break things off respectfully.
I want to leave any woman I get with more happy and fulfilled rather than a bitter husk thats going to take it out on the next guy who comes into her life.
Straw Hat Luffy
Veteran
Man how this goofy hoe flake then set up another meeting just to flake againI took a massive big L today I’m disgusted in myself
This nurse flaked on me Monday but then messaged me today how we can do lunch. Only for one minute before when we were supposed to meet how she’s so sorry she forgot to let me know earlier but she’s swamped
Never give anyone who flakes on you a second chance I had to touch the hot stove
I didn’t even respond and just deleted and blocked her number
Summer around the corner + covid on the verge of being “over” (everyone relaxing mandates), i hope yall boys spent this time grinding and not just crying
if you handled your business its about to be game time
Incoming “Wearing t shirts to pool parties are fire”
Salute... that's good advice to hear breh.
Honestly I've been out the game for about two years while I sorted through personal and financial issues. All that's behind me though, rn I'm straight. Only real issue is that I need to drop 20-30 lbs to get the best results possible. So I been in the gym 5-6 days a week working on that. If brehs aint putting in that work for that summer body since around November, you going to be playing catch up right now in March.
Because I haven't dated in a while, my skills have went through atrophy. So right now I'm just going in with no expectation of a specific outcome. Just focus on building solid friendships with women I enjoy company with and pick from the ones that's choosing me.
I always used to complicate shyt and overthink things back when I was deep in the game. This time around imma keep it simple, get my rejections out the way so I can focus on the yes women I can work with.
Yup. Have fun.
Don’t set any expectations and continue working on yourself. No pressure at all.