Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Rozay Oro

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Married brehs…

me and my wife have been married for about 8months now and here in the last month she hasn’t been in the mood for sex. I may have smashed a couple times in the last two weeks compared to before we were having sex 5-7 times a week.

Every time I ask what’s going on and why haven’t we been getting intimate lately she just says “I don’t know” or “I’m just not in the mood.” I’ve been trying to be patient and not pressure her into doing anything but it’s starting to get frustrating…

Get married brehs :francis:
I’m sorry to hear that
 

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A quick session before bed every night is mandatory for me. My woman is supposed to be naked in bed when im in the bed with her.
i get tired of fukkin the same bytch i guess. for me once or twice a week good. but i like fukkin new girls

that being said ive never lived with a girl. if the p*ssy right there and accessob;e id prolly be fukkin it more often
 

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It was like I was in a queue of weirdos and large women. It was strange.
instant swipe left on women tatted up everywhere, women that smoke blunts as her first picture, any social media handle in bio, agnostic, I could keep going on.

I’ve probably been in a queue where a woman has been “disappointed” in the options. We all got preferences
 

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I remember a few years ago I noticed a chick I was dealing with trying to start that "not in the mood" shyt. A lot of the time women do that as a power move. What did I do? I "accidently" forgot t lock my phone before going to sleep one night. Woke up to shawty doming me up crazy. Give that woman some dread in her life and she'll never try those sex games with you.
Salute

I’ve never been in this situation but will definitely remember this for her future
 

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ur right and wrong imo
U don’t do all that romantic shyt if u never were in the first place because that’s not how u got her in first place
Not saying not at all but I feel u do that on rare occasions it’s more impactful especially outta of blue nothing expensive
There has to be balance on what got u to get her and keeping that same drive as a chase cuz people get complacent too easy

I do think a variety of different Dates goes a long way and talking to each other of what expectations you have or would like to keep things in perspective
Like hey u down for bondage or do u want more movie dates etc
Communication is the KEY

I agree, don’t be too romantic she’ll take it for granted and eventually become numb to it.
Married brehs…

me and my wife have been married for about 8months now and here in the last month she hasn’t been in the mood for sex. I may have smashed a couple times in the last two weeks compared to before we were having sex 5-7 times a week.

Every time I ask what’s going on and why haven’t we been getting intimate lately she just says “I don’t know” or “I’m just not in the mood.” I’ve been trying to be patient and not pressure her into doing anything but it’s starting to get frustrating…

Get married brehs :francis:
i was going to write a whole thing about building up attraction thinking you was in a drought… have you considered having sex less but doing it longer and rougher? Like wear her ass out when you do have sex and then just live your life. 3-4 times but really put the work in so she is open to sneaking in the occasional quicky.
 

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I agree, don’t be too romantic she’ll take it for granted and eventually become numb to it.

i was going to write a whole thing about building up attraction thinking you was in a drought… have you considered having sex less but doing it longer and rougher? Like wear her ass out when you do have sex and then just live your life. 3-4 times but really put the work in so she is open to sneaking in the occasional quicky.
I say rougher more so than longer depending how long u talking cuz efficient sex is better than longer sex
Ex: 1 hour = 2 orgasm
30 mins = 4 orgasm
Also it actually may increase the sex cuz u know how it goes if u hit it a certain way not necessarily how many nuts it is it’s more so how turned on she is and how strong a nut can be cuz she can get multiple but they ain’t strong but get one strong one it’s over for her therefore makes her want u more
It’s y I tell brehs not how long u last and do it it’s how efficient u are doing it
 

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Everyone can win brehs.

You just need to know who YOU are, what’s your vision for the person you want to be, & see who in YOUR specific MARKET fits those requirements.
 

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After a break up, how long do u suggest to take time to work on yourself before dating.

Broke up with my ex end of January, got my first date since the break up next week.

Always stay in a constant flux of working yourself, with or without women. Whether I'm plucking a bird or roasting her over time, I'm always about me. She jumps through your hoops, and you keep working on chasing excellence.
 
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