Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Abraxus

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What kind of attitude do yall have with women? arrogant? cocky? conceited? nonchalant? very interested? nice and friendly? goofy? reserved? dominant?

I keep getting friend zoned...or the girls I don't want, want me :patrice:

All and sometimes, none of that but I always test the waters with sexual innuendos and probes. If she never responds or doesn’t say anything or deflects I hit her with the zone first! Be like we not vibing or out energy isn’t melding so I’m moving on. Nice to meet you though! Leave that nice guy bullshyt all the way out! Also appear and he busy! Hoes love that cause they dumbasses. :lolbron:
 

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What kind of attitude do yall have with women? arrogant? cocky? conceited? nonchalant? very interested? nice and friendly? goofy? reserved? dominant?

I keep getting friend zoned...or the girls I don't want, want me :patrice:

a idgaf attitude ur on my program not yours
My time is more valuable than yours show ur worth or :camby:
 

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She just had a lot of good qualities she cooks and cleans looks good has a job but shes 34 and any women like that still single at 34 makes you wonder. but I hear you just want to see whats up with her.
There’s so many women like this at 30. Like dude above said, move how you want to move. They don’t hold the leverage
 

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Looking like my boy got ghosted.

I’ve mentioned him in this thread multiple times, the amount of dating L’s his taken has been astounding.

He met this chick on Hinge, she’s British but lives in Vancouver now, they’re into similar things, the outdoors, skiing and hiking.

They had been on three dates, and he followed my suggestions about kissing a woman if he feels the energy is there which he did on the second date.

She invited him impromptu onto a third date beach walk where they kissed again and then he suggested they go get dinner this past Thursday, day of the date, she cancels with no real reason and then he messages her on the Friday, still no reply from her but she’s read the message.

He had 4 conversations going on when he met this chick and stopped the others to focus on her. I did warn him not to focus all his attention on just one chick as you could get into situations like this. Where she bails and you’re left with nada and your other convos will be hard to pick back up.

I haven’t spoken to him in depth as I’ve been busy with my chicks. But he was really into her and maybe that was the problem? She probably felt he was trying to lock her down.

I’ve told him before he needed to hold back from too much text chit chat and save that for in person. And that you need to smash some of these chicks within 2-3 meets or at least get her into a sexual mindset. Where she anticipates and wants you sexually. This is where being too much of a ‘gentlemen' can be a hindrance a woman want to be seduced by you, not tell you she’s ready for sex.

Female friends of ours have told him that he gives off too much of a 'nice guy’ vibe. You don't need to be a scumbag but some friendly aggression can go a long way.
 
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