Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Seen my ex wife twice in three weeks.

First time was at a bar quiz night. I know she saw me but we both :unimpressed:

On Sunday I was walking with one of my chicks in my hood. Look across the road at my local hipster coffee place and see a familiar figure sitting with 2 other chicks. I'm like that's my ex sitting outside. She's like do you want to go say hello?
:troll:

I don't know if she's moved back to Van. I know at some point we'll run into each other face to face tbh, at this point. Any awkwardness I fear has dissipated.
 

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Seen my ex wife twice in three weeks.

First time was at a bar quiz night. I know she saw me but we both :unimpressed:

On Sunday I was walking with one of my chicks in my hood. Look across the road at my local hipster coffee place and see a familiar figure sitting with 2 other chicks. I'm like that's my ex sitting outside. She's like do you want to go say hello?
:troll:

I don't know if she's moved back to Van. I know at some point we'll run into each other face to face tbh, at this point. Any awkwardness I fear has dissipated.

So far you're doing everything right....I just don't like how close everyone is to each other, I don't like that at all.
 

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so i finally signed up to the mma gym ive been talking about. Did the bjj and muay thai class today.

its scary to think how right my mind body and finances are about to be this spring and summer:wow:

trying to leave women alone for now but they still be hitting ya boy up :francis:

Always great to see, I love boxing and wrestling myself, honestly, I'm just looking to see all my brown brothers strong, always stay strong, we're gonna age like fine wine, but always be the strongest man in the room.
 

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So far you're doing everything right....I just don't like how close everyone is to each other, I don't like that at all.

Not gonna lie. Initially seeing her unsettled me for a bit. I had gotten used to never seeing her again and being happy with that.

But I've certainly moved passed feeling any romantic notions towards her or wanting to be friends.

I don't particularly want to interact with her.
 

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Seen my ex wife twice in three weeks.

First time was at a bar quiz night. I know she saw me but we both :unimpressed:

On Sunday I was walking with one of my chicks in my hood. Look across the road at my local hipster coffee place and see a familiar figure sitting with 2 other chicks. I'm like that's my ex sitting outside. She's like do you want to go say hello?
:troll:

I don't know if she's moved back to Van. I know at some point we'll run into each other face to face tbh, at this point. Any awkwardness I fear has dissipated.

That's why I'm glad my ex wife moved back to Birmingham. I haven't seen her since we split and all her people are from up there or in Surrey. No animosity, but I can imagine how unsettling it would be bumping into her again. That used to be my fear initially cos we had mutual friends here.

At least your ex gets to see you with all those 'paags'. :russ: They always say the best revenge is living well. :win:
 

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thoughts on showing up to a date late or early? Bout to meet up with someone for the first time. Im usually few minutes early but feel like I should be late I dubo. I'm usually early for shyt in general.
 

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thoughts on showing up to a date late or early? Bout to meet up with someone for the first time. Im usually few minutes early but feel like I should be late I dubo. I'm usually early for shyt in general.

you should show up the time you show up. Why do you “feel” like you should be late?
 

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thoughts on showing up to a date late or early? Bout to meet up with someone for the first time. Im usually few minutes early but feel like I should be late I dubo. I'm usually early for shyt in general.

Just be on time. I wouldn't tolerate lateness from a chick. It's disrespectful and my time is valuable.
 

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Not gonna lie. Initially seeing her unsettled me for a bit. I had gotten used to never seeing her again and being happy with that.

But I've certainly moved passed feeling any romantic notions towards her or wanting to be friends.

I don't particularly want to interact with her.


Yeah been there when you can finally see them and not feel that pit or anxious you’re good
 

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Always great to see, I love boxing and wrestling myself, honestly, I'm just looking to see all my brown brothers strong, always stay strong, we're gonna age like fine wine, but always be the strongest man in the room.
yessir!:salute:

I pledged to myself i wouldnt drink a drop of alcohol this year also... im trying to get to that next level breh. Right now i feel like a god. :ahh:
 
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