Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[OmegaK2099]

Vulnerability is very risky, but it feels cool to get shyt off your mind cause we're human. However, there's levels to opening up, I notice that women love winners, be sure to add a victory to your story.

At my class, I vibes with this sista, but I never talked about my issues. Cool vibes, flirting, humor and pleasantry is my game.

I hide complaining and talking about my problems with women, I feel like that stunts a connection instead of building one. Besides us men are problem solvers and leaders, lead away fellas!

Learned my lesson the hard way, NEVER vent to a bytch. They eventually use that against you or if it's a broad you're into they'll only see you as that gay best friend.

 

[Serious]

I understand women askin for ig if ya’ll match on dating apps...

But if you vibin with a jawn in person...why do you want my ig?

You see me...

No filters, no alternate reality....

But yet you still want my ig?

I don’t even have ig

I always tell I don’t have it because i having my data out there.


Once I drop this gem women back off like

How Target Figured Out A Teen Girl Was Pregnant Before Her Father Did

 

[RealAssanova]

Background research man. They want to see what you are into, who you’re connected with, and what you are about.



some people use it as a way to gauge people. I personally like looking at women’s IG pages to see how they look in different outfits and different settings. I also like to see how those legs and toes are looking lol

Yea i kno lol...but still

Can’t tell you how many hoes i vibed with and when i said i don’t have ig i lost em

another follower in the follower count. At this point it’s custom to ask for someone’s IG. I understand it for screening purposes.. but if you met me irl and see I’m a normal dude…

That’s what i’m sayin

You see me live in the flesh, confident, no filters....

Sure they may not be interested...but when you get the impression they are and ya’ll both grown...

I always tell I don’t have it because i having my data out there.


Once I drop this gem women back off like

How Target Figured Out A Teen Girl Was Pregnant Before Her Father Did

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

almost texted her but came into this thread instead. you know deep down it's a bad idea but you still want to try. night times seem to be the worse. Spent an hour at the boxing gym just to come home and think about her dumb ass.

 

[Rozay Oro]

I got to cut off shorty. I decided I wanted to talk to her on phone. She’s mad insecure and sensitive. Wtf. She even making a big deal that I chuckled at some of these crazy ass conclusions.

Woman love chaos or seek love out of chaos. If you’re too affectionate she runs away, if you’re too distant she seeks conflict.

Crazy bytches

 

[Abraxus]

Yea i kno lol...but still

Can’t tell you how many hoes i vibed with and when i said i don’t have ig i lost em



That’s what i’m sayin

You see me live in the flesh, confident, no filters....

Sure they may not be interested...but when you get the impression they are and ya’ll both grown...

Any mf tell me to contact her on FB or Instagram is looking for free validation and bullshytting. She don’t like you that much if she throwing you under the bridge with the trolls and when you give them your social media they find ways to not like you. I’m not contacting nobody on IG or FB or none of that bullshyt.

 

[Bossyyyyy]

Everything you said in this post is exactly what those redpill channels, feminist groups, and the rest of the world wants you to believe.

for starters: WHAT A WOMAN ASKS FOR =/= WHAT A WOMAN GETS/ACTUALLY WANTS. She can say all the silly qualifications she wants, but none of them matter.

Most men don’t hold women to any standards or rules. That’s why they can balloon up to 300 pounds and think it’s acceptable. That’s why they can beg for $$$ off the rip. Some men understand they should, but are mentally weak to do so. Why do you think these fellas worship or look up to how monks move?

That’s for you to discover based on your previous experiences and life experience.

Elaborate on your first paragraph

 

[MikelArteta]

I got like 5 roses today on hinge I guess they put me in the spotlight



anyways just got back from my date
chick was 26 and im 36 she didn't believe i was 36 till i showed her my id

i dunno whats with me and nigerian women but yet again, i think like 95% of the women I've canoodled and cavorted with in the past year have been nigerian.

This chick looked 20 times better than she did in her photos, her body was . She was going to take an uber and i was like nah I'll drive you home.


two weeks ago I had a date with 36 year old but now I think i'm done with any women in their 30's for a while

sets hinge 24-29

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Elaborate on your first paragraph

Society has told AND shown a lot of dudes that their standards, opinions, and concerns don’t matter in a relationship or during the dating phase.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yea i kno lol...but still

Can’t tell you how many hoes i vibed with and when i said i don’t have ig i lost em



That’s what i’m sayin

You see me live in the flesh, confident, no filters....

Sure they may not be interested...but when you get the impression they are and ya’ll both grown...

I've had the same thing, women think I'm hiding something or that its so weird I don't have an ig.

I've been accused of being married or having children

 

[MikelArteta]

almost texted her but came into this thread instead. you know deep down it's a bad idea but you still want to try. night times seem to be the worse. Spent an hour at the boxing gym just to come home and think about her dumb ass.

Breh trust me as someone who has been there multiple times nothing good comes from it.

It's like a drug addict doing another hit sending the text feels good then you kick yourself. Because it goes nowhere, she only views you as a friend now and its perfectly fine texting you back and forth etc. but you don't get what you want. You feel good for a second then want to kick yourself.

As time goes on the addiction dies and you'll be fine.

 

[MikelArteta]

Learned my lesson the hard way, NEVER vent to a bytch. They eventually use that against you or if it's a broad you're into they'll only see you as that gay best friend.

yep whatever you open upa nd tell women they will use it as a weapon when necessary

oh i was married before but my wife left me

when things aren't goin well ah I see why your wife left you now

 

[Ahadi]

I've had the same thing, women think I'm hiding something or that its so weird I don't have an ig.

I've been accused of being married or having children

Just make a low key profile. It won’t hurt. Buy a couple 100 followers, add cool photos. That’s it.

IG helps if anything

 

[Ahadi]

Background research man. They want to see what you are into, who you’re connected with, and what you are about.



some people use it as a way to gauge people. I personally like looking at women’s IG pages to see how they look in different outfits and different settings. I also like to see how those legs and toes are looking lol

This.

Brehs should be using this to their advantage. Show your value. You don’t need a bunch of followers, just quality pics.

I look up the girls I’m talking too, just in case.

 

[Killigraphy]

Why are dudes such simps? Shyts disgusting, Ill admit i was guilty of being a simp in the sense I took this woman's shyt because I was depressed, suicidal and didn't know no better. But I had a dude I used to casually vent to about shyt that went and snitched everything we were talking about to my ex to appear like the sensitive guy to her or some shyt. Then this other cat who I actually knew and talked to... would talk shyt to me for fukking with the broad then he found out what I was going through mentally then started sending me selfies my ex took of herself acting like they were talking telling me to kill myself and did the same thing as the first dude. Later on out of curiosity I scoped my ex's page and that guy was all on there heart liking all her pics.

I've since cut ties with mad people and only keep around some solid people I could trust and are truly beneficial to where I want to be in life. But man, yall gotta be careful out there when you're fukking with beautiful women. Dudes get funny.

The majority of men are simps/squares. Being complacent is easier and or viewed as less "stressful". Truthfully, its not an era thing, simps have existed since the beginning of time. Best believe even cavemen had a bunch of squares who just wanted to gather berries and beetles with the women. This era has just made it easier to throw money at them and see them....not even naked. To me this is the same as paying to see porn, when you literally have a PC in your pocket. Most people like the easy way in, and or to point at a relatively pretty girl and say "I know her".

Makes it easier for men like me, if a girl who has the upper body strength of a kitten is somehow controlling your wallet, life, and decision making, then an old wolf like me, deserves every drop of blood I can draw.